In the entertainment industry, the combination of "old wives and young husbands" is not uncommon, they have a large age gap, but they still choose to come together, but they also bring three different lives.
The first pair, Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng. In 2004, Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng got acquainted because of the play, Hong Xin had suffered a deep emotional wound before, and her heart resisted feelings. However, Zhang Danfeng's careful care and his love for Hong Xin's only son moved Hong Xin, and the two got married in 2009 and gave birth to a daughter. When everyone was praising Zhang Danfeng for being a good man and husband, he cheated on his agent Bi Ying after the TV series "Flower Thousand Bone" became popular. In order to maintain family stability, Hong Xin chose forgiveness and forbearance, but Zhang Danfeng had different hearts, admitting his mistakes in his mouth, but breaking the connection in private. couldn't stand it, and in August 2015, Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng dissolved their marriage.
The second pair, Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo. The two met at a dinner with friends and fell in love on the love reality show "If Love" and got married in 2016. As the only child in the family, Zhang Lunshuo and his parents both hope to have a child belonging to the Zhang family. However, due to the risk of Chung's advanced maternal age and her inability to conceive, she has always been cautious in order to maintain the stability of her marriage. Even Zhang Lunshuo's mother said in the live broadcast that the two "can live if they think about it, and leave if they want to, I don't care, don't ask me". This kind of marriage without the blessing of her elders and her husband's understanding makes Zhong Liti live in the shadow of self-blame and caution, which is destined to be full of confusion.
The third pair, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo. When Zhang Duo saw Chen Songling in the crew of "Blood is Not Cold", he was deeply attracted by her appearance and decided to marry her. Although he knew that Chen Songling had undergone ovarian tumor surgery and was almost unable to have children, he did not back down, but pursued it firmly. After six years of long-distance love, they married in 2011. Whether it is himself or his father, Zhang Duo defends Chen Songling and hopes that she can live a happy and innocent life. Although Zhang Duo's mother occasionally asks them to ***, he would rather let his mother come to the house less and respect his wife's feelings. This kind of man who puts his "daughter-in-law" in his heart is the dream marriage partner of many ladies.
In general, the marriages of "old wives and young husbands" are not all sweet and happy, and the reasons behind them vary from person to person. The stories of Hong Xin and Zhang Danfeng, Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo, Chen Songling and Zhang Duo tell us that love can transcend differences in age, status and identity, but it also requires the hard work and dedication of both parties.
On the Internet, the stories of these "old wives and young husbands" have caused a lot of repercussions. Netizens commented, speculated and discussed, some people expressed their understanding of Hong Xin's choice to forgive and forbear, thinking that she was thinking about her family and children; Some people also criticized Hong Xin for not being strong, believing that she should leave this unfaithful marriage. The story of Zhong Liti and Zhang Lunshuo has received more attention and heated discussions. Netizens expressed dissatisfaction and contempt for Zhang Lunshuo's mother's remarks, believing that marriage requires the efforts and understanding of two people, and should not be affected by this indifferent attitude. The story of Chen Songling and Zhang Duo has received relatively little attention on the Internet, but netizens expressed their appreciation and admiration for Zhang Duo's behavior of putting his "daughter-in-law" first.
Cases similar to these events are also common in the entertainment industry. Like Yang Mi and Hawick Lau, Ruby Lin and Huo Jianhua, Fan Bingbing and Li Chen, etc., are all typical representatives of the "old wife and young husband". In these cases, some marriages have gone to divorce, some have encountered difficulties in their marriages but are still working hard, and some have maintained happy families. Different cases show people the various possibilities in marriage, and also make this topic the focus of social attention.
The marriage of "old wives and young husbands" has aroused widespread discussion and influence in society. It breaks the fixed concept of the traditional marriage model, reminding people that age is not the only criterion for love, nor does it affect the happiness and stability of marriage. It makes people rethink marriage, focusing on the power of love and the importance of doing business together. At the same time, it has also sparked reflections and discussions about family, children, and childbearing. In these marriages, many women are unable to have children due to age restrictions, and face pressure from their husbands and elders, which brings to society thinking about reproductive freedom and women's rights.
The pursuit of happiness and love is a goal that people have always pursued, especially in marriage. These stories of "old wives and young husbands" tell us that marriage is not just a matter between two people, it is a matter of family, society and values. When it comes to choosing love and a partner, we need to be brave enough to face reality, and at the same time, we need to work hard for happiness and stability. Only when both parties sincerely give and understand can they truly enjoy the happiness and fulfillment brought by marriage.
After writing this article, I thought about the implications of these stories of "old wives and young husbands". We should respect the choices and preferences of others, and be humble and respectful when talking about and commenting on other people's marriages. Everyone has their own pursuit of happiness and life path, and we have no right to judge and interfere. In today's social development, the form and definition of marriage are no longer single, we should be more open and inclusive, and give everyone the right and freedom to pursue happiness. Let's think about how to make marriage more beautiful and adapt to the changes in modern society. Let love truly become the bond that connects people's hearts, and let happiness fill every family.