Writer Yu Qiuyu wrote in his work:
On the road of life, you have to rely on yourself to go down step by step, and what can really protect you is your own life choice.
In fact, it's true.
Whether you have the help of exceptional people or whether you've come across a variety of opportunities, you're ultimately going to have to do it on your own, and you definitely don't want to just sit back and do it once and for all.
Only by relying on oneself to polish a strong mentality can we have a strong self, be fearless of wind and rain, and move forward all the way.
Life is always unsatisfactory, and only when you really rely on yourself can you withstand the long night, grit your teeth and continue to walk, in order to usher in a bright dawn.
There is a proverb that says:
The sky is high enough for birds to fly;The sea is wide enough for fish to jump. ”
Only when you are strong can you use your personal strength and talent to fly higher and go further.
Therefore, most of the people who are really capable never lack the word "rely on themselves", which is really powerful.
Writer Zheng Yuanjie said:
If you put your hopes in others, you will only let yourself down. ”
At any time in life, don't rely too much on others, this is giving the other party the right to take away their own, which will allow them to fail and thrive, and they will only be controlled by others and miserable.
Lu Hong, an entrepreneur who was named "Moving China 2022 Person of the Year" and known as "Forrest Gump in China", was deeply moved.
Because of the damage to the cerebellar nerves caused by fever when he was a child, he was physically disabled, and he waited until he graduated from high school, hitting walls everywhere and finding a job.
In order to find a job, he also entered a vocational school to study Xi, but he still couldn't find a job after graduation.
There were hesitations, there were complaints, but after painful reflection, he decided to make a living on his own.
In 2012, Lu Hongpan opened a photo studio and began to produce electronic photo albums.
Unexpectedly, the business was booming, and many people came to take pictures of him.
After that, he had a professional production team of 35 people with disabilities, with an annual turnover of 13 million yuan.
Napoleon said: there are not enough people to rely on, you have to rely on yourself to survive. ”
After all, the backer will fall, and the backer will run.
When you really rely on yourself to make a living, and not rely too much on others, you are giving yourself the greatest choice, and you are also making life shine because of your independence.
Management guru Peter Drucker said:
A person's Xi ability is his core competitiveness. ”
People who are truly capable know this and have been practicing the true meaning of lifelong learning Xi.
Only by constantly learning Xi can we not let our thoughts solidify, slowly improve our cognition, and let us have more opportunities in life.
Tell me a story about Ji Xianlin.
At the age of 80, in order to study the origin and spread of sugar, he walked seven or eight kilometers to the library every day to consult various materials.
Over the course of two years, he rummaged through the entire library, and in the process of rummaging, he unexpectedly discovered that sugar was originally used for **.
Immediately after completing the most important work of his life, The History of Sugar, he also launched an offensive against the Tocharian language.
No matter when, as long as time does not press the pause button, we should always maintain a Xi attitude, so that we have progress, and we have a great competitiveness in life.
In this world, there is never a winning general forever, but if you have the ability to keep learning Xi, you will make yourself guard against arrogance and arrogance, make up for your shortcomings by learning Xi, and reduce the probability of failure.
Moreover, the beginning of a person's real aging is that his mind becomes empty, so that he loses the ability to think and focus, and only continuous learning and Xi can keep him young and always excellent temperament.
There is never an age limit for learning Xi, as long as you start now, it is never too late, let yourself become a lifelong love of learning Xi, will make your life smoother, less detours.
Hugo said: I would rather rely on my own strength to open my future than seek the favor of the strong. ”
When people live, they should rely on themselves to do their best, not rely on others to survive, so that they can realize their own umbrella rain or shine.
This way, you can give yourself a sense of security, and you can reap the rewards of life as you run forward.
Because in this world, those who are truly capable never complain about the difficulties of life and have no particular luck, but there must be hard work, diligence and diligence to finally get the favor of opportunity.
The writer Alexandre Dumas did not rely on his father's fame, but insisted on writing and became a famous writer.
Liao Zhi, a dancer who lost his legs, bravely overcame the torment of knee pain, continued to practice Xi kneeling, and starred in the dance "Inspiration", which surprised him.
And Yang Le, a second-generation star, did not rely on his father's tree, insisting on starting from dramas and continuing with movies and TV series, making him truly an acting school.
Life is like this, when you always accept fate, it is better to fight, only when you become strong, is the best way to treat yourself.
In this journey of life, constantly improve yourself, tap your potential, step by step, go steadily, and eventually reach the other side of success.