The minutiae of love always reveal the true face. Those who truly love you will care about you from the bottom of their hearts, love you, and you will always be full of topics, and the two will appreciate and attract each other. People who don't love you will turn a blind eye to your strengths, always perfunctory, and even if they have been together for a long time, they will not be able to have real emotional communication. Time can gain insight into people's hearts and tell you whether a person is sincere to you. Some women are full of sensual fantasies about love, thinking that a man's sweet words can last a lifetime, but love or not depends on his actions, not words. So, women need to keep their eyes open.
If a man no longer loves you, he will treat you in four ways, stop being stupid and pay for him. He always denies your efforts. A woman, only if she is sincere, will she unreservedly dedicate herself to the person she loves. In "Growing Up with You", Lin Yunyun is such a woman, she supports her husband Gu Jiawei's career, is willing to be a housewife, and takes care of the family. However, her efforts were not recognized. When the child's grades declined, Gu Jiawei accused her of not teaching the child well, and even thought that being a housewife was easy, and turned a blind eye to her efforts. Gu Jiawei's attitude undoubtedly shows that he doesn't love Lin Yunyun, he only cares about himself.
Only a man who truly loves you will resonate with you, he understands your desires, understands your difficulties, and appreciates your efforts. A man who doesn't love you will constantly deny you, even if you are good to him, he will only see your shortcomings and take your efforts for granted. He often doesn't reply to your messages. A man who truly loves you will always make time for you; A man who doesn't love you is always busy. Zhang Ailing once said: "If a person does not reply to your messages, it is because he is unwilling, and if a person cannot leave you, it is because he is unwilling to leave."
A man who doesn't love you will use busyness as an excuse to ignore you, even if he actually has plenty of time. When a man often doesn't reply to your messages, don't wait any longer, he is willing to snub you, which means that he doesn't really love you. He rarely spends time with you. Grandma Moses once said, "Those who truly love you will always find time to spend with you, while those who don't love you will always find excuses to shirk." "Companionship is the best embodiment of love, it can resist all the hardness of life and bring warmth to the years of life. Someone who truly loves you is willing to be there for you all the time, and he will find time to see you even if he is busy at work.
However, a man who is rarely with you may have put you last, he puts himself first, work second, and you last. If he fails to provide support and companionship when you need him the most, such a man may not really love you. His attitude is sometimes hot and cold, distant and sometimes close, so that you can't figure out what he really thinks. This kind of hot and cold attitude towards you suggests that he may no longer love you. For such a man, is it worth your grief again? Is it worth tormenting yourself for his hot and cold again?
When a man ignores your efforts, doesn't reply to your messages, and rarely accompanies you, it may mean that he doesn't love you anymore. Love is mutually reciprocal, if your efforts are not reciprocated, and your expectations are not answered, maybe you should consider letting go, because only the person who truly loves you is worth your giving.