In life, we will always encounter all kinds of misunderstandings and doubts, and sometimes we will feel extremely angry and wronged, and we want to explain clearly and fight for our innocence. However, when we try our best to defend ourselves, we find that things have not changed because of this, but may have consumed a lot of energy. At this point, we should perhaps reflect on whether it is necessary to argue about the misunderstandings of others
There is a cloud in the Book of Songs: "Those who know me say that I am worried;."Those who don't know me, say what do I want" Life in the world, not everyone understands you, and when you meet people who don't understand you, interpretation will only bring distortion.
Instead of wasting time defending yourself, it is better to laugh it off, this is the wisdom of life, when you meet someone who doesn't understand you, the explanation will only bring about misinterpretation, it is better to laugh it off.
Because, in life, not everyone understands you, and not everyone is willing to understand you, so it's better to laugh it off than to waste time defending yourself.
However, we can't give up on ourselves because of the misunderstanding of others, we should stick to our beliefs and do our best, because, only by doing ourselves well, can we be recognized by others.
In Let the Bullets Fly, Liuzi is caught up in endless arguments because of a bowl of cold noodles, and in the end he even goes so far as to open his stomach to prove his innocence, however, what can this change?
The same thing happened to ** Ying in "The Way of Heaven", in the face of the boss's questioning, he chose to pay silently and then leave, his behavior made people admire his bearing even more.
This is the wisdom that life needs to retreat, when we encounter misunderstandings and doubts, should we choose to be like **Ying, bear silently, and then move on, or like Liuzi, desperately defend ourselves?
Perhaps, we should choose the latter, because, in life, not everyone understands you, and not everyone wants to understand you.
As the painter Chen Danqing said, "There is no need to let everyone know the real you, or you don't need to keep telling people, because people will only want to see what they want to see." ”
The more we explain, the easier it is to be smeared, the more we argue, the easier it is to be hurt, life is just a few decades, and meeting like-minded people is accidental, and the three views are different, which is the norm.
Many times, it's not that you're not good enough, it's that people who don't understand you have their own standards of judgment, try to give up the pointless battle of words and tongues, and pretend to be deaf and dumb appropriately.
Only in this way can we stay away from disputes, have fewer rights and wrongs, and spend our time and energy on our own lives.
At the same time, we must also learn to be tolerant and understanding, in life, we will inevitably encounter some unpleasant things, but we must not affect our mood because of these things.
Instead, we should learn to be tolerant and understanding, and face these issues with peace of mind.
In life, we also have to learn to compromise at the right time, sometimes, we will encounter some problems that cannot be solved, at this time, we need to learn to compromise at the right time, do not blindly stick to our own point of view.
Because compromising at the right time not only allows us to deal with problems better, but also makes us more mature and rational.
In life, we will inevitably encounter various difficulties and challenges, but we should not give up on ourselves because of these difficulties and challenges, on the contrary, we should learn to face them and bravely meet the challenges of life.
Don't care too much about other people's opinions, don't care about other people's comments, just be yourself and have a clear conscience.