There is an old saying that has survived to this day:"There are four kinds of family, and if you are not defeated, you will die".。This quote profoundly reveals the importance of harmony in a family and the four signs of family decay. The wisdom of our ancestors, although simple and clear, is full of profound meaning. A harmonious family is not something that can be built by the strength of one person alone, it requires the efforts of every member. What people say about "there are four kinds of family, undefeated and perish", which four phenomena are specific, let's take a look!
The first thing: poor tutoringFamily is the cradle of children's growth, and parents are the first educators of children. If a family lacks a rigorous education, children will not be able to establish correct values, outlook on life and worldview. They may become selfish, aloof, and even do things that break the law. In the long run, the harmony and prosperity of the family will be affected. Therefore, parents should set an example by educating their children strictly and nurturing them to become moral, knowledgeable, and responsible people.
The second thing: brotherly discordHarmony between siblings is the cornerstone of family harmony. When there is a sibling feud in a family, it often means that there is a rift between the family that is difficult to heal. If this situation is allowed to continue unchecked, the former brothers may drift apart and eventually become strangers. In daily life, we should be tolerant and compromised, and don't be too careful about trivial matters. Only in this way can the deep friendship between brothers be maintained and the harmony and unity of the family can be ensured. For the sake of family happiness and harmony, we should cherish family affection and not let our calculations ruin our precious brotherhood.
The third thing: discord between husband and wifeThe relationship between husband and wife is the most basic and important relationship in a family. If there are many contradictions between husband and wife, frequent quarrels and even cold wars, then there will be no happiness and harmony in the family. A good relationship between husband and wife should be one of mutual trust, mutual understanding, mutual support, and facing life's challenges together. Only in this way can the family be stable and have the strength to face external difficulties and pressures.
It is also important to note that the influence of the family environment on the child is very important, and if the child has lived in a family environment where there are frequent fights or fights since childhood, they are likely to develop a fear of marriage. This fear may lead them to choose not to marry and avoid repeating the mistakes of their parents. 
Fourth: gambling and alcoholismMany people think that small gambling is pleasant, but big gambling is harmful. However,Once at the table, people tend to be driven by speculation and feel that they can only get more out of betting big. This mindset leads many people to keep increasing their bets after losing a portion of their bets in an attempt to recoup their losses. WhileOnce they win, they want to win more, stuck in a cycle from which they can't help themselves. Eventually, they may lose all their wealth and family. Alcoholism is also a problem that cannot be ignored, drinking alcohol in moderation may not cause much harm to the body, but getting drunk often will not only affect the health and quality of life of the individual, but may also lead to domestic violence. I would also like to remind everyone that while enjoying entertainment, we must also maintain rationality and moderation to avoid falling into a predicament from which we cannot extricate ourselves.
There are four kinds of family, and if you are not defeated, you will die" is a profound warning of the importance of family harmony. The rise and fall of a family is closely related to the behavior and attitude of each family member. Every family is a warm harbor, let us protect the tranquility and beauty of this harbor together.
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