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Many couples can no longer enjoy cohabitation after marriage. It's about living separately for the sake of survival.
In this case, there are people who adhere to the principles of being human and remain faithful to their partner. But there are also those who feel empty and lonely and can't resist**, so they act as betrayal.
If a woman wants to know whether her man is really or not, instead of thinking, it is better to directly observe whether there are the following three signs:
There's a hot topic on the Internet: what is the psychology of a partner who always belittles himself?
In fact, dissatisfaction with your lover is also a kind of "projection" of yourself: because you don't have the ability to find a better partner than the people around you.
In addition, it is precisely because the other party has developed a lover relationship outside, so after comparing the lover with the original pair, he began to see what was not going well with the other party.
Just like in "Love Notes", the betrayer always comes home, unable to control his temper, and complains about his partner. The betrayed feel innocent, and they haven't changed much from the beginning. Later, I found out that it was his lover's looks that made him less good.
Therefore, when a man finds a younger and prettier lover outside, or a more gentle personality, he will show high-profile contempt and contempt for his wife at home, rather than respect, or the low-key pleasurance that he once had.
There is a classic line in Predecessor 3: Goodbye Ex": It is not easy for everyone to make money, and they just want to share the fruits of their labor with their closest relatives. So, when a man gives you money, he doesn't necessarily love you;But those who are not willing to spend money for you must not love you.
Although love cannot be the only measure of affection, it can also reflect to a certain extent how much a person cares about you.
When Xiao Chen, a married woman, consulted with me, she shared the truth about her husband's betrayal she found out in different places: "Before he paid his salary, he didn't say a word and called my bank card directly. "However, it was a strange moment when he hesitated and didn't want to pay me all my wages. You blame me, why do you spend so much money every month?In fact, I spent all my money on family life. ”
Later, Xiao Chen found out that her husband had a "second hometown", so he was naturally reluctant to give her all the money anymore, and would also spend the money on his lover.
As a result, the time and energy that men spend on you, and even money, becomes less, that is, someone takes a part, and that person is the third party who destroys your marriage.
After a man gets married, he has the responsibility to take the initiative to report the situation of the trip to his wife, so that he will not worry about the woman he loves.
But when a man has a lover, he will make his wife not ** during the trip to hide some of his "crimes".
Just like Watanabe, a middle-aged man in the "Dawn Street" written by Japanese writer Keigo Higashino, enjoying sweetness with his lover in the city. He found a friend who was in common with his wife, or a colleague at the company, and made up lies together.
Even on important days, the wife doesn't know that the cheating husband is a** or who he's with.
Long-distance couples, if you want to judge whether the other party is loyal to you, you can actually find evidence from these three aspects:
Regardless of whether or not there has been a significant change in other people's attitudes towards you, a sudden change for the worse or for the better is a sign that something is wrong;Are you spending less money materially?And the itinerary, all the places you shouldn't go.