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A happy marriage is a beautiful picture of love and harmony. Like a moving symphony, the melodious melody is intoxicating.
*, the husband and wife hold hands, support each other, rely on each other, and compose the music of life together.
A happy marriage is built on mutual trust and mutual loyalty.
Trust is the foundation of marriage. Only by trusting each other can a strong emotional foundation be built between husband and wife. Fidelity is the foundation of marriage. If the husband and wife are not faithful enough, even the most "talented and beautiful" union will fail and will not last long.
A happy marriage is full of love and responsibility.
Husbands and wives can only empower each other if they care for each other, express their love through warm words and caring actions, and do not hesitate to lend a helping hand when the other person needs help. Be brave and strengthen the bond between husband and wife.
However, there are problems behind marriage that many people cannot avoid. It's a feeling outside of marriage.
Many female friends have asked me why men want to find an extramarital lover after getting married. What is their purpose?
In fact, for married men, finding an extramarital partner is a complex and multifaceted issue. This phenomenon is not caused by a single cause, but is the result of a combination of factors.
In short, there are only three reasons why a married man is looking for a partner outside of marriage, and the last one is related to the wife.
In fact, in real life, the reason why most married men are looking for extramarital lovers is mainly related to personal psychological factors.
For example, some men think it's "fashionable" to find a partner outside of marriage because if other men find a partner, then they will find a partner too.
Another example, some men are wealthy, have a comfortable life, are impetuous, engage in extramarital affairs, and show others how wonderful their lives are, and some people just use means. I have the ability.
Truth be told, such a person is despicable, no matter what the reason.
Since you have chosen to marry your first wife, you should understand what your responsibilities are, and not get angry.
What is the real "marriage fashion"?
In marriage, the real "fashion" is to pamper your wife like a princess and let her live the rest of her life in the happiness you give her.
This is called marriage "fashion"!
Leaving marriage to find a lover is not called "fashion". This is a sign of low character, not a sign of human beings.
People who run away when they have money are also unpleasant.
A truly capable and respected married man, rich or not, will put his wife and family first.
So, if a married man thinks it's "fashionable" to find a girlfriend or just because he has money, then he doesn't deserve to have a family.
Moreover, such a man, after betraying his feelings, does not deserve to be forgiven.
At this time, the best thing for a woman to do is not to make excuses for herself or the other person, but to try to forgive the other person. Betraying your feelings for personal reasons is also an act of not loving you.
If he loves you, he will definitely not look at any opposite sex except for marriage. He will only treat you like this if he doesn't love you and lives with you as a normal person.
Remember, betrayal is betrayal. Rather than compromise and compromise, the right thing to do is to distance yourself from such a despicable man.
There is no doubt that physiological needs are one of the factors that motivate married men to cheat.
In everyday marriage, time is like a double-edged sword. Time can make a couple more intimate, but it can also make a relationship boring and monotonous.
Perhaps, there is a lot of freshness and enthusiasm in married life at first, but over time, this freshness will gradually fade or disappear.
When men experience that their physical needs are not being met, they often feel distressed and dissatisfied.
In this case, if the wife can't understand and solve the problem, the man may look for other ways to meet his needs.
In addition, some wives are reluctant to approach or touch their husbands due to personal reasons such as psychological stress, physical fatigue, and mental problems.
If this condition persists for a long time and the husband is unable to get satisfaction from his wife, he may use adultery to satisfy his physical needs.
Of course, we can't ignore other possibilities. That is, some men may be dissatisfied with certain behaviors or personality traits of their wives.
In this case, they may look for stimulation and comfort outside of marriage.
Whether it's to satisfy physical needs or to seek the stimulation of extramarital sex, this behavior can be very damaging to the couple's relationship.
Therefore, we need to face up to this problem and try to find a solution to it.
Another reason why married men look for a romantic partner outside of marriage is usually related to their wives.
Some wives are too strong. Whether at work or at home, she constantly overwhelms her husband.
For example, a man is often scolded and scolded at home because of his good nature. If a man tries to resist, he will either make excuses "I don't love you anymore" or "tell the world". Husbands bully women.
Wives with such a "strong woman" character often lose their husband's love because of their strength.
In such cases, the husband usually seeks new comfort outside of marriage to make up for the loss of self-esteem and satisfaction in the family.
At this time, as a wife, you need to reflect on your behavior.
It is immoral for your husband to betray your marriage, but if you never change your control, you will force your husband to act immorally in response to your oppression.
The more dire consequence is that she may force her husband to divorce her.
Therefore, as a woman, you must know how to show weakness. Learn to guide your husband gently and not always oppress him in a tough way.
Give your husband enough respect and freedom to make him feel your love and support.
This will help maintain a healthy relationship and prevent your husband from seeking comfort outside of marriage.
The reasons why married men seek extramarital affairs are complex and varied.
A combination of socio-cultural factors, personal psychological factors, and physiological needs has contributed to this problem.
Therefore, to solve this problem, it is necessary to improve the social environment, improve the quality of communication between husband and wife, and cultivate a healthy married life.
Only in this way can the problem of married men seeking extramarital affairs be fundamentally solved.