Yu Hua's ** "Alive" The first reaction after reading this book is: no matter what, you have to live for the sake of living, everyone is not easy, happy or sad, no matter what it was like before, but after all, you still have to live for the future, just like Fugui, when he was young, he was stubborn, gambled, joked about the teacher, lost his family property, and even killed his father, such a character, naturally no one will sympathize, but Fugui did not give up on himself, when he experienced too much suffering, and reached a certain age, life finally had an epiphany, Fugui's prodigal son turned back, made up his mind, worked diligently, and hoped to change his life。 However, fate seems to have played a big joke on him, and a series of tragedies followed.
Fugui's life, in addition to living, or to live hard, he was not defeated by cruel fate, but with an optimistic and forbearant attitude, continue to live in that sad land, Fugui's inspiration to people, perhaps has never been outdated, just like us in ordinary life, for the three truths of life, regardless of men and women, the more transparent they understand, the happier their old age.
1.Don't resent fate, it's the norm in the world
I don't know when I started, I turned over this "Alive", and then I was out of control, and I have been reading it until now, in addition to admiring Yu Hua for being able to describe the fate of the little people vividly, I also realized more deeply that birth, old age, sickness and death, gathering and parting, and fate are all the norm in the world, Fugui is like this, and we are the same, the reason why Yu Hua can silently unfold it with plain and delicate brushstrokes is to tell us not to be shocked by this, maybe one day you will also experience it, put your mind flat, and you will not be hurt.
2.As long as you live, there is hope in life
The two children are growing up, daughter Fengxia can work in the field to earn work, there is one more laborer in the family, and the days are slightly better, but fate is to joke, even if you have fallen off the cliff, there will be someone who will let you continue to fall into hell, because the blood type happens to be the same, Youqing was called by the school teacher to donate blood to the wife of the county magistrate who had a difficult birth, and the dean in order to tie up the county magistrate and protect the wife and children of the county magistrate, he actually drew blood to death for Youqing, and the daughter Fengxia was lucky to find a good husband who knew the cold and the hot, and did not dislike his deaf and dumb, Fugui and Jiazhen watched their daughter live a beautiful life, and there was a little more comfort in their hearts, but it didn't take long, Feng Xia died because of dystocia, Jiazhen can no longer bear the blow of the family, three months after Feng Xia's death also died, Jiazhen before his death, he told Fugui, you have to live well, you still have Erxi and bitter root, but within a few years, son-in-law Erxi and bitter root also died unexpectedly.
In this life, the young man is ruined and bankrupt. The middle-aged lover did not seize the opportunity to change his life, and in his later years he lost all his family members and lived a miserable life, and no one could be more miserable than him in his rich life, and no one lived more transparently than him.
3.In this life, only oneself is one's greatest reliance"Alive" In fact, in this life, the person who should really understand himself is himself, only by recognizing himself, can he recognize the world, when you understand these, you will eventually understand that in this life, your greatest reliance, in fact, only yourself, looking back on Fugui's life, he is the only one who has a long life, after his relatives left one by one, only he was left, life has experienced grief and misfortune, and has also experienced many hardships, in order to know what he is living for, Fugui's life is not rich, but also rich, heIn his own way, he lived a lifetimeSuffering is the normal state of life, troubles and sorrows accompany life, and Fugui does not feel sorry for himself. Perhaps, Fugui also understands that when his relatives leave one by one, in this life, the only person he can rely on is himself, in fact, each of us needs to think, who else can we rely on in this life except ourselves?
"Alive" tells about the friendship between a person and his fate, about the non-existence of despair, about living for the sake of being alive itself, not for the sake of anything other than being alive, leaving the deepest thinking in life, letting go of greed, living in the moment, cherishing what you have, as long as you live, it is a gesture, the basis of pursuing everything, and living is a struggle.
Life should not stop pursuing a challenge, life is difficult, Fugui is a portrayal of ordinary life, every blow, he is strong through, when hovering on the edge of pain, it is better to hold on, he has been happy, has been happy, enough.
I have read the book "Alive" many times, and every time I have a deep understanding and am deeply touched.
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