The 33-year-old Xiao Wang finally realized his dream of going ashore through the national government. Before the interview, he still remembers saying excitedly to his parents: "This time I went ashore, I can finally live a stable life!"”
In the first month after coming ashore, Xiao Wang felt extremely relaxed. No longer have to work overtime and stay up late for customers, and the treatment and benefits are good, which is a dream come true. However, it didn't take long for Xiao Wang to discover that going ashore at an older age was far from being as beautiful as he imagined.
First, it is difficult for older landers to integrate into their new environment. Xiao Wang found that he had become an "old man" in the unit, and he was incompatible with his colleagues in their twenties. Young people always like to get together to play with their mobile phones and discuss hot topics, while Xiao Wang can only sit on the side and drink tea silently. Occasionally put forward some opinions, and it is often regarded as an "old man's temper". Xiao Wang wanted to fit into this "youth party", but he always felt out of place.
Second, older landers are at risk of being "marginalized". Xiao Wang gradually discovered that important projects and businesses were seized by young people. I became a member of the "snubbed" and only got some trivial work. Once, Xiao Wang took the initiative to participate in an important project, but was politely rejected by the leader, on the grounds that "this work is intensive, so let young people come". Xiao Wang smiled bitterly, he was only in his thirties, and he was classified as part of the "old and frail".
Third, older landers are often questioned about "eating and waiting to die". Once, Xiao Wang went to another department to deliver materials, and overheard a young colleague say: "I heard that the finance team has come to another 89-year-old, and they are almost forty years oldXiao Wang's face was red, but his heart was infinitely stunned. It turns out that I have worked hard for many years, and the label I got is".Come in and lie down for the elderly
Fourth, older landers often find themselves in a difficult occupation. Xiao Wang found that his development space in this position was very limited. To be promoted to a management position, age and seniority have become a hard injury. When it comes to applying for training abroad, the age limit becomes an obstacle again. The leader also suggested that Xiao Wang "work steadily until retirement". Watching the young people soar one by one, Xiao Wang could only sigh in his heart.
Finally, older landers have a hard time balancing family and career. In order to go ashore, Xiao Wang neglected to take care of his family. Now I finally realize my dream, only to find that there are cracks in my home. Mrs. often complains about Xiao Wang".Obviously he is not young anymore, but he is still immersed in the dream of his careerThe son gradually became estranged from Xiao Wang. After going ashore, the work was still busy, and the salary did shrink significantly, and Xiao Wang was confused for a while, not knowing what the future should be.
When he came ashore at an older age, Xiao Wang went through a lot of hardships before he finally realized his dream. However, the various encounters after going ashore made him realize a cruel truth-It's really not that good to go ashore at an older age
But there are also people who hold the opposite opinion, feeling that they are happier after going ashore. It's not that he's got a good unit, it's that he has a better understanding of his needs.
First, be aware of yourself and your environment. Indeed, in this "youth-honoring" social environment, older landers need to put in more effort to gain the respect and fairness they deserve. When you go ashore in a new environment at an older age, although you have certain social experience, you should still have an "empty cup mentality" to learn and adapt to the new environment and new positions.
Second, it's important to understand that no environment can be smooth. When you encounter unhappiness and exclusion, it is not necessarily because you are an older worker, any position and any job has troubles and imperfections, and there is no need to care about the label on yourself. After all, it is already the dream of many people to work hard to get ashore. Once you have made up your mind to enter the siege, do not give up easily, but work hard, forge ahead on this rugged road, and do your own struggle. Lu Yao knows horsepower and proves himself with attitude and strength.
The speeches of Xiao Wang and many older landers let us see the plight and challenges of the older landers. However, this does not mean that older landers cannot achieve happiness and success. In fact, for those who are aware of themselves and their environment, have a good attitude and keep working hard, life can still be full of happiness and fulfillment after landing.
First of all, older landers should be clear about their goals and values. They should think about what they really want and plan their careers and lives based on that. If their goal is stability and comfort, then going ashore is indeed a good option. But if they are eager to challenge and grow, then they need to be proactive in their positions and constantly improve their abilities and qualities.
Secondly, older landers should maintain a good state of mind. They need to realize that age is not the only measure of a person's worth. Although they may face some challenges in some aspects, they also have unique strengths in terms of experience, maturity, relationships, and more. Therefore, they should confidently face their strengths and weaknesses, and strive to play to their strengths and constantly improve their weaknesses.
Finally, older landers need to constantly work hard and struggle. Whether at work or in life, you need to keep learning and growing. At work, they can enhance their professional competence by participating in training and learning new skills;In life, they can enrich their lives by exercising, cultivating hobbies, etc. Only by constantly working hard and striving can we make ourselves more excellent and attractive.
Autumn and Winter Check-in Challenge In short, older landers need to know themselves and their environment, maintain a good attitude, and continue to work hard and struggle. Only in this way can you allow yourself to be happy and successful in your new environment. After all, happiness and success do not depend only on the work environment and position, but also on a person's inner attitude and outward performance. As long as we have a positive mindset and continuous hard work, we can create our own happiness and success in any environment.