Although Huang Xiaojuan has a mediocre appearance and is not eye-catching among many amorous actresses, she has successfully won the recognition of the audience with her simple and exquisite acting skills, and won the title of first-class actor in my country.
She has not only made achievements in the field of film and television, but also has outstanding achievements in sketch performances.
Huang Xiaojuan has debuted for more than 30 years, and has cooperated with many actors such as Zhao Benshan, Pan Chang, Guo Donglin, etc., and jointly created many excellent works.
It can be called the "immortal tree" of the Spring Festival Gala.
Her representative works include sketches such as "Blind Date", "Crooked Fighting", and "I Want to Have a Home".
Despite being a brilliant actress, she was unable to win her son's approval. There was even a time when the son didn't even want others to know that his mother was Xiaojuan.
What kind of "deep hatred" can cause such alienation and estrangement between the mother and son?
Huang Xiaojuan is now over the age of old, and her son Li He has become the thing she is most proud of.
What method did Huang Xiaojuan take to eliminate her son's estrangement?
Huang Xiaojuan was born in March 1962, and her family is located in Liaoning Province and is an ordinary family. Her parents are ordinary working-class workers, and there is an older sister, a younger brother and a younger sister in the family, and Huang Xiaojuan is the second.
Huang Xiaojuan and her eldest sister took on the responsibility of taking care of their younger siblings because of their parents' work.
It is for this reason that the relationship between the four siblings has always been very harmonious and intimate.
Who would have thought that life would be so unpredictable.
Huang Xiaojuan should regard 2008 as the last year she wants to remember.
She still can't understand why her brother, who has always been lively and active, suddenly collapsed
Huang's younger brother was diagnosed with liver cancer in 2008.
After learning that her younger brother was ill, Huang Xiaojuan looked for medical advice everywhere, but always got the same conclusion - liver cancer.
From the onset of the disease to the death, only 44 days passed in a hurry, and the speed of time surprised everyone.
Huang Xiaojuan resolutely decided to quit all her job on the first day of her brother's hospitalization and accompany her brother in the hospital wholeheartedly.
She still holds on to hope, believing that a miracle will come.
Huang Xiaojuan is not only taking care of her younger brother, but also actively keeping in touch with her friends in the circle, begging them to help find liver cancer experts and medical institutions.
Even if he tried his best, he couldn't save his brother's life.
Huang Xiaojuan looked at her younger brother who she brought up, and watched him go from being strong to the end of not even being able to eat, and her heart was extremely tormented.
This kind of torture is as unbearable as piercing the heart of a loved one who is connected by blood.
However, the desperate situation is far from over.
Shortly after the funeral of their younger brother, the two elderly men fell ill at the same time because they could not bear the pain of losing their son.
Huang Xiaojuan could only barely endure her grief, constantly comforting the two old men and worrying about their health.
She managed to lose more than a dozen pounds in just one month.
In less than a year, my father followed because of excessive grief.
In less than two years, Huang Xiaojuan had to go through two funerals and bid farewell to two close relatives, and this heavy blow made her, who had always been strong and assertive, completely collapse.
The mother is the one who knows the child best, and in the same way, the child is the one who knows the mother best.
Seeing his mother's collapse, Li He understood that no amount of enlightenment at the moment would help, and he could only let his mother figure it out and cheer herself up.
Li Hedao said:
Mom, the most important thing now is not that we feel sad and uncomfortable, but that we care about Grandma, who is too old to bear any blows. If you start crying too, what should my grandma do?
Huang Xiaojuan immediately burst into tears when she heard this, but she quickly cheered up.
My mother was depressed all day long, and she was not interested in anything.
Huang Xiaojuan was anxious and uneasy, and when Li He saw this, he suggested that she take her grandmother out for a trip.
Huang Xiaojuan also felt the same way when she heard this truth, her mother has had a very hard life in her life, and she may not have left Liaoning Province several times to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland.
A trip was planned right away.
Given her mother's advanced age and the fact that she had never traveled far away, Huang Xiaojuan did not dare to consider a place too far away for her first trip.
In order to add to the lively atmosphere, Huang Xiaojuan invited her sister and sister to participate together.
With three daughters by his side, the old man has no time to wallow in grief.
After Huang Xiaojuan saw that the effect was good, she immediately incorporated the travel arrangements into her regular itinerary.
It wasn't until the old man passed away in 2021 that the journey came to an end.
Huang Xiaojuan and her son Li He get along very well now, and Li He is more like a caring little padded jacket.
In fact, earlier, Huang Xiaojuan and Li He did not have a good relationship.
Even when he was young, he was once reluctant to admit that Huang Xiaojuan was his mother.
Whenever someone asks, "Li He, what is your mother's name?"”
Li Hening would rather hide his identity than reveal that his mother is the famous actor Huang Xiaojuan.
Huang Xiaojuan's heart was hurt by her son's rejection, and this incident made her cry silently more than once behind her back.
Huang Xiaojuan is too busy, which is the root cause of the estrangement between mother and son.
Huang Xiaojuan resolutely decided to leave her son at home 5 months after Li He was born for work reasons.
However, as a first-time mother, her longing for her son was too strong, so she took the initiative to find the director to resign.
Maybe it's because of the three years of sluggishness caused by pregnancy, Huang Xiaojuan expressed very frankly the reason why she quit the show:
I longed to see my son, and I longed to go home.
Of course, the director cannot accept such a reason.
In front of everyone, he immediately became angry and severely reprimanded her.
As soon as you leave, what will so many people do?Could it be that just because you left alone, all the efforts of the first two months were in vain?
After listening to the director's words, Huang Xiaojuan felt embarrassed.
Huang Xiaojuan also realized afterwards that she could not play the roles of mother and actress at the same time.
What exactly should be done?
After some hard work, Huang Xiaojuan finally made a choice, and she chose her career.
She has been thinking in her heart that she will wait for a while, and when her son grows up again, then she will be able to accompany him well.
The son has grown up without realizing it, estranged from his mother, and is closer to the aunt at home.
Huang Xiaojuan felt very uncomfortable in her heart, and even a little jealous.
She did not give up her role as an aunt and chose another way to improve her relationship with her son.
Whenever her son has a holiday, Huang Xiaojuan will always arrange work and take her son to travel and vacation abroad.
Under the offensive of sugar-coated shells, the relationship between Li He and Huang Xiaojuan has indeed become a lot closer, but unfortunately this closeness is very limited, because Huang Xiaojuan is too busy.
As soon as the relationship was established, Huang Xiaojuan threw herself into a new round of busy work.
In an instant, the little doll that was once babbling has now grown into a high-spirited young man.
Perhaps influenced by his mother, Lee Hyuk had the idea of applying for an art school and becoming a director during the college entrance examination.
Li He's talent is indeed outstanding, and he won the first place in the unified examination in Liaoning.
However, when Li He applied for the volunteering exam, he was strongly opposed by Huang Xiaojuan, which hindered his dream.
In the face of his mother's tough attitude, Li He could only choose to regress, and finally decided to enter the military academy for training and became an outstanding soldier, which is as people often say, "The arm can't twist the thigh".
However, there is also a gap between him and his mother.
As he grew older, he now has formed his own family, become a father, and have a successful career.
He gradually realized his mother's painstaking anxiety.
Every parent has sincere love in their hearts, and even in this world, there are no perfect parents, and adults will not be less helpless.
When he understood this, Li He also decided to accept it and let go.
Huang Xiaojuan's life can be said to be lucky, but she didn't realize it.
Whether it's a career or a marriage, you have to go all out.
Although she was deeply saddened by the death of her loved one, she had done her best as a sister and daughter, so she no longer had regrets and indebtedness in her heart.
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