In this original article, the emotional entanglement between Xu Zhimo, Wang Geng, and Lu Xiaoman is mentioned. Xu Zhimo's first wife was Zhang Youyi, and there was no relationship between the two, and they eventually divorced. After divorcing Zhang Youyi, Xu Zhimo met Lu Xiaoman, who was Wang Geng's wife at that time. Wang Geng is Xu Zhimo's friend, and he asked Xu Zhimo to take care of Lu Xiaoman because he was busy with work, but he didn't expect that there would be feelings between the two, which eventually led to Wang Geng's choice to fulfill them, and Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman held a wedding.
However, Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman were not happy after marriage. In addition to spending money lavishly, Lu Xiaoman is also weak and often sick. Xu Zhimo asked his friend Weng Ruiwu for help, Weng Ruiwu had learned massage, which was able to relieve Lu Xiaoman's pain. However, in order to relieve Lu Xiaoman's pain, Weng Ruiwu asked her to try to smoke opium, and finally Lu Xiaoman became addicted to opium. When Xu Zhimo was busy with work, he entrusted Weng Ruiwu to take care of Lu Xiaoman. However, as time passed, Weng Ruiwu developed feelings for Lu Xiaoman, and he found that he could not leave Lu Xiaoman. Although Lu Xiaoman loved Xu Zhimo deeply, he couldn't let go of his relationship with Weng Ruiwu, and the two maintained this delicate relationship until Xu Zhimo died suddenly.
Xu Zhimo's death was a heavy blow to Lu Xiaoman, she had deep feelings for Xu Zhimo, but in the end she still chose to live with Weng Ruiwu. However, the outside world has a negative evaluation of her behavior, criticizing her for living with the undivorced Weng Ruiwu, especially because Weng Ruiwu has a wife and children. Lu Xiaoman responded to criticism from the outside world: "I have feelings for Ruiwu, but not love. Weng Ruiwu has lived with Lu Xiaoman for more than 20 years under the condition that Lu Xiaoman runs at both ends.
Later, Hu Shi advised Lu Xiaoman to leave Weng Ruiwu, saying that he could give her living expenses, but Lu Xiaoman refused, saying that Weng Ruiwu had taken care of her for decades and that she could not abandon this man. For this incident, we have no way of knowing what Xu Zhimo would have thought of all this if he were still alive.
The incident sparked widespread discussion and controversy on the Internet. People have different views on the emotional entanglement between Xu Zhimo and Lu Xiaoman. Some people believe that Xu Zhimo betrayed his friend because of Wang Geng's wife, while Lu Xiaoman chose another man with a family after Xu Zhimo's death. These actions are questioned as moral and moral. On the other hand, there are also people who have a sympathetic and understanding attitude towards Lu Xiaoman's choice, thinking that she has suffered a lot of distress and pain in this relationship.
This event bears parallels with similar events in history. For example, early writers and artists also often faced emotional entanglements and marital problems. These events also caused controversy and discussion in society at the time. However, everyone's love story is unique and cannot simply be compared to other events.
This incident had a certain impact on society. It sparks a discussion about the morality and ethics of marriage and makes people think about the complexities of love and human nature. In addition, it reveals society's double standards regarding women's roles and choices in relationships. As a woman, Lu Xiaoman was harshly criticized for choosing to be with a man with a family, while men were not condemned in the same way.
As of now, there is no update on this incident. However, the repercussions of this event will be long-lasting. It deepens the understanding of the complex emotional entanglements between Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman, and Weng Ruiwu, and provokes reflections on the concepts of love and marriage. At the same time, it is also a reminder to respect the emotional choices of others and reflect on the unfair treatment of women in society.
In general, the emotional story between Xu Zhimo, Lu Xiaoman and Weng Ruiwu is complex and thought-provoking. This incident has caused controversy and discussion in the society, and readers can also express their own opinions and opinions on these views. For the impact of this incident, we need to think about how to be more respectful of other people's emotional choices, and how to eliminate gender inequality.