Do you still remember the "evergreen" Huang Xiaojuan in the Spring Festival Gala?She is not only the darling of the Spring Festival Gala, but also the Northeast woman who makes us laugh and cry.
12 Spring Festival Galas, each time is a new story and a new laugh. Think about it, in "Blind Date" that year, Huang Xiaojuan and Zhao Benshan's hilarious performances, she was in the laughter of many people.
But you know what, her life wasn't all smooth sailing. Think about it, how can such a woman persist in the ups and downs of life?In those days, how cold was the winter in the Northeast, and how warm was her heart?
Every time she stands on the stage, is she telling an untold story in her own way?
The strength and tenderness of the lamplight
Born in Liaoning in 1962, she grew up in a typical working family, the second oldest in the family. In the context of her parents' busy work, she and her siblings shared family responsibilities and cultivated a deep family relationship.
Did you know?It is this deep family emotion that shapes Huang Xiaojuan's warm and tenacious character. But fate sometimes plays cruel jokes.
In 2008, her younger brother suddenly collapsed and was diagnosed with liver cancer. For Huang Xiaojuan, this is not only a blow, but also a storm of the soul.
She couldn't believe that her once energetic brother would suffer such a heavy blow.
Huang Xiaojuan is desperate to seek medical advice everywhere, and she firmly believes that there will always be miracles. Her heart has always been full of reluctance and love for her brother's life.
At the same time, she is also looking for help in the art world, trying to find doctors and medical solutions that can lead to her brother. It's a pity that the cruelty of fate did not leave her any room. From the onset of her younger brother to his death, the short 44 days were undoubtedly the longest and most painful time in Huang Xiaojuan's life.
During that time, she put aside all her work and stayed in the hospital all day and night, witnessing her brother go from healthy to weak. This feeling of powerlessness and heartbreak can only be truly experienced by those who love their families deeply.
Tenacity that blooms in the wind and rain
As soon as she sent her younger brother away, Huang Xiaojuan faced the weight of her parents falling ill due to excessive grief. She was like a strong shield to protect the two fragile old hearts.
In the process, her own body also suffered a huge blow and lost more than a dozen pounds. grief, as if she had become a frequent visitor to her life, and in less than a year, her father also left this world with her younger brother.
The woman who made everyone laugh at the Spring Festival Gala, how much pain and tears did we can't see behind her?
Two funerals in a row in two years, such a blow is enough to break any strong person. Huang Xiaojuan, behind this name, how many little-known stories and tears are hidden?
Just when Huang Xiaojuan was about to collapse, her son Li He's words seemed to be a ray of warm sunshine shining into her gloomy world.
He reminded her that there was still an elderly mother who needed her love and attention. Yes, there are still many things in life that are worth holding onto.
Li He's suggestion that Huang Xiaojuan take her mother on a trip, which is not only a love for her mother, but also a healing for herself. My mother has suffered for most of her life, and she should also look at the great rivers and mountains of this motherland.
Warm Years: Huang Xiaojuan's Travels with Her Mother
When the dearest people in her life passed away one after another, she chose to bring comfort to her family with her actions. In the most difficult moments, she decided to take her elderly mother on a trip in search of a little solace and comfort.
I think of that old mother, the first time I went out of the house, the first time I traveled far away, and I saw the outside world. In the company of her daughters, her world is no longer just the four walls of the home, but has become wider and warmer.
This trip is not just a simple trip, it is Huang Xiaojuan's love to her mother, and it is a warm annotation of life.
In the trips again and again, we saw Huang Xiaojuan's deep love for her family. In her own way, she soothes her mother's heart, so that the elderly can feel the beauty of the world in their old age.
Until 2021, these trips accompanied the elderly to the end of their lives.
The ups and downs and reconciliation between mother and son
In the early years, Huang Xiaojuan's career was booming, but behind this was the sacrifice of the family. When Li He was young, he even didn't want to admit that Huang Xiaojuan was his mother because of his mother's busyness.
Can you imagine?When the children asked Li He, "What is your mother's name?"He would rather make up a name casually than mention that his mother is the famous actor Huang Xiaojuan.
Huang Xiaojuan's heart was scarred by her son's rejection. How many nights did she cry silently behind the scenes, bearing the pain in her heart alone.
She had to leave Li He when he was only five months old in order to work. But the power of mother's love made her unable to give up, and she even took the initiative to ask Ying to quit the crew, just because of a simple but loving reason: "I miss my son, I want to go home." ”
The director didn't understand this, and even severely criticized her in front of everyone. At this moment, Huang Xiaojuan deeply felt the contradictions and struggles between being a mother and an actor.
As time passed, Li He grew up, and he began to understand his mother's hard work and sacrifice. The misunderstandings and estrangements in the past have gradually dissolved, and in mutual understanding and respect, the relationship between mother and child has gradually become harmonious.
Chasing the dilemma of dreams and family
Huang Xiaojuan's life can be described as a journey full of sacrifices and contradictions. When career called her, she chose to devote herself to work and handed over her son Li He to the care of her aunt at home.
Her son's alienation from her and his closeness to his aunt made her feel mixed and even jealous.
In order to bridge the distance between her son and her son, Huang Xiaojuan tried to find a balance between work and family.
Whenever her son has a holiday, she tries to arrange time to take him on a trip, but this effort always seems to be a little insufficient, because the busyness of work makes it difficult for her to stay with her son for a long time.
When Lee Hyuk grew up, his dream was to become a director. His artistic talent was undoubtedly revealed in the Liaoning unified examination, and he won the first place.
When he wanted to chase his dream, he was strongly opposed by Huang Xiaojuan. Faced with his mother's resolute attitude, Li He had to choose a military school and embarked on a path contrary to his dream.
As a result, there is a deep estrangement between mother and child. But as time went on, Li He started a family and became a father, and he began to understand Huang Xiaojuan's difficult choice.
He gradually understands that without perfect parents, the adult world is always full of helplessness. He learned to be relieved and accepted his mother's choices and sacrifices.
The interweaving of light and shadow
Her life can be described as a legend, full of light and shadow, just as she shows on the stage, there is both brilliant brilliance, but also the hardships and sacrifices behind the scenes.
Marriage and career, both of which play an important role in Huang Xiaojuan's life. She was a lucky one and seemed to have made the right choice at every important fork in the road.
But luck doesn't mean easy. Behind this glamour is her countless struggles and efforts. Whenever the curtain falls, she really shows her fragile and true self when she is alone.
Faced with the death of a loved one, she endured great grief. As the eldest sister in the family, she took on the responsibility of taking care of her family. Her strength and dedication are a deep love for her family.
In her heart, family always comes first. Even in the face of the heaviest blows in her life, she never had any regrets or indebtedness.
Huang Xiaojuan's life is like a colorful movie, with both joyful comedy and sad tragedy. Her light on the stage, as well as her tenacity and perseverance in life, show us a real and three-dimensional Huang Xiaojuan.
Her story is an inspiration to everyone whose dreams and families are working hard. Huang Xiaojuan used her life to interpret what perseverance, courage and love are.
Her life is both a hymn and an inspirational textbook, inspiring everyone who strives to balance life and dreams.
In these changing times, her story reminds us that no matter how the outside world changes, as long as we stick to our beliefs and live with our hearts, we can shine our own light on the stage of life.
Huang Xiaojuan, a name that will always be remembered by us.