The leader has never helped me, and after I retired, I suddenly asked me to borrow 100,000 yuan, and I said 200,000 yuan is enoughHe immediately blocked me!
My name is Ho Chi Minh, I am 45 years old and I work in a state-owned enterprise. My direct supervisor is called Director Zhang, who has been my direct supervisor since I joined the company and has been leading me to work for more than 10 years.
For me, Director Zhang can be described as half a teacher. When I graduated from university and was assigned to work here, I was a complete layman, and I needed his guidance on many things in my work.
He taught me many of the company's business processes and skills, which allowed me to gradually adapt to the work here. I am also very grateful to Director Zhang for nurturing me.
But with the passage of time, Director Zhang's support and concern for me has decreased. He focused all his energy on developing Those's star employees, but my needs were rarely taken seriously.
Over the years, every year-end evaluation and promotion, Director Zhang has never considered me. Those employees who are less qualified than me and less capable than me have been promoted and raised, but my position is stagnant.
Sometimes overtime needs to be issued a subsidy, and Director Zhang will also make strong arguments to find reasons not to sign for me. He is always critical of my work and never gives encouragement or praise.
There are countless things like this, and I gradually lost my respect for Director Zhang, just as he was my direct leader.
This kind of life passed for more than ten years, until Director Zhang retired and left the company last year.
Unexpectedly, Director Zhang suddenly called me after retirement, and the strange thing is that his tone was full of affection: "Ho Chi Minh, you used to work under me, and I have always been very concerned about you." I said indifferently "um", and said in my heart that you have cared about me for more than 10 years
Then, Director Zhang said the real purpose of his **: "Hey, I'm idle after I retire, so I want to open a small shop and try it." You also know that you need cash flow at the beginning, can you help me borrow some money?100,000 is enough, and I will pay the interest. ”
I couldn't believe my ears, this high-ranking leader in the past, actually came to me after I retired and wanted to borrow money!
I sneered: "Is 100,000 enough?".Or I'll give you 200,000 directly, it's convenient for you to use. ”
Unexpectedly, Director Zhang hung up directly. After a while, I found out that he had blocked all my *** and there was no more news.
It all happened so suddenly that I still can't react. But after thinking about it, I still know Director Zhang.
He is cunning and cunning, usually a good person, and he urgently needs money after retirement, so he will ask me to borrow money without any guilt. He wanted to take advantage of me, but I didn't expect to see through my purpose.
I don't deny that Director Zhang played a role in my training at the beginning, but he stood by and watched when I needed help the most, and I always haunted it.
Now that we no longer have a subordinate relationship, I don't need to listen to his so-called "concern". I chose to respond in my own way, wanting Director Zhang to understand that the cause and effect that I once planted must be repaid in this life.
In fact, I didn't expect Director Zhang to really reflect on himself. A selfish person like him will only look for targets that can take advantage, and it is difficult for him to have the idea of self-examination.
But my rule of thumb is to face life with a positive attitude. I am not obligated to help Director Zhang through this difficult time, but I will not use bad means to retaliate against him.
I just said my thoughts to him with a normal heart today, when our relationship is equal, and I will not do this kind of loan request for bad money to drive out good money.
Director Zhang's reaction was also expected by me. He chose to run away, but that didn't stop me from continuing to live my life.
The development of world affairs always has its own laws, as long as people have good intentions and adhere to the principle of justice, fate will give back. That's what I want to learn from this.