Ever since I was a child, I was a lonely, not very social person.
The uncle opened a tractor repair shop, and the sister, brother, and younger brother always went to the uncle's room to talk and laugh. And my house is next door, I like to stay at home and read books and watch TV.
Before school at noon, I always saw many students talking and laughing at the homeroom teacher's house, and the homeroom teacher rented a room next to the school, and many students always went to the teacher's place every day. Later, my classmates pulled me over, and I liked to listen to them silently.
Later, when I went to middle school, university, and work, I was all alone.
Sometimes I wonder if it's not good for me to walk alone like this.
In recent years, Douyin has become popular, and it was found in the small ** and copywriting that more and more people like to be alone and enjoy being alone.
Solitude, not home.
Being alone, not being alone.
Solitude, not solitude.
The poet Taylor Olsen said, "Make a small arrangement: set aside time for yourself." Otherwise, how can you have time to recall, sort out, measure, evaluate and summarize?”
Solitude at work. When I go to work in the morning, I first check the work schedule of the day and distinguish the priorities. Every time you finish a job, take a break, look into the distance, or climb the stairs. Ate at noon and read a few pages. Write a work diary before leaving work in the afternoon. Even though work can be hectic and boring, find a little time to quiet yourself for a while. Solitude in life. Since November, I have been writing a success diary, and every night before going to bed, I have to write down the day's harvest and observations. Even though we slept in the same bed with the children, we read our own books, closed them, and we would make small talk. There are bits and pieces in life, but the heart can't be messed up. When you're alone. I like to live a simple life, read books, watch **9 documentary channels, knitting, cycling, tidying up. Being alone is not a lonely person staying in a corner, but a meditation, even if the voice is noisy and overwhelming, it can calm the mind.