In fact, this is a misconception that small children do not become smart because they get older. It's like a small sapling, it's hard to grow if you don't have enough foundation. When it comes to the upbringing of children, it is unrealistic to expect them to understand and learn Xi on their own. Even if there is an opportunity, it may not always be successful. Su Xun can still study hard after the age Xi 28, but is there still such an opportunity in modern society?
When your children realize this, you will find that your parents have already started a hard life. Even if they did, the hardships of studying were far less than the hardships of making ends meet. If I had worked harder at that time, would the pain in my life be lessened?But once you fall into the abyss of pain, there is no way back. There is nothing saddest in life than regretting it afterwards.
We must remember that there are no children in the world who are born very smart, and there are only parents who are strictly supervised for a long time.
I often tell my children a piece of Jay Chou's song "Listen to Mom". He expressed his gratitude to his mother in song, thanking her for not putting down the vine. When we were children, we all wanted to find a good friend to play with, but Jay Chou practiced piano at the urging of his mother. When he wrote this song, he deeply realized that without his mother's encouragement from an early age, he would not have succeeded in the future. I asked the children if they often gave their parents strict supervision and discipline to motivate their parents. Until the day when they can take advantage of life's opportunities on their own.
We must hold on to this vine of life. It's a cruel society, and if you don't have enough strength, don't think about getting help from anyone. It's a cruel world, where the jungle eats the jungle and the jungle eats the jungle. It is the responsibility of parents to train their children to be healthy and strong. Raise children to be strong people so that they are not abandoned by the world. They will be grateful to their parents for the rattan whip they wield. To fight or not to fight, it is all up to one's own will, but its significance cannot be underestimated. We cannot ask children to be assertive at a very young age. A good child must have the ability to control himself, and this ability was originally caused by the strict discipline of parents.
The unwillingness of parents to take on their own obligations and to teach their children is the greatest deception. Let them only want happiness, but they don't know what rules are, what morality is, and what morality is. For example, the problem of internet addiction is caused by irresponsible parents. When your child is very young, you learn to take control of your family** and the computer. Even when a child cries or acts aggressively, never indulge. Since indulging them can make them more addictive.
Dependence on mobility** is one of the four most serious diseases in the world. Every child who is addicted to using their mobile phones is because their parents have not done their duty. The child's crying, crying, and suicide are actually testing the limits of the parents' tolerance, and they want to find out the scope of the parents' tolerance, so that there can be a reasonable explanation. However, many parents dote on their children, have no principles and no bottom line. Once you know that there is no lower limit for parents, your children will lose their bottom line. Children behave unscrupulously, either because they are too doting or because they have no rules themselves. If a child develops the habit of crying, crying, and suicide, then there is really no way. Responsible parents don't budge, they know that it's the children, not the grandparents, who raise them. The order of the young and the old is an iron law that cannot be abandoned. Parents do not have to provide for their children, let alone let their children support themselves. What is the purpose of holding a child in the palm of your hand?At the very least, there must be a seniority.
If you offer a child, then they will naturally worship you as a believer, worship you on the altar, and never come down again. I really can't understand why many modern societies worship children on altars, and what they do for them"Child development, child development" is a correct way of family education, should be in children.
It is done when I am five or six years old. You have to be determined to learn how Xi say "no" to your child, especially when it comes to principles. When you are afraid of a small child, you can't tell him "no", and when he grows up, he will no longer be afraid of you. Don't blame your child for not being well-behaved, it's because you haven't set up rules and regulations that make him respect and fear since you were a child, and you haven't let him establish his own principles and bottom line. So, when he grows up, he is not afraid of you.
Why do some children fear their teachers more than their parents?This is the guru's rule.
Why do some children no longer fear teachers?That's because some parents help their children break the rules.
Why do some children not like to learn Xi?Since you have to follow the rules when you go to school, you won't be bound by the rules when you're at home, and you can still play. Why do they have to come to school to suffer?
Teachers teach students to be disciplined in class, and parents expect them to bring the patience and rights they have at home to school, not knowing that it is against the rules to do so. Some parents may complain that their families are overburdened, but in fact, excessive family assignments can improve their personality and improve their academic performance. Parents must be firm in their support for their children and flexible in their approach. In order to develop children's self-control, they should be regulated.
Parents should keep in mind:
Children do not have an innate sense of self, and some are only the harsh spurs of their parents for a long time. We cannot rely only on primary and secondary school teachers to teach students, and today's teachers cannot shoulder the heavy responsibility of educating people. Attitudes towards public education are becoming more relaxed due to the fear of responsibility;Private universities chase profits and are not too strict with their students. Parents themselves are the main objects of learning Xi, and if parents are not conscious, they will regret it in the future.
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