What does it feel like to have a crush?
A netizen left a message:
The night before receiving his diploma, I told him what I wantedThe result was similar to what I expected, he issued a good person card, but I still don't regret it. That day was over, and it was exactly 1,000 days since I had a crush on him. ”
There is a crush that is a one-man show;
In front of the other person, pretend not to care, don't like it;
When I turned around, I was full of them.
In fact, when the opposite sex has a crush on you, there will be some physiological reactions.
Including: body language, mood changes, etc.
Subconscious body movements when in contact with you alone
People will have different body movements in different situations and emotions.
For example, when you feel scared, you will subconsciously raise your hands in front of your body
When embarrassed, the face will look in the direction of the surroundings and even scratch the head;
When you feel bored, you move away from the person in front of you and make a defensive stance.
The opposite sex has a crush on you, and there are also obvious small body movements.
He is very nervous when he is alone with you, and he is a little happy and a little worried in his heart;
At this time, he will scratch his face and head from time to time, or he will not know where to put his hands.
There are more small movements.
And this just reflects the fluctuations in his inner emotions.
The slightest wind blows, and his attention will be on you
In a crowd, when someone speaks loudly, they will look at you for the first time;
When someone laughs, his attention is on you.
All the wind and grass, he will quietly look at you a few times and observe your reaction.
And that's not all: in the social state of the group, he is talking, and when doing something, his eyes look at you more often than others.
Look at others, maybe only two or three times;
But the number of times the gaze stays on you, at least dozens of times.
It can be understood like this:
Every time I look at you, maybe my eyes will match you.
When you show up, he's doing a lot of hard work
It's like childishness and romance in school days.
A group of boys playing ball in the court.
It was very hot, and everyone was playing in Buddhism.
But once a girl that a boy has a crush on appears, he is like playing chicken blood, and he plays extremely hard.
This is the "expressive desire" of boys.
When it comes to crushes, boys are sometimes naïve;
As soon as you show up, he wants to laugh;
As soon as he sees you, he can't help but show the best side in front of you.
I'm afraid that something will make a mistake, and I'm afraid that you won't notice him.
When chatting, he will close the distance with you
Body language is amazing and always reveals a person's emotions and thoughts.
When a person hates you, he will subconsciously stay away from you and refuse you access to his private space.
It's like getting along with strangers, and you will keep a safe distance of more than 1 meter.
And when a guy has a crush on you, when he talks to you, his body will lean to your side;
Not only that, but he will also look for opportunities to bring the two of you closer little by little.
Toes facing you, knees facing you;
If you're closer, he'll even touch your shoulder with his shoulder.
It's like when you like someone, you want to be closer to them.
Crush on someone is bittersweet and bitter;
In order to avoid rejection, choose not to confess.
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