Hi everyone!I'm Luna, a self-disciplined mom who believes in the power of perseverance as her life credo
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During the National Day, my mother-in-law celebrated her 70th birthday, and the whole family went back to my hometown, and I also went back to my parents' house by the way.
Three years ago, I quit my job to start a business with a friend, and I encountered a financial crisis, not only that, but also because of the misjudgment of the trend, which led to debt.
And now, I seem to have come out of the haze, regained my self-confidence in life, found my own blueprint for life, and educated my daughter so well (well, please forgive an old mother's blind confidence).
As a one-to-two mother, with limited time, energy and money, how to build an investment in yourself from 0 to 1 in three years?
Today I will give you a few aspects of my own investment, I hope you can also recognize yourself as soon as possible:
Invest in Xi skills.
Learning Xi is your hard power to move forward quickly, which can help you cross over into any field and quickly master new skills, learn how to Xi Xi, the essence of which is to learn how to improve production efficiency Xi.
It's just a pity that many girls no longer learn Xi after becoming mothers, in fact, after becoming mothers, they must take the initiative to improve themselves.
Technology is changing with each passing day, every 3-5 years there will be a new outlet, and there will be a lot of new knowledge and skills, if a skill others need 6 months to learn, and you only need 3 months to learn;If someone reads a book a week, you can finish one book in a dayYou can't write, but you can use your Xi skills to learn to write, which can have a snowball effect on your growth and will be a key competitive advantage.
Here are 5 simple tips to improve your Xi efficiency:
Focus on one door, first dig the well deep.
If you are a decathlon, then you are doomed to be a mediocre person.
It's best to learn one skill first, dig the well deeper, and then learn the second skill, so that the two skills can play a multiplicative effect that one plus one is greater than two.
Build a framework of what you've learned.
Once you've decided on the skills you want to learn, it's a good idea to quickly skim through the next Xi to quickly build a framework of the entire knowledge you need to Xi learn at the moment.
Focus on the key to a few.
According to the 80 20 rule, focus on the few key knowledge points that will generate the most benefit for you, as this can bring you 80% benefit.
Apply.
Remember that the ultimate goal of learning Xi skill is to use it.
Timely review.
Through timely review and correction, the efficiency of learning Xi will also be improved.
Invest in your own personal brand.
I used to work for a listed company, the company itself is famous, very powerful, so it is easy to get external resources and cooperation, at that time I had a delusion, mistaken the company's aura as my own ability, so that I later failed to start a business, only to recognize all this.
Under the trend of new development, the value of personal brand is becoming more and more prominent, and building a personal brand can enhance the trust of others in themselves and shorten the distance of understanding.
Personal brand is a credit mark, and you are the best product.
To build a moat of ability, it is necessary to become me.
In his 2007 letter to shareholders, Warren Buffett mentioned that a truly excellent company must have a lasting "moat", which can ensure that it can bring excess capital returns.
It is also effective for personal growth, how to create a "moat" that allows the opponent to stand even if he continues to attack, to put it bluntly, is actually your bargaining power.
For example, if you work in a company, you will only handle simple clerical work, but in fact, the company can easily eliminate you;But if you can not only do your job efficiently and without mistakes, but even drive the atmosphere between the team and the office, then you have a lot of bargaining chips and even bring you promotion.
So, you have to take a moment to think about what your greatest bargaining power is, and I have to do it.
Invest in your own expertise.
In the three years of the epidemic, I can strongly feel that in these few years, I have changed my life through my own efforts, and three years ago, I definitely did not expect that my future self would be like this.
I mainly invest in the ability to have a multiplier effect on my career, for example, I made up my mind to do self-improvement, and then I learned Xi editing, shooting, animation, dubbing and other abilities, and they can produce the effect of one plus one greater than two by superimposing.
For individuals, which ability has a multiplicative effect is not fixed, but should be analyzed in combination with their actual situation, and find the ability to superimpose on their professional ability to have a "1+1>2" effect.
Invest in your own business.
A woman's sense of security is very simple, that is, she has an income that she can control**.
In the past few years, I have been at home full-time, basically reaching out for money, and I have no sense of control over my life, and my heart is irritable, anxious, and broken to the edge, which makes it very clear to me that having my own business means that I can control my own life.
Therefore, the only and important goal of 2024 is: to make money!
Invest in your own network.
The essence of interpersonal relationships is the exchange of values.
For people with high potential energy, use cross-border thinking to provide value, so that people with high potential energy remember you and don't feel bothered by you;For people with low potential energy, help her grow.
Everyone is at the helm of their own life, and only when a person is willing to invest in himself can he become confident to fight against the difficulties of the world, and only then can he have the ability to build his own moat, and firmly control success and happiness in his own hands.
As Warren Buffett said: if you don't invest in yourself in your 20s, you will become "cheap" in your 30s. If you don't want to be a "cheap person", then no matter where you are in your life, now is the perfect time to invest in yourself.
I am Ahe, with the power of firmly believing in perseverance to guard a micro-dream and micro-happiness, click on the blue word "follow" above, and share the dry goods of growth and improvement + parent-child parenting for you every day.