Love comes from the full recognition of each other after mutual attraction, like a person, starting from the level of appearance, trapped in talent, loyal to character, and the other party fully meets their own aesthetic standards, they will be allowed to become friends and partners, both men and women.
There is no love for no reason, in the book "Intimacy", there has always been such a point of view that if two people are willing to come together, they must want to get something from the other half, even if it is the most basic emotional value, which can also be given to someone.
Based on this, when you don't love someone, there must be a reason to look for it, or when you like someone else, you can find in others what your partner once couldn't give;Or simply don't want to continue the current love, because once the partner gives himself the feeling of complete absence.
When you don't love someone, you will have a feeling in your subconscious, but because you have been together for a long time, you don't know when you don't want to break your habits, when you don't want to give up, or when you still love.
Many people have been confused in their relationships all their lives, and there is no major event to test, and they may not be able to see that ** is wrong, but women still have to remember that if a man has done these two things to you, even if you have children and get along for a long time, don't be nostalgic, separation is the best choice.
I once watched a **, a man severely beats a woman, the woman is powerless to resist, so she has to swallow her anger, and the man uses the woman as a tool to vent his dissatisfaction, mercilessly, punching and kicking. The child shouted on the side, and the woman patiently whispered to comfort the child in order not to make the child afraid.
You can feel the pain of women and the cruelty of men through the screen, watching women comfort their children in pain when they are beaten, their hearts are broken, and soon this ** is on the hot search list and has become a hot event that people pay attention to.
Someone once said that no matter how good a marriage is, there will be thousands of thoughts that will kill the partner.
When two people get along together, it is inevitable that there will be stumbles, especially when the beautiful passion of love is replaced by goosebumps in life, quarrels or love are inevitable, looking at each other and hating each other, and having thoughts of wanting to separate, it is most normal.
Even so, two people in a marriage are still equal in terms of human rights, and neither can easily hurt the other half, and if a man starts beating a woman, such behavior will undoubtedly accelerate the breakdown of the marriage.
There are only 0 and countless times of domestic violence, and once it starts, it is very addictive to taste the pleasure of conquering your partner with your fists.
Stay away from violent men, face the fists of the other half, be brave and avoid, otherwise, only yourself will be hurt, don't expect the other party to change, desire is like Pandora's box, once opened, it can't be closed.
A good relationship has a beauty effect, even if you are from your original family, there are many weaknesses in human nature, and when you meet the right person, in the company of each other, you will become better and better.
When I was interning in a garden company, I heard the story of the designer and her wife, the designer's wife originally sold clothes, entered the industry at the age of 19, has always been the lowest salesperson, with the designer, the designer encouraged his wife to go out to study, upgrade the sales technology to management technology, and soon, the wife became the owner of two clothing stores, and her income doubled.
Others boast that the designer is married to a potential stock, and only the designer's wife knows that she is married to a nobleman in life.
Not all men can guide a partner's life, some men, not only will not encourage their wives to grow, but even look down on their wives everywhere, no matter what the other party does, it is sarcasm, and over time, the wife's self-confidence is getting worse and worse.
Once, my best friend asked me if I was ugly, I didn't know why she had such a problem, and after chatting, I realized that it was my best friend's boyfriend who said that her best friend had small eyes, bad makeup, and was ugly;She said her best friend was stupid and couldn't do anything.
My girlfriend told me more than once, and I felt more and more that I was nothing and inferior to others, but in fact, my girlfriend was the person in charge of the unit and had a strong ability to work.
Maxima only meets Bole, will show the talent of Maxima, if you meet a vulgar horse trainer, naturally can not distinguish between right and wrong.
If a man always denies you, whether the other party is intentional or unintentional, with him, you will only get endless psychological internal friction, there is no doubt that he is not your lover and does not love you.
A good partner is not only a lover, but also a confidant and fellow traveler on the road of life.