Bank of JiangsuOn December 4, Xu, an internal employee, made public his experience of being forced to have sex by his leader Ma Moumou. According to Xu's account, she had sex three times in 2023, all of which happened in Ma's car. Ma Moumou had sex with Xu at the beginning of the year, in the summer, and on November 30. After this incident**Bank of JiangsuA briefing was conducted, and the report showed that Xu wasBank of JiangsuAn ordinary employee of the business department of Zhenjiang Branch, and Ma Moumou is her team manager, and there is a subordinate relationship between the two.
Judging from the details of the development of events, we can see that Xu is facing a difficult choice. First of all, Xu knew that the leader was drunk when she had a relationship for the first time, but she chose to send Ma home safely and did not take other ways to avoid it. The second time, as a victim of being asked by Ma to have a relationship, Xu may have four options: prevaricate the past, turn her face and leave, accept the leader's proposal or call the police to deal with it. And Xu finally chose to accept the leader's proposal, which is a decision worth pondering. The third time, Xu and Ma had a relationship in the parking lot, which was more like an act of mutual pursuit of excitement.
Xu made it public in the group, but this caused questions from netizens. Some netizens think that Xu's attitude in the narrative is more like what her husband wrote, because she specifically mentioned sorry for her family and children at the end of the article, as well as apologies to Ma's wife. This way of thinking is puzzling, as a victim of being forced to have sex, Xu's mentality is so complex that he can sympathize with Ma's wife at this juncture. This has caused more netizens to think and question about this incident.
Some netizens made sharp comments, thinking that it may not have happened three times, but only caught three times. This further deepened the confusion about Xu. After all, according to Xu's own account, her family had already had conflicts long before the relationship, and Ma also made some remarks on the internal platform. This has led many to wonder if there was a break between the two, and thus speculate that there may be more sexual relations. But this is just speculation, and we need more evidence to confirm these conjectures.
This incident has sparked a reaction toFinanceIndustry discussions. In recent years,FinanceThe industry has become a dream for many young people to chase, but among themWork pressureAnd the risks are also enormous. Zhang XuefengA year ago, he warned female classmates in the live broadcast that girls from ordinary families with average grades should not reportFinanceSpecialized. He thinksBanksThe work is not as easy as it seems from the outside, employees have various tasks and pressures, and they will be exposed to more customers and finances, which is prone to some peach blossom problems. This event can be said to giveZhang XuefengA very vivid illustration of the warning.
In this context, many netizens began to think about their families and husband and wife relationships. Some netizens said that their wives were also thereBankswork, and travel a lot, so worry about a similar situation. But most people are not worried about this, thinking that when the relationship between husband and wife is stable, people will still abide by the husband's and women's morals.
Currently,Bank of JiangsuAn investigation into the matter is ongoing, and if there is evidence to substantiate allegations that Ma Moumou pressured him to have sexual relations, then he will face serious consequences. In any case, this incident is a huge test and endurance for Xu. We should look at the issues behind such incidents and provoke reflection and improvement in the work environment and industry culture. Putting personal and professional ethics at the forefront and fostering a safe, respectful, and just environment is essential for everyone.