The ancients once said: "Maxima is often there, but Bole is not." Therefore, although there is a famous horse, it is only humiliated by the hands of slaves, and it is not called a thousand miles. It means that a talented person, if he fails to meet a noble person, then he will not be able to show his talent, and can only live a mediocre life.
The same is true in the workplace!When you move up to a certain position, it's hard to get to the next level without the appreciation of the top leadership. "One radish and one pit", there are often fewer pits and more radishes in the workplace. In the era when wolves have more meat and less meat, only when you meet the help of nobles can you climb higher peaks and enjoy more vast scenery.
The appearance of key people may even affect your whole life. Because the appearance of key people can not only help you in the workplace, but also his philosophy of life and experience will also affect you for a lifetime, helping you to overcome obstacles and ride the wind and waves in your future life.
1. Key people help the workplace
Lao Niu has joined a Fortune 500 company for many years, he is down-to-earth and hardworking, with excellent performance, from an ordinary salesman step by step to the general position of regional marketing. However, after several years in the position of Regional Marketing Director, it was difficult for him to go one step further.
Because the position of the regional executive is either a senior employee who is more senior than him and has made great contributions, or a family and friend of the founder of the group. Therefore, Lao Niu's position in the company has reached its limit.
People go to higher places, and water flows to lower places. Lao Niu is in the age of not being confused, naturally has his own ambitions, how can there be no nobles to help, Rao is his outstanding ability is also powerless, stop.
Lao Deng and Lao Niu are colleagues in different regions of the same company, Lao Deng is slightly younger, but he is already a regional vice president. Because Lao Deng was appreciated by the regional president, the regional president recognized Lao Deng's ability very much, and promoted the other party from a project marketing general to a regional vice president step by step.
Ability is important, opportunity is more important, and a large part of the so-called opportunity is your key person。The appearance of noble people will make your path of growth smoother. As a phrase has been said on the Internet: ".You didn't get to where you are today because of your relationship, but because of your relationship, you have a chance to play fair.
Zhao Kuangyin, the founding emperor of the Great Song Dynasty, Chen Qiao mutinied, and the yellow robe was added, everyone knows it. But how did he go from a low-level general to the power of the forbidden army?
When Later Zhou Shizong was in power, the commander of the forbidden army was named Zhang Yongde. Zhang Yongde is the veteran of the Later Zhou Dynasty, he not only followed the founder of the Later Zhou Dynasty Guo Wei to fight in the south and the north, and made great contributions, he is also Guo Wei's son-in-law, at the age of 24, he was promoted to the commander of the palace because of his military merits, and his reputation in the army is great. Before Guo Wei's death, because his biological son died early, his son-in-law Zhang Yongde and adopted son Chai Rong were both candidates for the throne. Although Chai Rong successfully won the position of heir in the end, Zhang Yongde's prestige remained high.
So when Chai Rong was about to die, he was worried that his seven-year-old son would be threatened by Zhang Yongde, and it would be difficult for him to sit on the throne. So he removed Zhang Yongde and appointed his henchman Zhao Kuangyin as the front of the palace to be in charge of the forbidden army. Zhao Kuangyin is Chai Rong's descendant, Zhao Kuangyin was on duty under him when Chai Rong was still the Yin of Kaifeng Mansion, it can be said that he was cultivated by Chai Rong, and Chai Rong trusted him very much.
The key figure of Zhao Kuangyin is Chai Rong, and because of Chai Rong's trust, he can step by step to the pinnacle of power. If it weren't for Chai Rong's promotion, Zhao Kuangyin wouldn't be able to control the military power at all, and there were many people in the army whose prestige and strength were stronger than him. But the world is so wonderful, Zhao Kuangyin was appreciated by Chai Rong, and finally ascended to the sky in one step and became the Ninth Five-Year Supreme.
Key people will create many opportunities for you, and these opportunities need to be grasped by yourself. If you just wait for the help of noble people and do not improve yourself, even if the opportunity comes, you will not be able to grasp it
2. Key people broaden relationships
China is a humane society, and many times you have to rely on acquaintances to do things in your work and life. Sometimes, if the network is strong enough, the difficult thing will become easy, and it will be easy to solve. If the relationship network is a little worse, even if it can be reluctantly solved in the end, it will consume much more manpower, material resources, and financial resources. So to a certain extent, the strength of the network affects the breadth of a person's achievements.
A year after graduating from university, Mr. Pan started his own business and opened a travel transportation company. The one who provided him with financial support and strategic ideas was Mr. Pan's year-old handover to Brother Xu. Brother Xu is more than 20 years older than Mr. Pan, but he admires Mr. Pan's business acumen very much and introduces Mr. Pan to many friends around him.
After the tourism transportation company was started, under the guidance of Brother Xu, Mr. Pan partnered with Brother Rong and others to open a farm park on the outskirts of the city. The park has a variety of recreational facilities for company team building and school teachers and students, as well as camping areas and farm stays for visitors to enjoy.
At the beginning of the opening, Brother Xu and Brother Rong brought their friends to come to the show. For a while, the park was full of people and lively. Later, their respective friends felt that the experience of the park was good, so they introduced their friends to play. In addition, they also cooperated with the Municipal Art Association to provide free space for the Art Association to paint.
After some operation, the fame of the farmhouse paradise has soared, and it has become the first choice for local people to rest and entertain on weekends. After the operation of the farmhouse park, Mr. Pan moved his attention to his hometown because his hometown is a scenic spot with good scenery. Just do it, Mr. Pan returned to his hometown, built a hotel, and opened a restaurant. After the hotels and restaurants in Mr. Pan's hometown were put into operation, Brother Xu, Brother Rong and others used their networks to introduce many customer resources to Mr. Pan, so Mr. Pan's hotel turnover increased day and night.
Mr. Pan met Brother Xu, a key person in his life, and Brother Xu spared no effort to help him, and used his network to help Mr. Pan pave the way, so that Mr. Pan could have a prosperous career in the year of not being confused, and he could avoid decades of detours.
Therefore, in the workplace or business, if you are lucky enough to meet your own nobles, you must learn to maintain this relationship, take advantage of the situation, seize the opportunity, and manage the network brought by key people. You can't make it difficult for your nobles because of your own reasons.
In the early years of the Qing Dynasty, a literati named Wu Zhaoqian was implicated in a scientific research fraud case and was exiled to Ningguta. The place where he was exiled was a remote and extremely cold place, full of wind and snow, and the sky was freezing, which was simply hell on earth for Wu Zhaoqian. He has a friend named Gu Zhenguan, who is very knowledgeable, but unfortunately he is a descendant of the Donglin Party in the late Ming Dynasty, so he was naturally not used by the Qing court. Even if he had the heart to rescue Wu Zhaoqian, he was powerless.
It wasn't until later that Gu Zhenguan got acquainted with Nalan Xingde, although Nalan Xingde was born in a famous family, but he did not have the flying and domineering of the second generation of officials, he treated people modestly and made friends with many cloth literati. After Gu Zhenguan and Nalan Xingde became confidants and friends, they asked each other to find a way to rescue their friend Wu Zhaoqian. Nalan Xingde's father, Mingzhu, is a powerful minister in the court, and Nalan Xingde naturally has the ability and resources to deal with this matter. Under the operation of Nalan Xingde and others, Wu Zhaoqian was finally pardoned and was able to return to the Central Plains. After returning to the Central Plains, Wu Zhaoqian and Nalan Xingde also became friends.
Sometimes, friends are passed on one by one, and eventually form their own network. Nalan Xingde is Gu Zhenguan's nobleman, and Gu Zhenguan is Wu Zhaoqian's nobleman, and in the end they both became lifelong confidants and friends. The noble person helped you out of kindness and introduced a friend to you, but you did not take good care of it, making the other party dissatisfied. This is no longer your own business, it involves the harmony of the nobleman's reputation and his circle of connections. Therefore, you should pay attention to the friends who are recommended to you, which is a respect for the noble person and a return.
3. Key people influence thinking
In life, we will find that thoughts and behavioral habits can be inherited, especially the every move of idols, which is easy to trigger the imitation of fans, which is the power of role models. Similarly, in the workplace, the key person you meet, whose standards of conduct will affect you to a greater or lesser extent, and you may not be able to feel it now. But at some point in the future, you'll wake up. This trick you use in the workplace, your key person has also used it, and you learn it from him and apply it flexibly to the real world, which is the inheritance.
Hui is always the general manager of an Internet company, and when it comes to dealing with subordinates, he uses the same methods as the company's chairman, Mr. Xie, who promoted him. Both of them lead the troops strictly, although sometimes subordinates will complain about Mr. Hui's ruthlessness, but they also admire Mr. Hui's clear rewards and punishments. At the same time, Mr. Hui likes to divide the department into two small teams, let the teams compete with each other, and use the catfish effect to stimulate the department's enthusiasm for work.
These tricks used by Mr. Hui were all used by Mr. Xie to deal with him back then. Mr. Hui persevered, and finally stood out from a group of subordinates and was promoted to general manager. The key person, Mr. Xie's working methods and way of life, were unconsciously engraved in Mr. Hui's heart. When faced with the same thing, Hui always uses the same method to deal with it. Because he has seen and even deeply experienced the effect of this method, this has naturally become Mr. Hui's first choice.
People always like to look up to the best, and while the key people help you, they will naturally leave you with unforgettable memories. We will also habitually follow suit, because the key person has a halo in your heart, so he will guide you to gather with him, which is the celebrity effect.
Key people play an extremely important role in our lives, if we can meet such a noble person, we must learn to cherish it, grow as quickly as possible, and do not disappoint the people who promote or reuse you.
Because choosing you and promoting you represents the level and vision of the leader, if you don't fight, it will make your noble face dull.
The grace of a drop of water is reciprocated by a spring. What's more, it is the grace of the key person in life, and it must be remembered. How fortunate it is to meet Bole in life, he can help your career, he can expand your relationship circle, he can influence your three views, and finally help you achieve a career.
Write at the end. If you have met that noble person, please cherish your fate with himIf you haven't met Bole yet, then continue to work hard and constantly improve yourself, and opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared.