Since you can't change anything, then stay here with peace of mind, show some mature male demeanor, and if you find it bitter, go and savor it yourself.
This moment is the most domineering moment shown by Zhou Bingkun. After reading this dialogue, you will have a deep understanding of what happiness is and why Zhou Bingkun is the happiest person!
Nan Nan learned of her background and knew that her biological father was a wealthy businessman. It happened that the Zhou family needed to return to live in their old mansion, which made her heart begin to waver. She wants to leave this unsatisfactory family and find her biological father, Zhou Bingkun needs to teach her something:
What you expressed.
What are you talking about.
Let's be frank. Frankly, this place clearly has an advantage over the old houses.
The situation with your biological father is much better than here, more than a hundred or even a thousand times better. Do you really want to go**, just go?I want to tell you that from now on, you will live in this family, down-to-earth, and set a good example for your younger brother and sister. Do you know why?Because you were born to my daughter-in-law, you were raised by my daughter-in-law, and you are my daughter-in-law's life, and I will not allow anyone to harm my daughter-in-law, including you, especially you.
This is only a slight description, especially in specific cases.
Everyone has the right to pursue a better life, but everything has its foundation and bottom line. Luo Shibin is Nan Nan's biological father, but his actions are also limited to biological aspects. If this is not taken into account, Luo Shibin is just a criminal who insulted Zheng Juan, which is unforgivable.
If Nan Nan really admitted this biological father, it would undoubtedly be an insult to Zheng Juan, and she showed extreme irresponsibility for the predicament that Zheng Juan experienced. Not to mention, Zheng Juan is also inseparable from her own children, and such a choice is undoubtedly a fatal blow to her.
Therefore, Zhou Bingkun's domineering behavior is something I cannot tolerate, and I will never allow anyone to hurt my wife, including you, especially you!
Now that Nan Nan has understood his origins and has grown up, and now when it comes to Nan Nan's ultimate fate, Zhou Bingkun must clearly state this matter, he must let Nan Nan know what he calls his own father and his stepfather are:
I used to think you were young and I didn't want to share a lot of things with you, but now you're fifteen years old and you're a child. Once again, I would like to introduce myself to you, and I think it is very necessary to get to know each other again, considering that our relationship is likely to become even closer in the coming years.
At the end of the Cultural Revolution, I married your mother. In order to minimize the harm caused to your mother by this incident, I took the initiative to take responsibility for the birth before marriage. In those days, such a relationship between men and women was seen as an improper act, and both the public security department and the unit needed to intervene. Minor cases may be notified, and serious cases may be dismissed, which may cause serious damage to my job and career.
In that particular era, and even in all historical periods before that era, such events were seen as inadmissible, unforgiven, and even severely suppressed.
What does Zhou Bingkun want to elaborate?
First of all, we did not deliberately conceal it, but the historical context of the time forced us to take such an action;
Also, if you don't take my own responsibility, your mother has little chance of survival;
So, can Zhou Bingkun avoid such behavior?
Indeed it is!
Your uncle, I, my brother, my brother and my sister persuaded me that this man is based on his career, and the big husband has no wife, this statement is correct and wrong, it is correct for some people, it is wrong for some people, and it is wrong for me.
Even if I lose my job, I can't let your mom down.
Emotions are both painful and beautiful. Having the right partner at the right time is the best relationship and means giving up everything without reservation.
Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong have both made suggestions to Bingkun, they believe that "men should be career-based" and "it makes sense for a real man to have no wife", but which one did Zhou Bingyi choose when facing a bright future and Hao Dongmei?In terms of academics, reputation, filial piety and Feng Huacheng, Zhou Rong made a choice
Therefore, this kind of incident is always the favorite of outsiders, who know that emotions cannot be disappointed, so outsiders often just stand quietly and speak on the sidelines.
Many people are wondering why Zhou Bingkun is so obsessed with Zheng Juan, and they even think that Zheng Juan is a top master in PUA. They believe that love is not complicated, and once you fall in love, you will choose not to let go and not to disappoint;Once you fall in love, you will choose to face everything in life with Zheng Juan. Feelings are actually very simple, just the relationship between two people.
However, after becoming a partner with Zheng Juan, Zhou Bingkun quickly became the breadwinner of the family, and in the eyes of many people, he was seen as an "incompetent" person.
However, Zhou Bingkun has a different view on this:
Indeed, many people look down on me, and I have no interest, including you.
I don't have it.
It's okay, it's okay, they all think that only people like you, your father, and your biological father Luo Shibin are truly successful people. But I don't care, no matter what others think of me, I just want your mother to be happy, and as long as your mother is happy, I will be happy too.
What is true happiness?
True happiness is always a firm belief in oneself and should not be defined only by the views of others.
Frankly, true happiness is contentment and contentment, and I firmly believe that my happiness is happiness.
Zhou Bingyi was appointed as deputy minister, does this really mean his happiness?
Despite his own excellence, in that family environment, he still chose to endure in silence, not even with his own children!
Zhou Rong became a university professor, is this really a kind of happiness?
In the absence of Cai Xiaoguang, Zhou Rong has undoubtedly become an iconic figure among failed women!
When it comes to Luo Shibin, although he has his own business empire, does it really mean that he is happy?
If you no longer have children yourself, then the only option is to try to find the child left because of your own mistakes, otherwise, this vast business empire may not even have a suitable heir!
Looking at Zhou Bingkun again, his wife and children are on the warm kang, he personally saw off his parents, and he also runs a restaurant and a bookstore. He also worked hard to get the position of director of the office of the publishing house, and there was always hot water at home for him to wash his feet, and every time he went out, he had a warm explanation.
There is no happier place in this world, and all of this happiness is built based on the idea of "my daughter-in-law is happy".
The so-called gentleman is actually Zhou Bingkun!
The words have been finished, and Zhou Bingkun still has his last words to say:
Do you think it's bitter?Already chewed and swallowed carefully!
In this real world, tears have never been trusted, otherwise, it should be those who are prone to tears to dominate the world!
Zhou Bingkun really doesn't feel hard?
Although he has experienced more hardships than anyone else, he has never chosen to give up, nor has he complained or complained with a mouth, which is the attitude he should have when facing life.
Compared with Zhou Bingyi and Zhou Rong, compared with successful people like Luo Shibin, Zhou Bingkun seems to be ignored, and his skills are not even as good as people. But he always kept his composure, tried to calm himself down, and pursued his dreams and career, never stopping.
In fact, each of us is extremely tired, and constant irritability and anxiety constantly erodes our psyche. However, if these factors undermine our already modest enthusiasm and perseverance, that is the real disaster.
What should we really look like in this world?
Yesterday's abyss, today's **.
Although the road is long, once you move forward, you will reach your destination.
As difficult as things are, you can succeed if you take action.
True happiness is not complicated!