As soon as Li Shuang graduated from university, he entered the system and became the envy of everyone.
Now that he has been married for many years, his lover is also a civil servant in the system, and he has always felt that his marriage is dull and without a little passion.
One day, colleagues got together for tea, everyone talked about their marital status, and everyone unanimously stated that a man like them would generally marry these 4 types of objects, and also agreed that people can only be happy forever if they find the most suitable one.
Are you also curious about the marital status of civil servants in the system, and do you also want to see what the other half of civil servants in the system is like?
Civil servants in the system, with high social status and stable income, no matter how the outside world economy changes, it will not affect their income and life, and outsiders always feel that their married life should be the happiest. But is it really what everyone says?
Male civil servants in the system, they generally marry the following four types of women, which marriage is the most desirable?
Let's take a look at the secret.
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Female civil servants in the same system
Many people in the system are internally digested. They will choose a lifelong partner in their work circle. They work in the same nature and have a lot of common topics.
However, there may be disputes over work, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife.
Most of the civil servants in the system work similarly, and everyone's way of thinking will be relatively similar, and the two people are slowly, like left and right hands, without any freshness and passion.
People will also look at the problem from a similar perspective, which will lead to certain limitations.
In this way, it may not be conducive to the balanced development of the family.
Alumni of the University
A university is incomplete without love, and many college love has achieved positive results, and after many years of love, they finally entered the palace of marriage together, which is happy and enviable.
Campus love is the purest, without any impurities, and everyone's values and outlook on life are the same, so they can come together.
However, after entering the society, as the individual's experience and life experience are different, the values and worldview of the two people will also change, and the differences will naturally appear.
If this love without impurities can not be further sublimated in the grinding of life, the tribulations at work may not be supported and understood by the other party, and when the passion subsides, everyone may be separated.
Therefore, if we can change our communication methods after marriage, re-understand each other, and think about problems from each other's point of view, this pure love is still worth having.
Blind dates
Nowadays, everyone likes to stay at home, partly because everyone is busy with work and doesn't have extra time to go out and meet friends.
On the other hand, the development of the Internet allows everyone to live a good life without going out, and takeaways, online shopping, and online movies can all turn people into otaku and otaku.
Therefore, our parents will urge us to go on a blind date, and there will be three aunts and six mothers-in-law to introduce us to the partner.
However, modern parents can't help but look at people in their time, and they feel that kindness and filial piety are the best.
But what you are looking for is definitely not like this, what you want is a soul mate who can match your heart.
So, if you get married in a hurry because you are urging you to get married, relying on the eyes of your parents, you may find that this is not the marriage you want.
Therefore, don't forget your own pursuit because of urging marriage, we are not marrying our parents, we are looking for our other half.
An intellectual girl who develops independently
This kind of women have their own pursuits and goals, and they are full of fighting spirit and do not have the kind of slackness in the system.
They have seen all kinds of the world outside, and they are decisive and tactful.
Communicating with them can often make your eyes shine, they have an active mind and rich experience in life and work.
In life, it can bring you a different perspective, make your marriage full of passion, and make you feel the happiness of your marriage.
Independent-minded women will be more attractive.
Of course, the happiness of marriage depends on the joint efforts of both parties, and everyone must continue to invest time and energy in the family.
May we all meet a suitable partner on the road of life.