Introduction:
Life is like a one-way trip, and the years that come quietly gradually swallow up most of your life. Time flies, and everyone is getting old inadvertently. Teacher Cai Kangyong once said: "Be kind to yourself, that is the person who will be with you for the longest time." "In the first half of our lives, we may have worked hard for our children, for our families, and for our livelihoods. But as we grow older, we should know how to cherish ourselves. In the old years, it is a kind of wisdom to learn to be moderately selfish and pursue your own happiness.
Love yourself selfishly :
As we get older, we should learn to take care of ourselves more. In the TV series "Xiaomin's Family", Wang Sumin chose to enter a nursing home in order to pursue her own life. She found that there were many like-minded friends who could share the moments of life together, rehearse the show together, and spend their old age together. Through this selfish choice, she gained more love and happiness. When people are old, they must know how to think about themselves, don't let their days be dull, and don't blindly settle. As Bi Shumin said: "Waiting for others to love you is better than trying to love yourself." "Learn to have more fun for yourself, care for your physical and mental health, and create a more colorful life in your old age.
Be selfish and reduce useless consumption:
In the old age, we should be more rational about money. The plot of Fang Bijin and Xu Wenchang's move in the TV series "An Home" reminds us that even if life slows down, there is not much time, so don't waste it on meaningless consumption. Know how to keep your money and not be swayed by comparisons and vanity. Instead of squandering money for the sake of other people's evaluations, keep a hole card for yourself. Reduce unnecessary consumption desires, get rid of ineffective socialization, and keep your wealth. In the later stages of life, maintaining a simple life and reducing material desires is a kind of subtraction for yourself.
Treat time and be selfish :
As the years go by, time becomes especially precious. In the TV series "An Home", Fang Bijin and Xu Wenchang walked through the streets that had been hurried by, and they were full of emotion. When life is fast-paced, many times we can't help ourselves. But as you get older, stop wasting time on meaningless things, seize the moment, plan your time carefully, and become a more meaningful version of yourself. Learn to use your time to pursue the life you want and realize your dreams. When people get older, they should be more selfish, no longer spend time on meaningless people and things, but live for their dreams.
Message: The key to a person's happiness in his old age lies in planning and management. As you grow old, you don't have to dwell on the past or worry too much about the future. Make a good plan for your present, manage it carefully, and make every day happy. Take care of your body, greet each day with a smile, love yourself a little more, keep your money, and stop wasting time and energy. In this world, the most important person is always yourself. When people are old, with gratitude and joy, they go to walk, see, and take care of their lives. Love yourself, fulfill more of your dreams, and let you have fewer regrets and more regrets in your later years.