in lifeHusband and wife relationshipIt is often accompanied by a variety of challenges and conflicts. Liu Jianand Xiaoxin are a couple who look like each other, and the dispute between them stems from the strong interference of her mother-in-lawAA systemdegree of implementation. ForLiu JianEver since my mother-in-law moved in, smallShinhoHis relationship began to become distant. And for Xiao Xin,AA systemDu made her feel dissatisfied, and even had the idea of divorce. This article will describe it in detailLiu JianThe dispute between Xiaoxin and the reasons behind it, and put forward personal thoughts and opinions.
1. Mother-in-law's strength and pressure
Xiao Xin's mother-in-law suffers from breast cancer, and the cost of surgery is huge, and in order to save her mother-in-law's life, Xiao Xin took out all the bride price money and operated on her mother-in-law. However, this move made her mother-in-law misunderstand and be dissatisfied with Xiaoxin. The mother-in-law thought that Xiao Xin was a loser, and began to frequently find fault and blame Xiao Xin.
2, Xiaoxin's dissatisfaction and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law made a big fuss
After Xiao Xin couldn't hold back for a long time, he finally broke out. She made a big fuss, hoping that her mother-in-law would reflect on her words and deeds and reconcile with her. However, the mother-in-law's attitude has not changed.
3. The implementation of the AA system and the estrangement of feelings
In order to avoid the continued interference and oppression of the mother-in-law, smallShinhoLiu JianReluctantly signed for implementationAA systemof the Treaty. And the implementation of this system has further alienated the feelings between them. They are starting to become siloed and no longer support and care for each other as much as they used to.
1. Mother-in-law's influence and threat
Mother-in-law moved inLiu JianAnd Xiao Xin's home, she uses herself to beLiu Jian's biological mother, put pressure on Xiao Xin, and demanded implementationAA systemdegree, otherwise it will go to the outside **, and the corruption is smallShinhoThe reputation of her mother's family. This influence and threat forced Xiao Xin to succumb.
2. The implementation of the AA system and the estrangement of feelings
AA systemThe implementation of the degree letsLiu JianThe relationship between him and Xiaoxin is getting weaker and weaker. They are fighting their own battles in life and are no longer as supportive and caring for each other as they used to be. Their relationship gradually became cold and flat.
3. The impact of the AA system on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
AA systemThe conduct of the degree is right, tooMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshiphad a negative impact. Mother-in-law thinksAA systemThe degree is a pair of smallShinhoHer family's punishment, she no longer regards Xiaoxin as family, but disdains her. And Xiao Xin was also forced by her mother-in-lawAA systemand had more resentment and dissatisfaction with her mother-in-law.
1, Xiao Xin's idea of divorce
InAA systemUnder the torture of the degree, Xiao Xin was on this paragraphMarriageGradually lost confidence. She began to wonder about thisMarriageWhether she can continue or not, she gradually has the idea of divorce.
2. The trigger point of divorce: Liu Jian found that he didn't give his mother-in-law meat to eat
Liu JianWhen I came home from work, I found smallShinhoMother-in-law is having a meal together. However, only Xiao Xin's plate was full of meat, and her mother-in-law only had a pot of leftovers. Liu JianTherefore, he started a fire on Xiao Xin, thinking that she was against her mother-in-lawFilial pietyInadequate. Xiao Xin is toAA systemdegree, the responsibility is pushed onLiu Jianand the mother-in-law, believing that she is not obligated to buy meat for her mother-in-law to eat. This trigger point became an opportunity for Xiao Xin to file for divorce.
3. Negotiation of divorce and division of property
When Xiao Xin decided to file for divorce, she hoped to be able toMarriageIt ended cleanly. She offered to use her belongings at home to offset the bride price and said she would make up the difference. Liu JianAccepting this condition, they decided to go through the divorce process.
Summary: This article is describedLiu JianThe contradictions and disputes between him and Xiaoxin were analyzed in depthAA systemdegree pairsHusband and wife relationshipwithMother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationshipimpact. Liu JianThe story of He Xiaoxin reflects the various contradictions and conflicts in the family, as well as the challenges and trials between husband and wife in real life. In such a situation, the rights and emotions of the individual are distorted and hurt, which eventually leads to the decision to divorce. However,MarriageIt is necessary for both sides to work together to operate and maintain, relying onlyAA systemdegree or other systems, it is difficult to solve the fundamental problem.