When we were young, we always focused on pursuing our dreams, worked hard, and didn't have time to take care of the emotions between our families. We often ignore the wordless tacit understanding and deep friendship with our brothers and sisters, we don't fully recognize this precious emotion, or we don't feel it deeply enough in the process.
It is not until we enter middle age, when all kinds of hardships and setbacks in life come to us, that we begin to feel the preciousness of family affection and the importance of brothers and sisters. In the face of the competitive pressure of society, the confusion of work, and the distractions of family, we have begun to understand that in this complex and noisy world, only brothers and sisters can truly understand our feelings and help us tide over difficulties.
Unlike friends, the affection between siblings is deeper and tacit. They have experienced the carefree and youthful years of childhood with us, and shared the responsibilities and pressures of the family. The tacit understanding between brothers and sisters and the bond of blood make us always feel their support and courage to stand up in times of crisis.
When we get older, we find that brothers and sisters are a lifelong dependent, and of course not everyone can be so lucky. After the death of many siblings, the bond of affection gradually thins and the bond between siblings gradually decreases. Nowadays, because the relationship between siblings and sisters is not very good, the relationship is mostly good, but not necessarily between brothers, and the relationship between most brothers is not very good. Some people are too selfish or focused on the pursuit of their own careers, and some even alienate each other because of property disputes, jealousy or other reasons, ignoring the true meaning of family affection.
In fact, the affection of brothers and sisters is irreplaceable, and it is also a precious treasure that we will pass down from generation to generation. Only when we need help will we find those brothers and sisters who are silent and always by our side, silently giving behind us.
When we are old, we will understand: when our parents are gone, brothers and sisters will replace our parents, and since ancient times, there has been a saying that "the eldest brother is like a father, and the eldest sister is like a mother". When we are old, our brothers and sisters are also people who see each other and lose one side, and all we can do is cherish the fate of this life. When we are old and almost unable to walk, we can still talk with our brothers and sisters, chat, talk and laugh, that is the greatest joy and happiness in old age. The rest of your life is not long, please cherish this family affection and warmth.