985 female master's "ghost obsessed mind", followed her three boyfriends back to her hometown, and only woke up when her advantages were exhausted
If life is compared to a fantastical journey, birth is the starting point. Although a student's starting point varies greatly depending on their family background, the ultimate path is a matter of personal choice. Some people are able to rise to the occasion, while others fail with good hands.
Although boys and girls face roughly the same path in life, for girls, once they make the wrong choice, they may fall into difficulties, especially the "love brain" may lead to academic deviations, and by the time they come to their senses, it is already too late.
It was once said, "Reading makes a man wise." "The accumulation of knowledge not only broadens people's horizons, but also enables people to look at things more rationally. However, in Hebei, there is a girl who, despite having an excellent educational background, is confused about life events, which is a counter-example.
This girl has always performed well in her studies and was successfully admitted to the 985 key university for graduate studies and successfully graduated. On a normal trajectory, her career should have been great. However, she took a detour because of a relationship. A male classmate with poor grades in high school reappeared in her life in college.
The boy launched a passionate pursuit and managed to capture her heart, and she also threw herself into the relationship without reservation. Even in terms of career choice, he moved forward with his boyfriend. Although the girl had a good education and could have stayed in the big city to develop, and might even have obtained a Tianjin hukou, her boyfriend's limitations made her choose to return to her hometown in Hebei.
This choice caused a lot of bitterness among relatives and friends, but no matter how much persuasion she tried, she eventually returned to a small place with few resources. It's a pity that she couldn't find a suitable job, and when she tried to take the civil service exam, she was only admitted to the county career establishment because of her professional bias.
The girl's step-by-step compromise did not bring her a happy life, but her boyfriend began to dislike her for working in the township, and the relationship between the two gradually drifted apart, and finally broke up. The boyfriend turned around and married a college teacher, a blow that was difficult for the girl to accept, causing her to fall into depression and even rely on drugs to maintain sleep.
However, what's the use of regretting?All the hard work at the beginning failed to stop her, and finally ended up with "losing her wife and breaking her soldiers". Love and career are both disappointed, although it is distressing, but can only say that the path you have chosen, and you can walk by yourself. The only thing that can be done is to accept and try to adjust yourself.
What happened to the girl is embarrassing, but it is also a vivid proof of the importance of life choices. Although she had a high starting point, the final choice led her into a difficult situation. This incident is a wake-up call for all students, a high starting point does not mean a long journey, and life choices are crucial. Don't squander because you think you have an advantage, and by the time you regret it, it's too late.
Every life decision needs to be thought about and not swayed by impulse. Planning, forward-looking, young is capital, but over time, continuous attempts may waste a lot of time, and the advantages accumulated before will be gradually consumed.
Especially in the face of major events such as starting a family and starting a business, we must humbly listen to the advice of others, and "listen to people's advice to eat enough" is not a meaningless statement. It is important to have your own opinions, but you should not turn a deaf ear to the kind reminders of others, and you can only make the best solution by combining your personal ideas and the suggestions of others, and do not "do not hit the south wall and do not look back".
Campus romance is sweet, but students should stay rational and not gamble with their lives. It is common for college students to fall in love, but due to their lack of experience and thinking, they tend to appear naïve when dealing with affairs and making decisions. Falling in love is beautiful, but the reality is cruel, students can't get lost in sweet love, and they can't let the "love brain" control their judgment.
Although it is important to keep moving with your heart when it comes to falling in love, students should still act rationally. You can let go of your calculations in small things, but you must be cautious when it comes to big issues related to the future, especially when it comes to decisions such as employment and marriage, you need to be more cautious to minimize risks and avoid losses.
Education provides students with more options and possibilities for development, but students should keep their eyes open and not bet on their future and prospects. While some students may want to take a risk, it is important to be cautious and not to gamble lightly on the future prospects, as failure will not only hurt you, but also disappoint your parents' expectations and hard work.
Editor's Note] The purpose of learning is not only to obtain academic qualifications, but also to broaden horizons. I hope that every student can understand this, stay forward-looking when choosing the most important time in life, and develop themselves, so that they can better encounter better opportunities and be worthy of their parents' expectations and their own efforts.
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