When Zhou Bingkun first met Zheng Juan, who was known as the "pretty widow", he developed a deep affection for her.
Zhou Bingkun went to Zheng Juan's home to deliver cash, she was sitting on the kang at the time, wearing sugar gourds, but not cotton pants and socks, inadvertently exposing her ankles and calves.
Zhou Bingkun, a person who has never been involved in love, has unrealistic fantasies about Zheng Juan, and even has the urge to pursue her.
Zhou Bingkun's deep affection for Zheng Juan originated from the "pursuit of **".
After these two people get married, they often need to relieve the pressure and fatigue in their lives through "sexual affairs", which is described in the original work of "The World":
Between them, sex undoubtedly acts as a mutual reward from body to mind, and it is often the secret of their fight against poverty, adversity, and challenges, and to persevere in life together. ”
Compared with Zhou Bingkun's "open" attitude, his brother Zhou Bingyi is more "restrained" when expressing love
In the TV series version, Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei started a romantic date, and the two hid in the woods. When they walked out, Hao Dongmei found that her hair was disheveled, her head was covered in grass clippings and leaves, and the buttons of her blouse were not tied properly.
The scene sparked endless reverie.
Although Zhou Bingyi seems to be elegant and steady on the surface, he had improper contact with Hao Dongmei before he was married. In that more conservative era, Zhou Bingyi's behavior was actually quite bold.
In fact, in the original work "The World", Zhou Bingyi is described as a real "upright person", and he never had contact with Hao Dongmei before marriage;Out of deep affection for Hao Dongmei, Zhou Bingyi decided to give up the opportunity for promotion, and even took the initiative to give up the child after marriage, and his persistence in this relationship reached its peak.
Zhou Bingyi's deep affection for Hao Dongmei is too pure.
In the original work "The World", the love affair between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, both of whom pursue spiritual resonance, they quietly close the curtains at home, just to appreciate those forbidden classics, which are described in the book:
Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei can always find books to read that they have never touched before. They would sometimes close the curtains at Zhou's house, read and listen at the same time, and even discuss and argue. ”
Even Zhou Bingyi's sister Zhou Rong thinks that the love between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei is too "desireless" and lacks passion, but the two have obviously adapted to this gentle way of getting along.
In the original work of "The World", Hao Dongmei had a crush on Zhou Bingyi when she was in junior high school, but at that time, Zhou Bingyi devoted herself to her studies and was not at all affected by young men and women.
In her freshman year of high school, Hao Dongmei finally got tired of the pain of her crush, so she expressed her feelings to Zhou Bingyi. Zhou Bingyi believes that the relationship between him and Hao Dongmei is not pure love, but a precious friendship.
Although Zhou Bingyi is still young, he knows that love needs the right conditions. Hao Dongmei is the daughter of the vice governor, and he is the son of a construction worker, so the class gap is difficult to bridge easily.
Moreover, Zhou Bingyi's feelings for Hao Dongmei are not deep. If Zhou Bingyi rashly agreed to fall in love because of Hao Dongmei's initiative, it would be a very irresponsible act, which not only destroyed the deep friendship between them, but also desecrated the sacred love in his heart.
It wasn't until Hao Dongmei showed a "light word film" shot by Zhou Bingyi that the relationship between the two was further deepened.
Due to the dirty mess of the "light word piece", Hao Dongmei shed tears. Although she lives in a small bungalow, she does not know that there are "light word pieces" in this world. She was deeply ashamed of herself and her father.
Hao Dongmei's father is the vice governor in charge of urban construction, and the existence of "light word pieces" is, in Hao Dongmei's eyes, her father's dereliction of duty.
Hao Dongmei bowed affectionately to Zhou Bingyi and apologized to him. Soon after, a deputy governor walked into the "light word piece" to inspect it. Soon after, Hao Dongmei's father was defeated, and Zhou Bingyi stood beside Hao Dongmei without hesitation.
The leader of the rebels suddenly suffered a heart attack and collapsed in Hao Dongmei's courtyard. At that time, their members were all involved in public criticism meetings against Hao Dongmei's father and several other "capitalist roaders." If she hadn't stopped him from the street in time and taken him to the hospital, there was a good chance that the leader of the rebel would have died.
Zhou Bingyi was deeply moved by Hao Dongmei's kindness and compassion, and he shared Hao Dongmei's touching deeds with Zhou Rong. Zhou Rong said affectionately: "Brother, please love her deeply and take on the responsibility of protecting her." I really hope she can be my sister-in-law, because I think you two really are a couple. She had the compassion of Lady Stowe, which was most valuable to women, and secondarily to her thoughts. ”
Zhou Rong's "She has a compassionate heart" reveals the fact that Zhou Bingyi did not hesitate to risk his life in order to marry Hao Dongmei.
Once Zhou Bingyi chooses a woman, his fate will never change, and being able to marry Zhou Bingyi is a kind of luck for Hao Dongmei.
A tender love affair began between Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei, Hao Dongmei is a decent person, she never gobbles up when she eats, unless it is three meals, she will not eat snacks casually even if she is hungry.
The love between the two is full of elegance, Zhou Bingyi has deep respect for Hao Dongmei, and has never made any unconventional moves, which is described in the original work of "The World":
They also kiss occasionally, but it's just a simple lip-to-lip contact. Somehow, at that time, her lips never opened, and he often only tasted it, and the so-called deep kiss was unprecedented between them. ”
He was willing to talk to her affectionately, making garlands for her, but he never tried to put his hand in her arms. He never kissed her on the lips. He never unbuttoned her shirt.
The two of them decided to get married, and despite the differences in their family backgrounds, an affectionate kiss between them was realized.
Zhou Bingyi, out of consideration for Hao Dongmei, gave up the perfect opportunity for promotion.
Although Hao Dongmei was born in a "capitalist roader" family, Zhou Bingyi still firmly wanted to marry her. Compared with Hao Dongmei, her career prospects and wealth can be put aside temporarily.
Zhou Bingyi has become Xi to Hao Dongmei's existence, and his feelings for Hao Dongmei are not only out of love and responsibility, but also his long-term way of life, which is also described in the book "The World".
Hao Dongmei is undoubtedly a person who longs to have both fish and bear's paws. If he thinks that in order to get the bear's paw, he must lose the fish, then he is the kind of man who will quickly turn the bear's paw to the other side. This is closely related to the influence on him in certain loves**. These ** glorify unwavering love and form their own moral code in his mind. However, the taboos of these moral codes are not the main reason, more importantly, he has become Xi that Dongmei cannot be absent in life, just as ** believers have become Xi to the fact that the Bible cannot be missing in life. ”
After Zhou Bingyi and Hao Dongmei got married, both successfully entered university Xi. Although Zhou Bingyi was warmly welcomed by his female classmates at Peking University, he was always wholeheartedly and never had feelings for other girls. For Hao Dongmei, Zhou Bingyi's love is pure and immaculate.
In the original work of "The World", Hao Dongmei is at risk of giving birth due to health problems, while Zhou Bingyi resolutely does not want children, so they have no children in their lives.
Hao Dongmei's family has been rehabilitated, which is different from the drama version. In the original book, Hao Dongmei's father died in prison, and Hao Dongmei's mother regained her identity. Although her mother-in-law is very good at words, Zhou Bingyi respects her very much, does her best to be filial to her mother-in-law, and cares about her later life.
At first, the mother-in-law was not optimistic about Zhou Bingyi, who was born in "light word films", but through Zhou Bingyi's actual behavior, the mother-in-law began to re-evaluate him, and even regarded him as her own son.
After Zhou Bingkun was imprisoned, he had some kind of relationship with Zhou Bingyi's mother-in-law, so that Zhou Bingkun's sentence was reduced.
Fish and water companions, share happy times together. Zhou Bingyi used these eight words to describe the marital status of Zhou Rong and Cai Xiaoguang, Hao Dongmei felt envious of Zhou Rong, so Zhou Bingyi expressed his feelings to her:
Our relationship is like a piano, and this is the other way. If I often joke about Zhou Rong like Cai Xiaoguang and change my style, then it will be difficult for me to become a good cadre. If you like me like Zhou Rong, I won't think it's you. Husbands and wives have different levels of intimacy, so why do we have to be like them?”
As a result, Hao Dongmei's mood was released.
In the last moments of his life, he persuaded his wife to remarry.
In the original work of "The World", Zhou Bingyi is an honest and good official who is loyal to his feelings and conscientious in his work, but due to excessive work commitment, he has some physical problems.
After Hao Dongmei retired, she traveled with Zhou Bingyi and relaxed her mood. Zhou Bingyi said that he is still grateful for those days of hard work, because during that time, he experienced the joy of serving the public, and also because during that time, he experienced and received sincere love.
Hao Dongmei was deeply moved, and her eyes were full of tears.
Hao Dongmei mentioned in an interview: "Aren't you asking me what the highlight moment of my life is?I want to tell you that my marriage to Bingyi was one of the highlights of my life. ”
In Zhou Bingyi's later years, his stomach problems flared up again. In the last moments of his life, he had a brief conversation with his wife, Hao Dongmei, hoping that she would remarry and find a stable home. After explaining everything, Zhou Bingyi left this world forever.
Zhou Bingyi's deep affection for Hao Dongmei, he adhered to his whole life, and even at the end of his life, he considered his wife, and his love for her was too deep.
After Hao Dongmei was widowed, she quickly entered the palace of marriage again, and her second husband was a person known as the "Red Second Generation", nearly seventy years old, which was described in the original work of "The World":
Her friends, who live abroad, have created connections and bridges between him and him. He had already obtained a green card in the United States, and initially he was in business both at home and abroad, but when he felt tired, his son took over his work. He told Dongmei that the father and son had very successful business activities, and that they were both overseas Chinese who loved their country more and more as they got older after going abroad. ”
When Zhou Bingkun explained this to Zheng Juan, she paused slightly, and then happily said: "I often think about my sister-in-law like this, which is really a good thing, even if she remarries, she is still our family!."”
Hao Dongmei told Zhou Rong: "I made this choice for your brother. In the last moments of his life, he wanted me to grant his request and, of course, I needed to find a new home. ”
Summary section. Zhou Bingkun met Hao Dongmei and her second spouse on the street, which made him feel quite uncomfortable with his former "uncle and sister-in-law", which is described in the original work of "The World":
Both are shocked by their unexpected encounter, and who can pretend that it is too late not to see each other. Hao Dongmei's figure is slightly plump, and her complexion is also very good. She went to South Korea for cosmetic surgery, and she recovered quickly from minor surgery, feeling that she was suddenly five or six years younger, and she had found the satisfaction of a home again. ”
Zhou Bingkun changed his title, no longer using "sister-in-law", but chose "Sister Dongmei".
This means that with the death of Zhou Bingyi, the connection between the people of the Zhou family and Hao Dongmei has been severed, but this is consistent with what Zhou Rong described in her **:
Even if the happiness we feel is simply because we once had a good sister-in-law, I will be grateful. If one day my sister-in-law ceases to be my sister-in-law and becomes someone else's wife, not only will I not feel regret, but I will always bless her in my heart - a good woman cannot live alone for a long time.