The days are overnight, relived by the fireworks, elegance is also life, vulgarity is also life, with an indifferent heart to spend the years quietly, joy is also light, sadness is also light.
This life is like flowing water. Even if you have Top Gun, then things change, cross mountains and seas, go through wind and waves, and eventually come to an end.
This is the inevitability of life, and it is also the gift of time.
There is no ambition without indifference, and there is no far-reaching ambition without tranquility.
Why chase fame and prosperity, with an indifferent heart, you can spend this life leisurely.
Chen Jiru said in "The Story of the Small Window": Don't be shocked by the humiliation, watch the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court;Go and stay unintentionally, looking at the clouds in the sky.
I don't care about glory or humiliation, I just leisurely enjoy the blooming and declining flowers and plants in the courtyardWhether it is promoted or demoted, I don't care, I just feel free to roll up the clouds in the sky.
This kind of relaxed mentality, probably many people can't do.
We live in the world, we are affected by the people around us, by the work environment, by everything, how can we be pampered and not surprised, how can we stay unintentional.
I think I'm afraid I have to go through countless ups and downs in life to be so normal.
Those ups and downs temper your mind and your attitude towards things. It's like, whether you are rich or poor, from the moment you are born, you cannot escape death.
It's not that if you have money, you'll never die. It's not that if you're poor, you'll definitely die earlier than others.
But if a person can really look down on life and death, and look down on gains and losses, then he can really be pampered and not surprised, and spend the years quietly with an indifferent heart.
Li Bai once had a poem: Life must be happy, don't make the gold bottle empty to the moon. This is Li Bai's open-mindedness.
Actually, sometimes I also wonder, is Li Bai really that open-minded?
It is said that Li Bai is a rich second generation, but he is not bad for money. People really can't live without money, and money can indeed solve many problems in life. If Li Bai is really so open-minded, it probably has nothing to do with him being a rich second generation.
If Li Bai is a poor scholar who eats the last meal but not the next, it will probably be difficult to be open-minded.
It has been said that the economic base, which determines the superstructure, does not apply to everyone, but at least for the majority.
After all, some people are naturally open-minded, naturally open-minded, and naturally indifferent to everything.
And those who have an indifferent heart are also more likely to be happy.
A cup of tea is happiness, a pot of wine is happiness, and meeting someone you can talk to on the road is also happy.
The ancients once had a saying: don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself.
Presumably, it's also an indifferent heart.
If you have an indifferent heart, isn't the world the best time quiet?