I remember there is a sentence in "Mid-Levels Anthology":
When a person reaches a certain age, he must live under his own roof. ”
A mature woman definitely knows how to plan ahead, and will not let herself do nothing in the long river of time, but will strive for more choices for her future.
Improve yourself, invest in yourself, meet the most beautiful scenery in the journey of life, and make your life gorgeous and dazzling.
To be precise, as long as a woman adheres to these three Xi, she will make her life more and more noble, and her life will shine.
Why do people read books?
Writer Su Tong said:
In a way, reading is a process of gathering energy. ”
Harvest magazine's chief programmer Yongxin said:
Reading opens our eyes, opens our minds, and tells us how to live a worthwhile and meaningful life. ”
A woman who doesn't like to read, even if her life is long, can only see a corner of the world.
A woman who likes to read can go out of her own land and let a different scenery of life slowly unfold in front of her.
Some time ago, someone posted a ** to attend the awards ceremony on the Internet.
At nearly seventy years old, she can't see any traces of old age, she is still radiant, elegant and confident, and has become the focus of the audience.
Usually, Lin Qingxia's favorite thing to do is to read.
Her living room, study, and bathroom are full of books she likes to read, and she is full of books.
Because of reading, she slowly found inner peace, began to live seriously, talked to her inner self, and met the best version of herself.
Reading for a long time makes every text read become an inert gas in the body, and even if the years change, they are still elegant and generous.
There is a proverb that says:
Time will never disappoint the beauty, and there is poetry in the belly. ”
For a woman, even if her face will slowly age, her soul and temperament will sublimate and become more and more intense over the years.
Perhaps reading is the lowest threshold for nobility in this world, it allows you to see a different world, and it can also enrich you in your heart and meet your best self.
There is a sentence in the Republic of Fortune:
Money is not everything in life. It doesn't even guarantee a happy life, but a certain amount of money can lay a solid foundation for a happy life. ”
The more women can live, the more expensive they are, and they are often inseparable from their ability to make money independently, so that they are full of confidence and live freely.
Su Mingyu in the once popular TV series "Everything is Alright", under the influence of her original family, she can still live freely, and she is inseparable from her self-confidence that she can make money.
Su Mingyu's family has always been patriarchal, and her parents only pay attention to the growth of their sons, and never pay attention to their daughters.
Su Mingyu, who went to college, used her part-time job on weekends to earn money and tried a variety of jobs. After graduating, she relied on her own efforts to become an executive of the group, giving her more say in life.
She no longer needs to rely on her original family to continue her life, nor does she wronged herself, but lives her life every day according to her own preferences.
For a woman, being able to make money independently is actually to give herself a huge sense of security, not to be wronged by setbacks in real life, but to let herself have more choices and live freely.
Two people can have happiness, one person can also take care of themselves, no longer worry about life, will make themselves less troubled, and naturally let the body have confidence, walk with the wind, lively.
Maugham said: Of course, what a person seeks is not wealth, but a life sufficient to maintain dignity;Ability to work unhindered, to be generous, cheerful, and independent. ”
When you have the ability to make money independently, it reduces some of the uncertainties in your life, you will not panic because of the wind and rain, and you will not be wronged by yourself.
Making money can not only bring a sense of security in life, in fact, it can also realize self-worth and make one's life shine, which will highlight the nobility in self-confidence.
Read this sentence:
Love is the nourishment of the soul and the spice of life. "Having a hobby is like putting a mottled layer of color on the background color of life. ”
In life, when a woman can find something she likes, she will be able to live a smooth sailing on boring days.
Many women spend half their lives wandering around a limited framework of life, or are submissive in the family.
If you can't find the true happiness in your heart, it will be even more difficult to live freely, and you will be trapped in trivial things all day long.
Over time, the whole person's eyes lost their light, and there was no smile on his face, only exhaustion and exhaustion.
If you want to make your life colorful, you should learn to have your own hobbies.
In the TV series "Only Love", Liang Youan's mother Liu Yuemei divorced in middle age, but she did not give up on herself.
She continued to study Chinese painting, taking care of life in Xi and experiencing fun in pen and ink.
Not only can you rediscover the value of life, but you can also cultivate your child's independence and self-confidence.
Writer Wang Zengqi said:
Let yourself love something, just as trees love time. ”
Women who are interested in hobbies are full of joy and light in their hearts, and they can be interesting at every meal and dish, and they can be interested overnight.
Let yourself have a hobby, is to please yourself, is to care about life, but also to love the years, such a woman will make her life more exciting, and will also make the good come as scheduled.