With the rapid development of society, the concept of marriage and love among modern young people has also undergone great changes.
The traditional concept of "male dominance and female dominance", which has been considered natural since ancient times, is now slowly being broken. Young people are becoming more open and tolerant.
In such a situation, some people have begun to worry that over time, monogamy may die out, and in three years, three more marriage and love patterns may sweep across China.
01 Will the institution of marriage monogamy die?
The monogamous marriage system in China has a history of several decades, including now, the vast majority of people have formed a solid understanding of monogamy.
However, in recent years, with the improvement of young people's education level, including the rapid development of the economy, young people's views on mate selection and even marriage and love have also undergone great changes.
The traditional concept of marriage pays more attention to the stability and continuation of the family, but the new generation of young people attaches more importance to the quality of personal life, pursues emotional experience, and yearns for the freedom of love.
They are reluctant to force marriage, and they are not willing to enter into married life too early and be responsible for family responsibilities**.
Therefore, in recent years, concepts such as "singleness" and "two-headed marriage" have emerged.
It is worth mentioning that due to the change in young people's thinking in recent years, including the intensification of economic pressure, the number of new births has continued to decline, and the aging population has continued to rise, which has led to concerns from all walks of life.
In order to solve a series of problems that may arise from the intensification of aging, China has even introduced an "unmarried birth" policy, but the implementation of this measure has also caused many people to worry.
Some people say that although the introduction of this policy can well meet the needs of some groups who do not want to get married, but want to have children. However, this new thinking could also upend traditional monogamy.
After all, in the minds of most people, having children before marriage is equivalent to "illegitimate children", or children born of cohabitation without any formalities; Either it's a child born of a small family cheating.
Others feel that from another perspective, allowing children before marriage is equivalent to allowing polygamy, which may lead to the extinction of monogamy.
However, experts also have their own opinions on people's concerns, such as an economist surnamed Ma said
It is a person's right to have children without getting married, and some places just give you back this basic right. Some brain circuits have strange thinking that this gives the rich the right to marry three wives, four concubines, and three illegitimate children. Many countries do not stipulate that you must get married to have children, are they all three wives and four concubines and looking for a mistress?
So, from this logic alone, allowing "children out of wedlock" does not mean that monogamy will change greatly in the future.
But even so, with the change in young people's views on marriage and love, many people are still worried that in three years, the following three marriage and love patterns may sweep across China.
02 The three marriage and love models of young people will sweep all over the country.
Type 1: Maintain a single life for a long time.
With the change of young people's thinking and concepts, coupled with the society's openness to young people, it is becoming more and more inclusive, and many young people have started to live unmarried lives.
In particular, some people with a strong sense of independence, in their concept, believe that almost everything in life can be solved alone, and there is no need to seek a partner for themselves, and feel that finding a partner may add troubles to their lives.
The reason for the increasing prevalence of this phenomenon is not only a panic about marital responsibilities, but also reflects the increasing concerns of contemporary young people about the social environment.
After all, the marriage of contemporary young people is not just a marriage certificate. Once married, it means the interests of two people**, such as high bride price and high housing prices in the early stage, as well as living expenses and parenting costs in the later stage.
If the savings of a lifetime are not exchanged for a lifetime of marital happiness and family happiness, but a marriage that is not smooth or even a relationship breakdown, then it will inevitably face various complex problems and even economic disputes among the three families.
The first type: only fall in love and do not get married.
Compared to the first model, this model is somewhere between traditional and non-traditional.
Some young people are eager for love, hoping to get the other half of the acquaintance, but they are hesitant about marriage, or even afraid of getting married, in this situation, they are more inclined to maintain a long-term relationship between the two parties.
Of course, this view of marriage and love is becoming more and more accepted by the public, including many well-known public figures, who also maintain long-term relationships with their other half in this way, even if many of them have already had children, but in the end they did not receive a marriage certificate.
Perhaps, in their opinion, true love does not need to be proved with a marriage certificate.
However, there are also many people who do not think like this, they think that once they enter the palace of marriage, they have to bear the responsibilities of both parties, but it also increases the constraints on each other.
Therefore, in order to avoid various conflicts of interest, some people would rather maintain a more relaxed boyfriend and girlfriend relationship with each other for a long time, rather than choose to get married.
Judging from the current situation, more and more young people have chosen this long-term free love relationship, but for this new concept of marriage and love, there is one thing that needs to be reminded of everyone:
In fact, if there is no more, it is not a problem for any reason to cause emotional changes, after all, there is no bond with each other, and there is no need to consider the impact on the families of both parties, let alone legal responsibility, and you can break up at any time.
However, if you have children and continue to adopt this mode of marriage and love, you can only say: either selfishness or lack of responsibility!
Because it is not excluded that people with a serious lack of sense of responsibility are unwilling to take on any responsibility for raising their children after feeling the freedom of love for a period of time.
And for children born in this love mode, it is also the most innocent and painful. Because they may spend their whole lives bearing the selfishness of their parents and falling into the haze of lack of love.
So, even if the current law has relevant provisions, parents are responsible for their children in any form, but to put it bluntly:
Girls (lads), responsible people don't develop to the point where you take the form of a lawsuit and let the other party take responsibility for the child.
Irresponsible people, even if you sue, will minimize your rights and those of your children.
So if you want to enjoy this pursuit of freedom, you can! But don't take your children with you, and don't let your children bear the mistakes of adults for the rest of their lives.
The first type is to maintain a relatively independent life after marriage.
In fact, in traditional marriage in China, many women will choose to return to the family after marriage, forming a family model of "male dominance, female dominance".
But in reality, there is always such a sentence that makes people sigh: no matter how deep the love is, it will continue to dilute under the influence of trivialities, but the family affection is constantly increasing.
However, it is precisely this kind of family-like marriage that causes many people to feel that they are living in a similar situation to a widowed marriage, which in turn leads to various tragedies.
In recent years, with the change of modern young women's thinking, more and more people are no longer willing to be housewives after marriage, but pursue self-worth. As a result, many women still choose to struggle in the workplace and choose their own social circle after marriage.
And this mode of marriage and love also allows young people to maintain a relatively independent life after marriage. Compared with traditional marriages in the past, this marriage model is also easier to stabilize the family.
And in the future, it may also become a marriage and love choice for more young people. What do you think about this? Agree to like! People draw lines.
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