"You wouldn't have achieved anything today without the help of my father, Zhang Jiayi. ”
Zhang Jiayi never thought of this harsh and self-respecting sentence at that time.
It was said from the mouth of his wife Du Jun.
This sentence is like a sharp knife, completely destroying Zhang Jiayi's only remaining "dignity".
Before 2001, because he did not become famous, Zhang Jiayi was called by Du Jun with disgust"Eat soft rice"。
Wang Haiyan, who was married for the second time, was very fond of Zhang Jiayi, even if he did not become famous after 2004.
In the process of his growth, Zhang Jiayi, as a late-blooming actor, faced many thorns on the road to fame.
As Zhang Jiayi's second wife, Wang Haiyan has played a decisive role in his growth, and it can be said that she is a witness to his growth.
Zhang Jiayi's "addiction" became the culprit that caused their relationship to be in jeopardy.
Zhang Jiayi has been addicted to mahjong for nearly 20 years, and his obsession with the game is comparable to that of today's "Internet addicted teenagers".
Zhang Jiayi, a well-known figure in the entertainment industry, is known for his excellent mahjong skills, and has fought fiercely at the mahjong table for 48 consecutive hours, creating amazing results.
Fortunately, with her wisdom and love, Wang Haiyan successfully helped Zhang Jiayi get rid of "addiction", and saved their marriage, making them return to happiness from the brink of divorce.
Wang Haiyan's dedication to Zhang Jiayi is actually far more than that.
Zhang Jiayi was born in Xi'an, although his personality is simple and honest with the Northwesterners, he is actually a naughty and mischievous guy deep down.
He had already dreamed of becoming an "Olympic champion" when other children were still trying to learn Xi.
is about to face the college entrance examination, but Zhang Jiayi is not panicking, but his family is the first to feel anxious.
Uncle suggested that Zhang Jiayi take the Nortel exam, but unexpectedly, he passed the exam easily, just like "unintentionally inserting willows into the willows" and practicing "wrestling".
Zhang Jiayi received an admission letter from Nortel in 1987, so he started his acting career in a daze.
Zhang Jiayi spent four years in college, during which he benefited a lot, not only enriching himself, but also getting acting guidance from professional teachers, which made his performance level significantly improved.
He entered the society after graduating from school, and in the face of the lack of practical combat experience, he was completely fledgling, which can be described as a small thing.
Zhang Jiayi's situation after graduation is really embarrassing.
During his time at Xi'an Film Studio, Zhang Jiayi was engrossed in acting, but was defeated by reality again and again.
Zhang Jiayi has been unknown for 9 consecutive years, except for occasional small roles, the rest of the time is doing odd jobs.
His edges and corners have been gradually smoothed out under the washing of the years, and only those who have experienced the wind and rain can deeply understand the helplessness and pressure in life.
Zhang Jiayi suffered from ankylosing spondylitis because of every real shot and every miserable fall.
Zhang Jiayi suffers from pain in his waist and back every day, and he once thought that his dream of being an actor was about to be shattered.
It wasn't until 1999 that Zhang Jiayi met Du Jun while filming "Children of Macau" and met someone who admired him.
Du Jun's father is Zhang Jiayi, a well-known producer with considerable influence in the industry.
Du Jun relied on his father's relationship in the play and finally got a small role, but he did not have any intersection with Zhang Jiayi, so he could only nod to each other.
Du Jun's father recognized Zhang Jiayi's dedication to acting, and realized that he was an excellent seedling worth cultivating.
Du Jun's father was very satisfied with Zhang Jiayi's performance, so he recommended Zhang Jiayi to the crew of "Pamir Doctor".
Zhang Jiayi lived up to expectations with his excellent acting skills and successfully obtained the qualification to star in the play.
Du Jun also participated in this play, what a coincidence.
When the two met again, they were as close as old friends, and greeting and caring for each other had become an integral part of their daily lives.
The mysterious power of the red line has long inadvertently linked the two closely, but they don't know it.
When their eyes met, their eyes inadvertently touched each other's fingertips, and this moment quietly tugged at two heartstrings.
After the show was completed, the two quickly fell in love and decided to get married in a flash.
At that time, Zhang Jiayi was penniless, and he didn't even have a car or a house, let alone a deposit, but he only had sincerity and a desperate courage.
Some people ridiculed him for "relying on women to support himself", but he firmly believed that he was pursuing "sincere feelings".
As the saying goes: shrimp in the river and shrimp in the sea, after all, cannot coexist.
Du Jun has been wealthy since she was a child, so she is naturally spoiled like a little princess, and her temper and personality are completely different from Zhang Jiayi.
Du Jun is as enthusiastic as fire, Zhang Jiayi is as dull as water, on the surface it seems that their personalities complement each other, but in fact they are "intolerable".
Therefore, it can be said that the "disparity in family background" is not the main reason why the two cannot live together, in fact, the main culprit that causes the difficulties of this marriage is their upbringing environment and lifestyle.
The romance of love fades away, leaving only the mundane daily life and the influx of marital trivialities.
The trivial matters of life make the two often argue, you think I'm not aggressive enough, and I think you're too eager for quick success.
Even in a quarrel, Du Jun said the words that made Zhang Jiayi unforgettable with a disgusted face:
If it weren't for my father, why would you be where you are today?
Such a quarrel made them express their dissatisfaction unreservedly, which eventually consumed their feelings and ended their marriage.
Subsequently, Zhang Jiayi devoted himself to his career, and his wonderful moments were recorded by countless flashes.
Zhang Jiayi, who was far away from the crowd, silently hid his grievances and collapse deep in his heart and did not make any sound.
At that time, Wang Haiyan had a similar experience with Zhang Jiayi.
When she was young, she didn't know how to be sophisticated, and driven by the passion of youth, Wang Haiyan experienced a little-known failed marriage.
However, unlike Zhang Jiayi, Wang Haiyan has become a high-profile actress at this time, and she has won awards softly.
Therefore, Wang Haiyan, who has always worked hard in the crew, is slightly ahead of Zhang Jiayi, who has always remained dull, in her career.
By fate, two people who had experienced pain in their marriage met.
In 2004, Zhang Jiayi starred in a historical war drama "The Mission of the Country", in which he partnered with Wang Haiyan and played a husband and wife.
Zhang Jiayi was a person who was extremely obsessed with acting at the time, and he pursued perfection in every plot, every action and every line.
Zhang Jiayi immediately approached the director after filming the first scene, intending to delete a scene of Wang Haiyan.
I don't think the lines in this scene are very conscientious and inappropriate here. Or just leave two sentences and delete the rest.
After careful consideration, the director decided that Zhang Jiayi's point of view was very pertinent, and after careful consideration, he decided to delete it.
When Wang Haiyan learned the news, she was furious and immediately rushed to the director to say**.
I worked hard all night to rehearse the play, and he let me get rid of it all in one sentence. How does this work? If you have to delete something, delete his lines.
Zhang Jiayi and Wang Haiyan had a quarrel as soon as they met, and the conflict between them began.
However, none of them could have imagined at the time that they would become a couple who would spend the rest of their lives together like "happy friends".
After the "deleted drama" incident, Zhang Jiayi deeply realized his mistake, so he spent a while looking for an opportunity to apologize.
At the dinner party after the crew finished work, Zhang Jiayi finally found an opportunity to apologize.
Throughout the meal, Zhang Jiayi had been taking care of Wang Haiyan to apologize. When he noticed that Wang Haiyan's water cup was empty, he immediately poured water for her; And when Wang Haiyan mentioned a topic but no one responded, Zhang Jiayi quickly answered.
Wang Haiyan forgave Zhang Jiayi, although he was not so friendly to her before, but she still had good intentions when she saw Zhang Jiayi so attentive.
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Zhang Jiayi's concern for Wang Haiyan gradually deepened, and they gradually changed from "-for-tat" to "peaceful coexistence".
Inadvertently, Zhang Jiayi became attracted to Wang Haiyan, and Wang Haiyan was also conquered by Zhang Jiayi.
The two extended the fate in the play to real life and started their own love story.
Perhaps because they both had failed marriages, this time they cherished the relationship extraordinarily and treated it with great caution.
Don't aspire to publicity, just seek consistency and perseverance.
In their 4-year relationship, they lived a plain and warm and romantic life.
In order to surprise Wang Haiyan, Zhang Jiayi would secretly buy a bracelet for her in the mall under the pretext of going to the toilet.
After 4 years of love, Zhang Jiayi and Wang Haiyan entered the marriage hall in a low-key manner and entered a new chapter in their lives.
Wang Haiyan gradually withdrew from the film and television industry after getting married, and willingly became the wife behind Zhang Jiayi.
Zhang Jiayi became a high-profile actor at that time with plays such as "Snail House" and "I Am the Owner".
Wang Haiyan is an inseparable partner in her husband's achievements, she will seriously ** every play of her husband, not only to help professionally, but also to give him many constructive suggestions.
When he was 41 years old, Wang Haiyan and Zhang Jiayi worked together to encourage each other, and finally succeeded in making Zhang Jiayi a "happy dad".
Zhang Jiayi and Wang Haiyan held their daughter Zhang Yixin's first birthday party on September 19, 2011.
Zhang Jiayi hadn't played mahjong for a long time, but this day he broke the taboo and asked a group of friends to play mahjong at home until late at night.
Wang Haiyan knew that Zhang Jiayi liked to play mahjong, but in order to show respect, she did not interfere too much.
Therefore, Wang Haiyan didn't care about it this time, but the first thing she did when she got up the next morning was to clean up the cigarette ash, melon seed shells and fruit peels scattered in the living room.
Once a man is slightly negligent, he is prone to fall into a vicious circle and let himself go.
Zhang Jiayi, like everyone else, observed that his wife was not dissatisfied with him. So he often invites friends to play mahjong at home, and every time he plays late at night, he never gets tired of it and doesn't want to end.
In the past three months, Wang Haiyan endured it for a long time, and finally she couldn't bear it anymore, so she seriously approached Zhang Jiayi for a conversation.
Don't always play mahjong, staying up late is not good for your health, I really don't understand what is the benefit of playing mahjong...
However, in the course of the conversation, Zhang Jiayi had fallen asleep unconsciously. Wang Haiyan looked at her husband sitting in front of her, her heart was full of anger, so she simply reached out to wake Zhang Jiayi up.
Zhang Jiayi expressed his determination after being woken up:
Please forgive me, in the future I will only play the game once a month, and no more than four hours at a time, I hope you don't get angry.
Zhang Jiayi did not comply with the rules, but opportunistically played tricks, as he claimed.
He often takes advantage of opportunities such as gatherings of friends or producers to discuss scripts, and secretly plays mahjong outside.
Wang Haiyan often sat on the sofa waiting for Zhang Jiayi to come home, but she often fell asleep while waiting, and woke up to find that Zhang Jiayi had not returned home.
Wang Haiyan gradually sensed some clues, she couldn't bear it anymore, and finally broke out completely.
You obviously didn't take my words to heart, otherwise you'd have gone with Mahjong.
After that, they quarreled about it many times, and each time it ended unpleasantly.
After careful consideration, Wang Haiyan finally came up with a perfect way to help her husband quit "addiction" and maintain the relationship between the two.
Wang Haiyan accompanied Zhang Jiayi to play mahjong in the evening, and after two hours of **, it turned out that Zhang Jiayi began to feel uncomfortable and offered to go home.
The next day, Wang Haiyan searched on the Internet about the various harms caused by "medico" to the body and family, which made Zhang Jiayi understand
More than 10 million people in the country suffer from mahjong addiction, resulting in more than 800,000 people suffering from cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases and high blood pressure caused by long-term sedentary life, and more than 500,000 families have been broken up. In addition, there are countless people who have died suddenly at the table for playing mahjong all night.
Zhang Jiayi realized the gravity of the matter when he saw a surprising set of numbers in front of him.
Wang Haiyan also took advantage of the situation to show the regulations she specified for Zhang Jiayi.
The duration of each mahjong game should not exceed three hours and be limited to once a week.
Evening activities must end before midnight.
From then on, it is not possible to play mahjong again if any of the above rules are violated.
Wang Haiyan's strategy of "retreating as advance" has indeed succeeded in mastering Zhang Jiayi.
Zhang Jiayi gradually realized that he and his wife have almost paid for this family since they got married, and compared with his wife, it is a world of difference.
Even when my wife was pregnant, I wasn't there for her. During the prenatal checkup, either she went alone or her mother-in-law accompanied her. I didn't even come to spend time with my wife until 10 days before her due date.
Eventually, he realized that he had failed to fulfill his responsibilities as a husband and as a child to be born, and still has not fulfilled his responsibilities.
Gradually, Zhang Jiayi realized his wife's hard work, felt guilty, and had many thoughts.
In order to get rid of his addiction to mahjong, Zhang Jiayi first sold the mahjong machine, and then texted his friends one by one:
From this moment on, I, Zhang Jiayi, decided to quit mahjong, and my brothers don't have to call me anymore in the future.
Accompanied by Wang Haiyan, Zhang Jiayi finally quit his addiction to **, and the marriage between the two finally ushered in a turnaround.
After that, Zhang Jiayi became a well-known "strict wife" in the circle, as long as he received his salary, he would hand over all the money to Wang Haiyan.
Zhang Jiayi is always good at making Wang Haiyan happy in various ways, no matter the time and place. Moreover, he often brings her unexpected little surprises.
Zhang Jiayi's wife Wang Haiyan starred in the TV series "The Story of Time" recently officially launched on CCTV.
Only 2 episodes aired, but it quickly achieved the third highest ratings in the country.
Wang Haiyan's performance in the play is amazing, and her appearance is like CCTV bringing a "king bomb".
Wang Haiyan's performance is really rare, and her acting skills have not diminished over the years.
Now, after 15 years together, Zhang Jiayi and Wang Haiyan have spent a time full of love. Although there were quarrels along the way, they were fortunate to be able to overcome the conflicts together.
As a husband and father, Zhang Jiayi not only shouldered the burden of the family, but also created a better life for his wife and daughter.
Although he was once snubbed by his ex-wife, Zhang Jiayi, who is now accompanied by Wang Haiyan, not only has a thriving career, but also has quit drug addiction, and I believe he will be grateful to her.
Wang Haiyan's face was full of happy smiles, which fully proved Zhang Jiayi's love for her.