Zhou Bingyi is the most reassuring child of the Zhou family. In his eyes, she was a very gentle girl. In middle school, he fell in love with Hao Dongmei, the daughter of the vice governor. He was originally a young man born in light words, with an elegant temperament and a full scholarly temperament, his career has been smooth sailing, and he has experienced more than 10 years of military life. However, after a favorable promotion opportunity arises, he decisively gives up his bright future in pursuit of true love.
The young Zhou Bingyi was deeply involved in a passionate love affair with Hao Dongmei, and he chose to give in on the affairs of the Shenyang Corps due to the lack of in-depth communication with his lover. As a result, the flower of his love withered in the fog of love, and he became a prisoner. Dongmei later angrily questioned this tough guy who came out of a working-class family, sometimes not thinking deeply enough to understand his girlfriend's inner world. His behavior has affected his girlfriend's life to a certain extent. Zhou Bingyi has undergone tremendous changes before and after marriage.
Zhou Bingyi profoundly experienced the ups and downs of life in "The World", and he described that "joining the corps, joining the army, taking the college entrance examination, and entering Peking University Xi, every step is a new beginning, and the official career is also bright." In the process, he struggled with fate, suffering, and death, and finally ended in tragedy. In his later years, his physical condition deteriorated day by day and he was diagnosed with stomach cancer, but when it came time to carry out a full **, it was found that he had entered an advanced stage. In the hospital, he was lying in a hospital bed, and no one cared about him. Fate's indifference to him made the brothers and sisters of the Zhou family feel the warmth and coldness of the world. "I am a man of conscience. "Before saying goodbye to this world, he said something like this, which is described in the book:
After my death, there was no need to buy a cemetery, just to place my ashes in my parents' graves. If someone says I'm an orphan, I can't deny that I have my own way of life and thoughts. If someone comments or attacks me, they should definitely not defend themselves and should not defend themselves. I don't like people to say I'm a wild child, I don't want to be bullied, I want to be a really good boy. ”
Initially, when I read "The World", I didn't have much of a good impression of Zhou Bingyi. I always feel that he is a person who lacks assertiveness and has little ambition, and like Zhou Rong, he has no feelings for Zhou's father and Zhou's mother. He never raised his own children, and apparently he did not know how to raise and educate them. His father was an honest farmer, who had no children in his life, and he never gave him much money, let alone loved his children. Until 1987, after Zhou Zhigang passed away, he cried softly at the funeral home and hugged his younger brother tightly to apologize:
Of our three children, you are the one who is most worthy of the nurturing grace of your parents, and I am now almost a son-in-law who is inverted, but this is not what I want.
Zhou Bingyi has a new understanding of the fate of the character in "The World", and although his life is radiant, it is also a little sad. In the face of an "unhappy marriage", his choice is "not to marry" or "to marry"?After experiencing the blow of "unhappy marriage", he chose to join the Hao family and lived under the same roof with his mother-in-law, Jin Yueji, and his official fortune was improved under the backdrop of his wife. Due to the inequality of social status, his voice is gradually reduced, and the mutual respect between him and Hao Dongmei and the innocent promise of not wanting children are more like a thrilling gamble in nature.
When Zhou Bingyi and his wife were old, having no offspring was their greatest regret. Their children have grown up, but they are not getting married. At the last moment of his life, Zhou Bingyi persuaded Hao Dongmei to remarry. The love between them cannot go to gray hair, and their only hope is that the person can live a happy life. His love is a kind of affection. When you understand the task entrusted by Zhou Bingyi in the original book "The World", you will understand how great his love is.
1. The company of a righteous man and a gentleman, consistently and firmly guarded.
The children of the Zhou family, they all have a common characteristic: that is, the partner who fell in love at first sight is the love of their life. Their marriage is a warm and harmonious family, full of happiness and hope. As the daughter-in-law of the Zhou family, a better choice is to avoid conflicts with her mother-in-law and maintain a harmonious relationship. Every Chinese New Year, Li Suhua can always use the voice of an elder to make her daughter-in-law have deep feelings for this family.
Before Hao Dongmei's parents were "rehabilitated", the Zhou family was her only home, and she would go home every two or three years, and the fireworks at home brought her a warm atmosphere, and she had found a suitable partner. Married life is happy and warm. Newlyweds, the sweetness between them is unparalleled. After getting married, they have a warm and romantic nest. The deep affection between Hao Dongmei and Zhou Bingyi is the envy of the comrades-in-arms of the Heilongjiang Corps. After they got married, they often went to the farms in the reclamation area to see how the farm workers lived, and they wanted to hear what these people had to say. Zhou Bingyi has a great respect for his wife's point of view, and in some cases, when the time is right, the water flows naturally to the front of the boat.
The Hao family has its own façade on the light word piece. For Zhou Zhigang, it is impossible to have such a relationship with his family. In the social atmosphere at that time, as long as you maintain friendly relations with influential **, it is likely that someone will come to your door to intercede in the future. Due to the significant difference in social status between the two families, Hao Dongmei, the daughter of the "capitalist roader", did not like to put on a haughty posture, and every member of the Zhou family had deep respect for her and always looked up to her.
Before they got married, the love affair between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei was not so bold, what they pursued was only the resonance of the soul, and both of them had a common literary hobby, that is, reading ** and some literary classics. In their hearts, a person's growth and life are inseparable from reading. Avoiding physical contact with girls who have been pursuing for a long time may also be one of the key factors for Zhou Bingyi to attract Hao Dongmei's attention. His parents, both military men and officers in the army, developed a military temperament in the barracks, which was unique in the army at that time. In that historical period, Hao Dongmei was a young woman from a famous family, her ideas were very avant-garde, but she lacked true gentlemanly love.
He has known Zhou Bingyi for ten years, and he has always maintained a low-key and intimate attitude. Hao Dongmei saw his "integrity" quality, and in these ten years of companionship, she knew the man's sincere feelings for her. However, in the TV drama version, the two are very frustrated after getting married because the famous vice governor publicly humiliates the problems caused by gifts from poor friends in front of Bingyi. This incident caused great shock and uneasiness on both sides. All because Cai Xiaoguang asked Zhou Bingkun to intercede with Hao Dongmei, hoping that he could lend a hand. It was just a short period of busyness, and Hao's father's face became extremely ugly.
In the original book "The World", Hao Fuping's rebellious behavior is described, and he eventually died in prison. Hao's mother lived alone in a luxurious bungalow, and her life was full of loneliness and pain. Once, when she and her daughter and son-in-law went to visit her father, and when they saw him in the house, they asked her daughter and son-in-law to move upstairs. Kim Yue-hee described Bingyi as such, asking her daughter and son-in-law to move back home:
His appearance is quite outstanding, he is tall, with a face like a national character and the bridge of his nose, which can be said to be quite personable. Your father is exactly what he looked like when he was younger, and the two are a perfect match. He has a bookish temperament, which is a male virtue, and his demeanor appears elegant. I'm really amazed how a family with only word pieces could have a child like him.
Kim has a contemptuous attitude towards the younger generation in the Kojikata area, believing that most of the backward people there are uneducated, uneducated, and less skilled than ordinary people. She was married to her husband for many years and never had children. The first time I met Zhou Bingyi, his attitude immediately changed. His mother-in-law's views on Zhou Bingyi formed a positive foundation for him to maintain this marital relationship.
2 The two interacted affectionately with each other and loved each other deeply.
When Zhou Bingyi moved into his wife's house and communicated with his mother-in-law, Hao Dongmei felt very jealous.
When you love someone deeply, you can adjust your original intention for her. At that time, Zhou Bingyi lost his beloved father, while his mother was honored by his younger brother Bingkun and sister-in-law Zheng Juan. He once again plays the role of "unfilial son", and Kim Yue-hee, as a sensible intellectual woman, has an unusually in-depth daily conversation, although she has established a wide network of contacts in the political world for Bingyi. She talked to her son-in-law about her family situation, and her uncle said that her child was abandoned by her father. The two sons-in-law shared their lives as educated youths, including book culture, daily necessities such as firewood, rice, oil, salt, simple radishes and cabbage, chess, piano, calligraphy, paintings, and romantic romance.
Hao Dongmei felt very sad because her husband had spent more time with his mother. She decided to divorce after discussing it with her husband. However, Zhou Bingyi, as a promising young man, quickly restored the Hao family to its former prosperity. She didn't know what was the reason behind him giving up the division of the unit and preferring to live with her in the empty Hao family?Why would he give up this opportunity?First of all, both of them aspire to a harmonious and harmonious family relationship and pursue this goal together. The second is to make my mother's life better. At the moment, he is holding the post of deputy inspector and is a young cadre with vitality. The second is that he wants to be taken care of more, and he feels that he is not in good health and can no longer work. He is definitely entitled to live at his workplace. The second is that he has to take care of his body and can't give up his job just because he is sick. The reason for making such a choice was to avoid making Jin Yueji feel sad in her old age.
After a few days of questioning, the mother-in-law regarded Bingyi as her own son. Hao Dongmei's inner balance was broken, and she thought that her mother treated her even worse than a son-in-law. Jin Yueji, the retired female leadership director, has always been strict with her, so Hao Dongmei has not received much benefit.
Zhou Bingyi learned a lot of life wisdom from his mother-in-law, which was very fortunate for him. Jin Yueji has a strong interest in children, and she proposes to bring Zhou Rong's daughter here. She wants her daughter to be better cared for and helped in the family. She was not eager to see her daughter and son-in-law have children, and Feng Yue's appearance brought extra happiness to the Hao family. Although there is no direct connection between the two families, and neither of them wants to have any exchange of interests, Zhou Zhigang once expressed this opinion when he was alive, you are now an intellectual cadre, although I dare not criticize me, but I want to remind you not to forget that you are only temporarily living in your mother-in-law's house, which is different from the inverted door. You're half a daughter of your mother-in-law. If you become a son-in-law who is inverted, then you are undoubtedly half of the mother-in-law's child. I think you should agree with me to be this person. But do I approve of you being a son-in-law who is inverted?I don't think you're a capable person, so how can you be this?This has never happened, has it?So, you, Zhou Bingyi, have completely become the descendants of our Zhou family!
After Zhou Zhigang entered the Hao family, the moment he closed his eyes, he did not forgive his eldest son. "Son, you are a good person, you shouldn't be like this!Zhou Bingyi was very aware of his father's anger, so he didn't mention it again. In the original book "The World", he chose to live with his mother-in-law and live in someone else's house, just to show how he became different and achieved no small success in officialdom. The deep affection for Hao Dongmei is only a reason, and the end of the third chapter seems very bleak.
If Dongmei can't have children, that is the beginning of the tragedy of the Hao family. Zhou Bingyi's body collapsed due to overwork, which is actually the reason behind Hao Dongmei's choice to marry another person".
Reading the novella "The World" carefully, I found some puzzling "facts". These seemingly simple but complex questions have different answers in the author's pen. Zhou Bingyi has always been concerned about the people and firmly built buildings for the people of the light word. In his later years, he had to compensate not only for his debts to his parents, but more importantly, for his deep nostalgia for his hometown. "I am a farmer and I have known the hardships and hardships of farming since I was a child. I want to dedicate my life to the agricultural cause of my motherland, and I will dedicate my life to this society. Zhou Bingyi's body was full of strong enthusiasm, but unfortunately, the building was not completed, and he was later diagnosed with stomach cancer.
Due to his dedication to his work and his procrastination, it eventually led to his eventual tragic death. This is a typical case. Before his retirement, Zhou Bingyi successfully completed the demolition of two dangerous housing areas, known as "old difficulties", which provided a solid foundation for the work of his colleagues in the future. The first thing he did after retiring was to give his wife a check-up, and it turned out that he had lung cancer. When a person suffers from a serious illness at the age of 60, his heart is filled with thoughts of his family and those around him.
Dongmei has been distressed by her best friend's plight since she was a child, and she proposes to take Bingyi on a trip, maybe something will change when they return. Zhou Bingyi recalled his brilliant life and shared his experience of doing good deeds for the educated youth and serving the public, as well as his life experience after going to the countryside.
Towards the last moment of his life, Zhou Bingyi was deeply grateful to the elders in Area A of the new district, and burst into tears. In the past, Chang Jin's family got one property, and the Guoqing family got another. In the course of the investigation, Bingyi made two main points: the bias he showed when assisting Bingkun in the demolition campaign, and the fact that he had supported Zhou Cong's career after graduating from university.
As a senior cadre, Zhou Bingyi is not only incorruptible, but also more innocent and flawless. He was lying on a hospital bed, short of breath, his face was blue, and his eyes were a little red and swollen. Thanks to the wishes of his friends and the deep affection of the people, he suddenly fell ill and was placed in the intensive care unit. His daughter, brother and wife are all in the hospital**. With the recurrence of stomach cancer, his physical condition is not as strong as before. The cancer cells spread rapidly, and at that moment, he held his wife, Hao Dongmei's hand, tightly and told his sister and younger brother:
Zhou Rong, Bingkun, the three children of our parents, in this life, the greatest happiness is to be partners with good men and good women, and this husband and wife are second only to the kindness of their parents. You should be grateful to Xiaoguang and Zheng Juan.
At the last moment of his life, Zhou Bingyi wholeheartedly considered Hao Dongmei, and his last wish in his heart was to hope that his lover could enter marriage again. Some people can't spend those happy moments together for some reason. Some people can be together and share happiness and joy together. In the final part of the original, Zhou Rong served as Dongmei's bridesmaid and attended her wedding ceremony. Before leaving, she presented Dongmei with a book called "Children of Our Generation", in which there is a sentence that I, as a reader, can't help but shed tears:
If one day my sister-in-law is no longer my sister-in-law, but becomes someone else's wife, not only will I not feel sorry, but I will always bless her in my heart - a good woman should not live alone for a long time.
Bingkun and Zheng Juan became the elders of the family, while Zhou Cong and his daughter-in-law quarreled for three days a day, and the model couple, who had always been in love, finally achieved eternal happiness. In their eyes, life is an ever-changing process, and every time is a new beginning. Witnessing this moment, I have a new interpretation of "The World" - as a person who comes to this world, you must have a certain value, otherwise you will regret it for a lifetime
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