Do you realize that your life is not what you originally thought it would be?
The ideal life should be to graduate from college and work in a Fortune 500 company, enter a million in 5 years, meet a beloved, and the two of them decide to stay together for the rest of their lives. However, the reality is that now you still live alone in a rental house, working a 9-to-5 office worker, and you don't have the courage to get married, fall in love, and persuade yourself to save money to buy something you like.
Life is always full of anxiety, and once the pressure in my heart rises, tears will involuntarily flow down even when I eat. You always complain about why you live the way you live, why your boss doesn't give you a raise, why your co-workers are so unreasonable. Blame God for others, however, the truth is that I have no money and lack the ability to make money.
While it is difficult to admit this, there are many facts before us that we have to admit. In fact, getting rich is only the inevitable result of your efforts to do, rich people are destined to have poor people with different styles and characteristics, whether you can do the following points, you can see whether you will become a rich person.
1.Stay away from those who devour you.
Are you crying over a broken heart?Still wondering why some people always hold a grudge against themselves?Are you still worried about some ineffective social interactions?Don't be too upset when you break up and some friends don't contact you anymore because it means your best days are coming.
In the book Rebuilding Relationships, there is a story.
Tamara is a smart, successful woman who is able to cope well with life's challenges. Soon, she fell in love and gave all her energy to her boyfriend, but she gave it all her heart, and she didn't get a good love. Tamara is filled with feelings of insecurity and anxiety.
She can no longer enjoy her happy time with her friends, and she either waits for her boyfriend to come to her every day or analyzes the relationship in various ways. At that time, she had a hard time concentrating on her work, and she even told her friends that she might lose her job.
Tamara's situation is getting worse and worse, but luckily, with the help of her friends, she finally musters up the courage to break up with her boyfriend. A few years later, she met a boyfriend who gave her security, their relationship was going well, and Tamara was no longer trapped by love.
Tamara stopped complaining about pain and grievances to her friends, and her conversation turned into one about marriage, her vision for the future, and her thriving career.
Say goodbye to the wrong person and meet the right person.
Yes, the wrong person should let go sooner or you will waste time and money.
Not entangled, because of understanding your own time compounding effect, is to protect yourself. Some people are destined to be passers-by in life, and those who are ineffective socializing or who have been consuming themselves are meaningless and hinder our appreciation. Seeing the relationship clearly and devoting your energy to specific causes is not far from money.
2. Anyone close to you can resist.
Some time ago, Dr. Huang Guoping of the Chinese Academy of Sciences said online that he was still very young when his mother ran away from home and never returned. His father left him in the care of his mother-in-law, who, in spite of him, stole the eels he had worked so hard to catch, trying to sell them to pay for his tuition.
It's outrageous that my father just did it to buy himself a drink. When I was 17 years old, my father died in a car accident. Soon after, his mother-in-law, who had been taking care of him, died. Others may think that such a day won't last long, but how did he do it?He studied hard, and he knew that only by reading and reading well could there be a way out.
As it turned out, her efforts were not in vain, and he finally survived.
The person who can carry things doesn't require you to practice many skills, but rather that you have the faith to pull yourself up when you're stuck in a rut in your life.
People will always have such difficulties in their lives, but those who can carry things will not let difficulties defeat them.
I saw a netizen share his story earlier. When I was 18 years old, my father's business failed and he was in debt with millions of dollars. Because his father couldn't bear the blow, he chose to jump off the building.
The mother was depressed all day, and the younger brother played games all day because he was young and didn't understand what was going on.
When he saw his family fall apart, he stood up and took it all on. He organized cram schools with his classmates, and then he went to distribute leaflets, prepare lessons, and give lectures.
After the summer vacation, he earned 60,000 yuan. While there is still a long way to go to pay off debt, there is at least hope. The power of the mind to carry things leads us to find hope in despair.
When you go through a storm, all the tribulations turn into experiences that make us better versions of ourselves. Better and better yourself so that you can carry more money in the future.