In May 2015, the weather in Wuhan was hot. One night, the atmosphere in the emergency department of Tongji Hospital became tense due to the arrival of a disabled couple.
The husband, who had difficulty walking, was soaked, and leaned over to hug his wife in a wheelchair with an anxious expression: "Doctor, hurry up!."Her water broke!”The following inquiries and inspection results made everyone present sweat in their hearts.
Emergency consultations began, and doctors began a quick preoperative evaluation of her. "The patient is 76 cm tall, has no lower limbs, has an incomplete pelvis, is pregnant through IVF, and is twins. ”
When the patient was 10 weeks pregnant, she developed gestational hypertension and was later hospitalized several times due to kidney failure and multi-organ failure. "The patient had a high fever when she was 4 months pregnant, and was warned that the fetus was at risk of cerebral palsy. ”
The patient was hospitalized with a placental abruption and hemorrhage at 20 weeks of pregnancy, and has now been preserved until 32 weeks. ”……The eyes of the medical staff in the emergency department, obstetrics and gynecology, anesthesiology, operating room and other related departments were moist: "She has fought like this, we have to fight no matter what!"”
This worrying pregnant woman is called Lu Juan, born in 1987, a native of Yingcheng, Hubei, and was originally a healthy girl. Although Lu Juan's home is in the countryside, her parents did their best to give her a lot of love, she used to love to laugh very much, and she was the "pistachio" of the family.
But when she was 15 years old, a major car accident on her way to school completely changed her fate.
Lu Juan not only lost her legs because of this, but most of her hip joints were also crushed, and after a high-level amputation, she became a formidable "half-amputated person". In particular, the doctor also tactfully told Lu Juan's parents in private that when she grows up, she will probably not be able to have children.
Lu Juan didn't know what the doctor said later, but she was in the prime of her youth, but she suffered a heavy blow to her body, and the mutilation of her limbs had already made her miserable. But Lu Juan couldn't even seek death. Because for a long time after the operation, she could only lie on the hospital bed and could not move at all.
The outside world is very exciting, but those seem to have nothing to do with Lu Juan, she stared at the ceiling with empty eyes, feeling that the world was gray.
"God spared you a life, but I didn't let you wait for death!Her father provoked her with distressed words: "There are many disabled people in this world, and many people are not as good as you, if they are all like you, no one will live?!."”
Looking at her parents who were suddenly aging, Lu Juan's heart was as uncomfortable as a pinprick. She suddenly understood that the accident had caused no less damage and pain to her parents than her, and she had to cheer up and not be able to burden them any more.
In this way, after lying in bed for 2 years, Lu Juan learned to sit little by little and learn basic self-care through continuous Xi practice. After learning to use a wheelchair, Lu Juan left her hometown village and went to Wuhan to learn how to repair Xi mobile phone, hoping to master a technology to make a living and support herself.
She studied very hard, worked hard, and was meticulous, and had a solid grasp of relevant skills.
After completing her studies, Lu Juan returned to her hometown Yingcheng, and with the financial support of her parents, she opened a small shop for repairing mobile phones, and was quickly affirmed by customers. By word of mouth, she slowly had the basic guarantee of settling down. But because of her disability, Lu Juan has difficulty moving after all, and in order to reduce the trouble of going to the toilet, she has always been very restrained in eating and drinking.
Day by day, she guards the small shop and the hope of her life. In her spare time, her entertainment is surfing the Internet. No one expected that Lu Juan would meet her true destiny in a chat room for the disabled.
Yes, Lu Juan is in an online relationship. The man's name is He Yingkui, a native of Heilongjiang, Da Lu Juan is 7 years old, and he is also physically disabled.
As both disabled people, they can understand the difficulties of their own lives, and they can also empathize with the different eyes of the people around them and the various unfair treatment they encounter.
2 people who are sympathetic to each other, the more they talk, the more speculative they become. Their unremitting pursuit of life also makes each other's hearts move.
Later, He Yingkui couldn't help but go to Hubei, and after seeing Lu Juan and getting in close contact for a period of time, he decided to form a family with her. He Yingkui's disability is obviously much lighter than Lu Juan's, except for walking with a limp, one limb is slightly weak, and there is nothing else. He saw Lu Juan's difficulties in his eyes and promised that he would take care of Lu Juan for the rest of his life.
But this matter was strongly opposed by both families.
He Yingkui's family feels that he has a disability, plus Lu Juan, who is severely disabled, and the two of them will live together in the future, and life will be even more difficult. Lu Juan's parents felt that He Yingkui's home was too far away and didn't know him well, afraid that he would not be able to treat his daughter well in the future, and if he divorced after the next day, such a blow would kill Lu Juan.
But He Yingkui and Lu Juan are determined to be together. This person who is not treated well by life meets to support each other and spend their lives together. In the end, the families on both sides couldn't help but accept it. In 2010, He Yingkui and Lu Juan held a wedding.
After marriage, He Yingkui kept his promise before marriage, always treated Lu Juan very well, and took the initiative to take on most of the housework.
Lu Juan's optimism and cheerfulness also brought warm sunshine to He Yingkui's originally bleak life.
Knowing that Lu Juan couldn't have children, He Yingkui never revealed the idea of having children in front of her. Among them, it was Lu Juan who first had the idea.
She didn't want He Yingkui to have regrets in her heart, so she hid it from him and quietly went to the hospital for consultation. But the doctor's reply was not expected to be optimistic.
Because of Lu Juan's physical condition, she is not suitable for pregnancy and childbirth, especially because her pelvis is damaged and she cannot conceive naturally.
And if you want to do IVF pregnancy, not to mention the risks and the psychological preparation for having to fight a protracted battle, the cost alone makes it difficult for Lu Juan. She and He Yingkui's income is only enough for food and clothing, and if you need to spend extra money, you have to think of another way.
But Lu Juan is a person who does her best for the goal, and she began to implement it and set off immediately. This long-distance run to welcome the little life is a year.
Lu Juan fought hard to have a child with He Yingkui.
He Yingkui felt sorry for her and didn't want her to take risks, but Lu Juan persuaded him. In order to prepare for the cost of the operation, Lu Juan took 3 customer service jobs, working 1 hour a day, busy from morning to night, and even her mother-in-law was moved by her.
Fortunately, Lu Juan's IVF was successful at one time, and it was 2!
Out of consideration for Lu Juan's health, the doctor suggested that she choose to keep one, but Lu Juan was unwilling to give up any of them no matter what.
Being severely disabled and pregnant with twins means that Lu Juan has to endure much more hardships than ordinary pregnant women. Lu Juan later recalled that she gave birth to a child with a smile, just like Tang Seng going to the West to learn scriptures, and he had experienced nine hundred and eighty-one difficulties, and every step was like passing the test
At the beginning of the article, the doctor's risk assessment of her childbirth was by no means alarmist.
Other pregnant women will also have morning sickness and edema, not to mention anything else, only Lu Juan's pregnancy during pregnancy, pregnancy hypertension, organ failure, placental abruption, heavy bleeding ......Every symptom is quite sinister.
But Lu Juan gritted her teeth and survived. "The kids will be fine. As my parents said, in the dark, God is blessing. Otherwise, I wouldn't have been able to keep them until 32 weeks with a babysitting. Before Lu Juan entered the operating room, she said to the doctor.
When she learned these words later, Lu Juan's mother cried so much that she couldn't stop crying.
Because she knew what kind of crime her daughter had suffered to save the twin nephews. Lu Juan had a high fever when she was 4 months pregnant, and she was afraid that she would burn the child to cerebral palsy as the doctor said, so she spread ice cubes on herself and lowered her body temperature stiffly.
For the sake of the child, Lu Juan fought hard, and the doctors who were moved by her also fought hard. And they succeeded!On May 19, 2015, Lu Juan successfully gave birth to twin sons through surgery.
Although the children were born in less than a month, they were sent to the neonatal intensive care unit, during which the symptoms were frequent and almost frightening, but they all survived and were in good health!
The parents of Lu Juan and He Yingkui cried with joy. Today's He Yingkui and Lu Juan are living in He Yingkui's hometown in the northeast with their twin sons.
Because she has to take care of the children with her parents-in-law, Lu Juan can no longer do customer service work, she keeps pace with the times and learns to bring goods through live broadcast.
The twin boys will occasionally appear in the live broadcast room, helping their mother with a lot of eyes, as if they are their mother's "legs". And He Yingkui, as always, has a sense of family responsibility, took the job of replying to the post, worked diligently, and insisted on fighting for his small family.
The deeds of Lu Juan and He Yingkui touched many people on the Internet, and everyone expressed their sincere blessings to them. And the smiles on their faces, after the wind and rain, are even brighter.
No one's life can be smooth sailing, after encountering setbacks, can correctly face the tribulations of life, adjust the mentality in time, in order to get out of the trough.
In order to pursue a happy life, do not give up, persevere to the end and finally win, which is the inspiration that He Yingkui and Lu Juan and his wife bring to everyone. I wish them all the best and ever!
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