Wen A sword blows in the breeze.
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Relationship breakdown, what should we do?The first thing to do is to accept this fact. The breakdown of the relationship is not our fault, nor is it the fault of the other person. It's just a part of life, it's part of our growth. We can't just run away from it because we're afraid of pain.
After accepting the facts, we need to give ourselves some time to heal. It's not an easy thing to do, but we have to do it. We can choose to travel and see the beauty of this world. We can choose to do something we like, such as drawing, writing, sports, etc., to make our lives colorful.
In the process of healing, we also have to learn to let go. Let go of the pain of the past, let go of the shadow of the other party, and let go of those good memories. Only by letting go can we truly start a new life.
After letting go, we have to start learning to be independent. We have to learn to cook our own food, do our own laundry, and take care of ourselves. We need to learn to solve problems and make our own decisions. Only in this way can we be truly independent and truly strong.
In this process, we must also learn to cherish. Cherish those who have been with us, cherish those joys and pains that have been, and cherish those experiences that have been. It's all part of our lives, it's all part of our growth.
Finally, we need to learn to forgive. Forgive each other, forgive yourself. Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, but it represents our acceptance of the past and our expectations for the future. We must learn to take everything in the past as an experience, a lesson, so that we can be more relaxed on the road ahead.
So, when our relationship breaks down, don't be afraid, don't run away. We must face bravely, accept bravely, heal bravely, let go bravely, be brave to be independent, brave to cherish, and brave to forgive. Only in this way can we truly grow and be truly strong.
Remember, every time it is broken, it is for a better reorganization. Every pain is for better happiness. Every time you lose, you get better. So, when the relationship breaks down, don't be afraid, don't despair. Believe in the future, believe in yourself, and you will find that life is still beautiful and you can still smile.
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