RuralPeople, perhaps, have always been synonymous with poverty in our hearts, and people always feel that they are living a hard lifelife, hard work every day just for food and clothing. However, only those who are truly willing to observe carefully will find outRuralHumanlifeIn fact, it is no worse than the people in the city, with a car, a house, a deposit, and a harmonious familylifeBoisterous. However, once inRural** Signals of this "affluence" are just pretendingRich peopleofRuralPeople began to be unbalanced, and they had to slap their swollen faces and become fat, deliberately pretendingRich people, and then show off their wealth in the village in a high-profile manner. This will be highlighted belowRural"FalseRich people"There are four commonly used ways to show off your wealth.
RuralThe advantage is that you can have spaciousnessHomestead, and the heads of households often can't hold back their imagination and can't wait to be in this pieceHomesteadon showing off their wealth. The most common way is to coverVilla。Although and in the cityTomson a productThe mansion can't be compared, but it's definitely a more gorgeous home than the average residential area. In order to catch up with the fashion, the married family will also be renovated together, and the whole building will be renovatedVillaThe interior was rearranged and all the furniture was replaced. with othersVillaOne of the differences is thatRuralVillaThere will also be a large yard that seems to have no borders, which is convenient for planting flowers and vegetables, raising chickens and ducks, which is in the cityVillaWhat you can't have. However, the more ostentatiousHomestead, which means that the head of the household also spends more money. However, not every head of household has the financial resources to realize such a dream, and most of them are just trying to compare. For example, if family A in the village is indeed trueRich peopleThey may have built a three-story building, while households B, C, and D will compete with each other, and there may be a four-story building and a four-story buildingVillaWait. Most of these comparisons are just some "fake."Rich peopleFor the sake of the so-called face, he did not hesitate to borrow money to build more luxurious houses. Here it isRuralPeople like to compare their personalities.
InRuralIt is a great pleasure to hold a wedding reception. The main house will start preparing early in the morning, and the whole village will be bustling with activity. They will prepareDeliciousBecause most of the villagers have relatives and friends, there will be a lot of guests. Marriage is a major life event, and people want to impress their guests, and a decent table is the most intuitive way to show it. A decent table usually includes appetizers such as peanuts and melon seeds, 8 cold dishes, 8 hot dishes, 5 steamed bowls, 2 soups, and of course, drinks and drinks. Assuming a table seats 10 people, a minimum of 30 tables is required. According to the Xi of different places, the banquet is divided into two or three stubbles. On average, a wedding banquet requires between 60 and 90 tables. This is already very decent, but some families will continue to increase the menu of the banquet for the sake of face, resulting in a lot of leftover food being thrown away, which can be described as a lot of money at the end of the day. However, these comparisons are only for the sake of the family's "face", but ignore the waste of food.
InRural, a funny phenomenon is that many dilapidated houses are parked in front of millionsLuxury cars, giving the illusion that the cars were borrowed and not purchased by the head of the household. Why is this happening?This is because of the mentality of comparison. In fact, a lot of them these daysRuralFamilies have extra money to buyCarsBut they still can't be satisfied with this, they always want to attract attention in the village, let others come around to touch their car, and ask about the car's **. Therefore, they did not hesitate to spend all the money that should have been used to repair the house or marry the daughter-in-law, and even borrowed money to buy a car worth millions of dollarsLuxury cars。Bought itLuxury carsThe head of the household will certainly be happy at first, but after the freshness has passed, the family's expenses are still there, and the loan needs to be repaid. Can they understand that "face" cannot be eaten as food?
InRuralThe more people interact with each other, the more opportunities there are to give gifts. Therefore, it also becomes very important to choose what gift to give. To show off their wealth, someRuralPeople deliberately choose expensive gifts, such as gold and silver jewelry, high-end wine, designer bags, etc. They believe that as long as they give expensive gifts, they can show their "rich" status and gain the appreciation and envy of others. However, they often ignore whether the other person really needs such a gift and, more importantly, whether their wealth is genuine. Gift-giving is supposed to be an expression of heart and concern for the other person, but in the minds of these people, the gift becomes a tool for comparison, the pursuit of other people's appreciation rather than real concern.
Rural"FalseRich people"More and more, in order to pursue the so-called face, they do not hesitate to label themselves in the way of showing off their wealth".Rich people". However, this kind of flaunting wealth is only the superficial prosperity, and behind it is an irrational pursuit of wealth and a comparison mentality. Face is temporary, and true wealth should be spiritual satisfactionlifeof comfort. RuralPeople should understand that only when they truly have wealth can they live a happy and prosperous lifelife。And those who pursue vanity to show off their wealth can only bring themselves short-term enjoyment, and will eventually fall into greater pressure and predicament. Therefore, we should be rational about wealth and pursue true happiness, rather than just superficial prosperity. Only then can we truly be happy and satisfied.