When the cold winter wind gently brushes your cheeks, when the crowd at the train station is filled with the anticipation of returning home, do you also think of the question: "Are you still single when you go home this year?"For many people, this question may be an invisible pressure, but also a deep expectation.
Xiao Li is one of them. He is an ordinary white-collar worker, busy with the company's work every day, and his life is fast and intense. However, every year during the Spring Festival, he always chooses to go home, to that familiar place, to that home full of love and warmth. However, whenever his family asked him about his relationship status, he always smiled and said, "I'm still single." ”
This "still" contains a lot of helplessness and sadness. Xiao Li once had an unforgettable relationship, but eventually broke up for various reasons. Since then, he has remained single, and although he has tried to accept new relationships in the past, he has never been able to find that heart-warming feeling every time.
Xiao Li's family expressed concern about his single status, and they hoped that he could find a suitable person as soon as possible and settle down. They worry that he will be lonely outside alone, that he will become negative because of loneliness. Their concerns are not unfounded, after all, people are social creatures, and we all crave someone to be there and someone to share the joys and sorrows of life.
Xiao Li did not agree with their views. He felt that being single did not mean being lonely, nor did it mean being unhappy. He enjoys being single and enjoying that feeling of being at ease. "I'm not afraid of being alone, I just haven't met that person who can make my heart tick," he said. ”
Xiao Li's story may be a portrayal of many single young people. They work hard in the big city, and in the face of all kinds of pressures in life, they choose to be independent and choose to be strong. On the way to find love, they may encounter difficulties and may feel lost, but they never give up.
Returning home for the Chinese New Year is both an expectation and a challenge for them. They look forward to finding comfort in the care of their families, and they are also looking forward to finding that person who can make their hearts flutter in the new year. They know that the road can be long and difficult, but they are willing to try and try.
So, when you go home for the New Year, you are asked, "Are you still single when you go home this year?".Don't feel pressured or ashamed when asking this question. Because it's just a part of life, it's a necessary path for everyone to grow. What you need to do is to stick to your choices, stick to your dreams, and believe that one day, you will find the person who can make your heart flutter.