Hi everyone!I'm Luna, a self-disciplined mom who believes in the power of perseverance as her life credo
The sun arches and dies, and the merit is not donated!Let's talk to you today".The light boat has crossed the Ten Thousand MountainsTopic.
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When I was a child, I felt that forgetting to bring homework was a big deal, when I was in high school, I felt that it was a big deal that I couldn't get into college, and when I was in love, I felt that it was a big deal to be separated from the person I liked.Think about the past three years, because of the failure of my business with my friends, we encountered a financial crisis, and we were mired in a quagmire, when my friends misunderstood, and my father suffered an accident again, and I took turns staying in the hospital to take care of my father.But looking back now, those mountains that are difficult to cross have actually been crossed. What I thought was unacceptable, I accepted it. Life is full of choices, and regret is just the norm.
But for anyone who has had a similar experience, why not?
Just when I was besieged and confused and helpless, my father-in-law, who was usually partial to his son even if he was eccentric to the Pacific Ocean, was afraid that I would drag down his son, and calculated that I was unlikely to make a comeback, so he fell into the well, accused me of all kinds of accusations, and even warned me that it was impossible to drag his son down.
At that time, I happened to twist my father's lunch, under the high temperature of 38, turned back from the hospital canteen, and saw his news, like a sharp knife piercing the heart, the blood coagulated instantly, the heart quickly suffocated, and the internal organs were ruptured.
Somehow, the passers-by next to me thought that something had happened to me, and they stopped to watch and come to comfort me, I put away the sharp pain in my heart, wiped my tears, shook my head with gratitude, and then quickly packed up my mood, pretending to be fine, and walked to the nursing ward with my father's lunch.
It was also during that summer vacation, except for taking care of my father at home, I was almost immersed in pain, afraid to go out, afraid to speak, afraid to show my feelings to my parents, and isolated from the world.
Go to his so-called relatives, also deserve it!?For the sake of my children and the family who loves me, how can I just fall down on this?
In order to leave no room for pulling myself out of the swamp, I began to act, began to change myself, and then began a long road of self-exploration, insisting on waking up early, insisting on reading, and insisting on growing together with my children.
No, I'll just Xi;No one supported me, so I worked silently;I didn't have enough energy, so I went to exercise, for which I fell in love with sports, and also fell in love with hiking and cycling, conquered one mountain after another in Shenzhen, and took my children to hike the coastline of Shenzhen, and nature ** I had a lot of troubles.
No matter how difficult the 800 meters are, the actual running time is actually only three or four minutes;
No matter how difficult the mountain is, it will only take a few hours to climb it
No matter how difficult it is to hike the coastline, it will take about 10 hours to walk
The failures I used to fear were just episodes at a certain stage of my life.
Stumbling to the present, I live more and more powerful, in the year of awakening in 2023, through a large number of Xi, I also began to slowly find my love, I learned to do Xi self-a**, practice Xi writing, force myself to change every day, insist on getting up early, today is the 266th day of my continuous early riser, completed 160 articles, and worked hard to let me find the direction, I seem to be gradually less anxious, as if I am becoming more and more confident and independent.
Now, I have phoenix nirvana, out of the haze, regain the belief in life, children are also going to school, life is getting better bit by bit, twilight and then look back, once thought that the big things, are like clouds and smoke dissipated, the light boat has passed the ten thousand mountains.
I remember that in the past, my husband drove and every time he took the wrong road, the navigation would remind him:
You have deviated from the route, please select a U-turn in the right place...The route has been re-routed for you....and then re-route him.
Life is full of uncertain options, regrets are just commonplace, as long as there is light in the heart, why be afraid of the desolation of life?
Whatever the moment, I ask you to remember these points:
Luck is important, faith is even more important.
Three points depend on luck, and seven points depend on hard work.
Do not deny that luck is also very important, these have nothing to do with hard work, and ability, the only relationship is their own mentality and belief, with a good attitude, there is a good life.
Solidarity is the key to success.
Whether it is in a company or in a marriage, unity and cooperation are the key to success, one person can go fast, but a group of people can go far.
The unity of the team will put you on the fast track, and the unity of the husband and wife in the marriage will make poverty and frustration bearable, and a good marriage is worth your efforts.
You have choices in life.
Remember, at any stage of our lives, we have choices.
He who knows what he lives for will survive.
Dare to step out of your comfort zone to see more possibilities.
Confucius said, "A gentleman is not a weapon."
People are most afraid of drawing themselves as a prison, and I am glad that I finally gave up my heart, jumped out of my comfort zone, and slowly turned myself into a small group of "fast" people.
Keep your promises at all times.
To be a man, you must keep your promises!!
A person who knows how to take into account the difficulties of others, speaks and does things with faith, and when encountering troubles and difficulties, others will try their best to be considerate for him.
Regarding this, I used to think that I was doing very well, but in the past two years, because of practical reasons, I have done very badly, so that my friends have disappointed me, but I have always felt that friends get along not for three or five years, but for a lifetime.
Don't take anyone lightly.
The farther the road goes, the more you know the heaviness of the years;The more I read, the more I know about the vicissitudes of the world.
Despising others only reveals your own ignorance, and someone once said: The stone you throw is often stumbling over yourself, and I think so.
"Thinking of going, thousands of miles of smoke waves, twilight is heavy and the sky is wide. ”It reminds me of that gloomy winter morning, on the way home after sending the children, I suddenly saw the sun through the leaves, the sunlight came out, and at that moment it seemed that the whole sky and my future were open, and I suddenly felt that those sufferings that I felt could not be crossed at the moment, looking back, the light boat had passed the ten thousand mountains.
Three years of trough, those hurdles that I once thought I couldn't get over were finally kept yesterday, although occasionally I still think of that big noon, think of all the ups and downs I have experienced, those countless sleepless fears, those light that I look for in the darkness alone, and those deep and shallow wounds, I will still be sad and sad, but in the end I will smile indifferently.
If you ask me if I regret it, I will say that although it is hard, I will still choose this hot life.
In the year of awakening in 2023, the light boat has passed over the Ten Thousand Mountains.
In the year of the rise of 2024, may the swaying boat pass through the green mountains again.
In the end, I hope that the tortuous road will always have its reason, and I only hope that the last page is a thousand miles of flowers!
Bless you!I am Ahe, with the power of firmly believing in perseverance to guard a micro-dream and micro-happiness, click on the blue word "follow" above, and share the dry goods of growth and improvement + parent-child parenting for you every day.