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Many women have such a confusion, obviously they are very good, and they respect their husbands very much, and their husband and wife life is also very harmonious, why do some men always like to "steal food" outside?
Before we can see why men "steal" outside, we need to understand the general reasons for this behavior.
First of all, in today's environment full of **, it is difficult for many men to restrain their desires, so they will choose to eat secretly outside because they can't restrain their desires.
On the other hand, today's society seems to give men more choices, coupled with the excessive conceit of some men, which leads them to betray their families.
In addition to the above two reasons, there is also about the situation of men in the family.
There is a common situation where there are problems in the marriage and there is a lack of effective communication and interaction between the couple. In such cases, men may feel lonely and dissatisfied, thus seeking comfort and stimulation from the outside world.
In addition, the pressure of work, the worries of trivial things in life, and the influence of personal psychological factors may also prompt some men to choose this behavior.
What harm does a man do to his or her family when he betrays his feelings?
First of all, there is a risk that such behavior may lead to the breakdown of the marital relationship. Once this behavior is discovered, the trust and affection between the couple can be irreversibly damaged.
Secondly, this behavior has the potential to increase the psychological burden of the man himself, resulting in emotional problems such as guilt, anxiety and depression. Although this is all self-inflicted, the problem cannot be ignored.
Finally, this behavior can also have a bad impact on a child's growth and education, as it transmits a value of irresponsibility and selfishness.
So, how can you tell if a man is "stealing" outside?
In fact, after a man "steals food" outside, there will be three behavioral changes, and women at this time can carefully observe and guard against it.
First: become more mysterious and unavoidable**
When a man has the act of "stealing" outside, he usually becomes more elusive and unavoidable.
In the beginning, he will become very strange in time and action, and will even suddenly disappear for a while, without any explanation or communication.
Even when you question him, he is full of excuses.
If he is pressed, he may also directly explode at you, or even hit you.
This kind of behavior is actually a sign that he is trying to hide something, or that he already has another partner and he doesn't want anyone to know.
At this time, as a woman, you must pay attention to it in time, observe it, and if you really find out about his "stealing" behavior, you must find a suitable way to deal with it as soon as possible.
If you want to continue to maintain your relationship, you should actively communicate, and if you don't want to continue to cry, you should cut through the mess quickly and stop losses in time.
Second: reduce your attention and devotion to your partner
Outside of marriage, when a man has another "partner", he tends to reduce his attention and devotion to his existing partner.
Because he wants to spend more time and energy on his "partner" outside of marriage, he will be cold to his existing partner.
In order to have more time with his "partner" outside of marriage, he no longer spends as much time with his existing partner as he used to, or no longer shows the same concern for his partner's daily life and emotional state as he used to.
In fact, men are very realistic.
When a man can't find novelty, excitement in a person, he will try to seek these things in other people.
When he does, he will devote more of his time and energy to it, resulting in too little companionship or even indifference to his existing partner.
For this kind of behavior of men, women must be more vigilant, if they don't want to continue to be hurt, then they must grasp the evidence of the other party's betrayal and strive for more benefits for themselves.
Third: become more critical and dissatisfied
When a man "steals" outside, he will become more critical and dissatisfied with his existing partner.
For example, often criticizing your partner's behavior or appearance, or starting to demand more from your partner.
He is like this because he has found a new partner and he wants his existing partner to meet his expectations and requirements.
Especially after "stealing" and seeing the good in other people, he can't help but compare himself with his existing partner, which leads him to endlessly find fault with his existing partner.
This kind of behavior of men is very immoral, very shameful, and very hurtful.
As a woman, if you notice a change in a man's behavior, please pay more attention and never make excuses for his change.
You have to learn to protect yourself, and it is best to stop losses in time.
In short, when a man "steals", he will show some changes in behavior.
These changes include becoming more mysterious and unavoidable, being less focused and invested in your partner, and becoming more critical and dissatisfied.
Women should pay attention to these changes in order to detect them in time and take corresponding measures to protect themselves and their feelings.
Don't humble yourself to please him, because the more you do that, the more likely he is to become unscrupulous.
Instead of being humble and flattering, it is better to choose tough means, which is the greatest protection for yourself!
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