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1.Kids are allowed to be naughty.
This kind of mother will not restrict her child too much, and it is against the objective law to press the lively and active child to the chair to read. As long as they act arbitrarily and do not have serious consequences, parents should encourage their children to be "naughty", and the children will have a lifetime of happiness.
2.Allow children to have their own quirky hobbies.
Whether you like Ultraman or are obsessed with manga, Mom supports it. Mom should know that many times, a child's small hobbies will benefit him for life.
3.Allow kids to play wildly.
Children are allowed to run wildly in the mountains, they are allowed to tread water and play in the mud, and they are allowed to climb trees to catch bugs. It doesn't matter if you get muddy or bumped and injured.
4.Support your child's whims.
A child who can fantasize in his own life will have an insatiable curiosity. This will be the driving force for them to explore the world in the future, and it will also generate endless creativity. And this power must sprout and thrive in early childhood, otherwise it will wither easily.
5.Allow your child to cry.
Crying is an expression of children's emotions and nature, not forcing children to be strong, and not suppressing children's nature. Rather, let them cry as much as they want. When the child releases his emotions, it's like he's fine. This reduces the likelihood of a child having a psychological problem.
6.Don't use scores as a criterion for judging your child.
This kind of mother never cares about how many points their child gets, they care more about what their child has learned, and praise them for their achievements and help them solve problems that they can't solve.
What are these moms rolling up behind their backs?
1. Pay attention to the cultivation of children's concentration.
Concentration is the core competitive resource for children's learning, and many mothers know how to exercise their children's concentration from an early age.
1. Don't interrupt your child at will.
2. Create a concise learning environment (no non-study-related items appear at the desk).
3. Do only one thing at a time (concentrate on eating when eating, play to your heart's content, don't be half-hearted, multitasking).
4. Learning a musical instrument is the most challenging for children's concentration.
2. Pay attention to cultivating children's habits.
Before the age of six, children are most malleable, and it is the best period to develop children's habits.
1. Develop the habit of keeping time.
2. Cultivate the habit of reading (set a reading time every day).
3. Learning the habit of tidying up can exercise children's sense of order and concentration.
4. Develop the habit of exercising. (Exercise is the best nutrient for the brain, so be sure to have enough time to exercise every day).
5. The habit of daring to ask questions and questions (learning starts from thinking, thinking starts from doubting).
6. The habit of going to bed early and getting up early.
3. Know how to cultivate children's self-discipline.
Children's self-discipline is nurtured, and parents need to do the following five things:
1.Don't manage everywhere, keep an eye on it, let children learn to manage themselves, and stimulate children's internal drive.
2.Learn to let go and let your child do their own thing.
3.Give your child a spiritual reward (affirming your child, watching a movie or fulfilling a wish, etc.).
4.Learn to break down goals (try to break down big goals into smaller goals, and then remind your child to complete them little by little).
5.Let your child experience the "natural consequences" (e.g., the consequences of being late if your child doesn't wake up on time).
Fourth, know how to grasp children's interests.
Every child has their own shining point, and if you can find your child's shining point and cultivate it, it will allow your child to find a steady stream of self-confidence.
Fifth, know how to cultivate children's adversity quotient.
Children with high adversity quotient have a strong ability to resist setbacks, and can actively respond to difficulties when they encounter them, turning pressure into motivation.
1.Parents criticize less and encourage more, so that children are not afraid of making mistakes (when children do something badly, encourage children to try, even if they don't succeed).
2.Let the child experience some failures and grow from them.
3.Don't expect too much from your child to avoid your child's psychological fear of losing.
4.When encountering problems, inspire children to think independently about how to solve them, and cultivate children's problem-solving skills.