Recently, Lin Yongjian shared a paragraph on social platforms, which sparked heated discussions among netizens.
*, his 13-year-old son, Lin Dajun, was interviewed in English.
Lin Dajun not only plays the piano well, but also speaks English very fluently, and his gentle and sparkling appearance is admirable.
During the interview, Lin Dajun said generously:"Practicing the piano is not stressful for me, but rather relaxing. Because in the family, I have felt a lot of warmth since I was a child, not pressure, but encouragement. ”
Many netizens couldn't help but sigh, "Dajun is really growing up well." ”
The little boy in "Where Are You Going, Dad" is now dignified and has grown into an excellent teenager.
Some netizens said that the identities of the father and son will change in the future. When it came to Lin Dajun before, I knew that it was "Lin Yongjian's son", but now when I talk about Lin Yongjian, it has to be "pianist Lin Dajun's father".
As a well-known veteran actor, Lin Yongjian has played many classic roles.
In "Golden Wedding", Lin Yongjian plays the role of "Dazhuang" who likes to pinch his daughter-in-law.
In "Wang Gui and Anna", Lin Yongjian played the role of the "big and rough" professor Wang Gui.
Now, Lin Yongjian, who is not acting, has turned into a "baby maniac", and on social platforms, almost all of them are his son's **, full of pride and pride.
Many people may not know that his wife Zhou Dongqi is also an insider.
One is a poor boy from a rural area, and the other is the "most beautiful military flower" from a military family. How did two people come together, and how did they raise their children to be so good?
"Ugly man with small eyes" turned into "a thousand faces".
Lin Yongjian was born in Qingdao, Shandong.
When I was a child, I was often ridiculed for being ugly. Many friends also gave him nicknames: "Little Eyes" and "Squinting Eyes".
But Lin Yongjian, who is very arrogant, does not have inferiority. On the contrary, he also has a dream, that is, to be an actor.
At the age of 17, the Qingdao Repertory Theatre recruited students. Lin Yongjian wanted to participate, but he was afraid of being ridiculed.
A suggestion from his sister that changed his life.
She said: "You just go and sing "Jigong", but no one will watch you sing just because you look like you." You have to sing and act, and the movements have to be exaggerated, so that it has characteristics. ”
After listening to his sister's advice, Lin Yongjian sang "Shoes are broken, hats are broken" and passed the exam.
Lin Yongjian still remembers what the recruitment teacher said casually: "You can't all be good-looking people on stage." ”
He knows that he is unique, and although he is not good-looking, there will always be characters who need him.
Sure enough, Lin Yongjian's idea was verified.
Some roles really don't need to be played by someone who is too handsome, and he has had many opportunities to go on stage.
Three years later, Lin Yongjian, who dreamed of appearing on more stages, went to the Guangzhou Military Region Repertory Troupe.
He started with all kinds of odd jobs, and sometimes played small supporting roles without a name, but he was never discouraged.
On stage, his hard work was recognized.
Coincidentally, the director of "Age of Peace" was sitting in the audience at that time. As a result, Lin Yongjian had the opportunity to star in the TV "Age of Peace".
Despite being a small role, he put his heart and soul into it and made the character perfect.
Because of this role, Lin Yongjian was also nominated for Best Supporting Actor at the 17th "Feitian Awards".
With this attempt, Lin Yongjian became bolder. At the age of 30, he went to Beijing and became a North Drifter.
In the first half a year after arriving in Beijing, Lin Yongjian ran around the crew to submit resumes, but they all fell into the sea. For more than half a year, he didn't even have the opportunity to be a "group performer".
Later, Lin Yongjian met Zhang Guoli. Zhang Guoli felt that Lin Yongjian was willing to endure hardships and was a drama idiot, so he thought about introducing him to the role.
So, Lin Yongjian got the opportunity to play Lu Zhuo in "Iron Tooth and Bronze Tooth Ji Xiaolan".
Lin Yongjian knew that this role was not easy to come by, and he put a lot of effort into it in advance and interpreted this role very successfully.
Since then, his acting career has gradually entered the right track.
He is the fortune teller in "Wulin Gaiden".
He is the budget-conscious secretary in "The Story of the Cooking Class".
Although they are all inconspicuous small roles, he interprets each role with his heart.
After many years of tepid tricks, Lin Yongjian finally had the opportunity to play the leading role, this drama is called "The Story of Ploughing the Field".
With this drama, Lin Yongjian won the 24th Golden Eagle Award for Audience Favorite TV Drama Actor.
After winning the award, Lin Yongjian's acting career seems to be on the open, starring in many classic film and television dramas: "Golden Wedding", "Wang Gui and Anna", "Before Dawn", etc., every role is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.
Later, Lin Yongjian also became a frequent guest of the Spring Festival Gala, and with his humorous and down-to-earth performances, he became popular all over the country.
Having lost a child twice, the relationship that has withstood the test has endured for a long time
In 2002, Lin Yongjian graduated from the ** Drama Academy and entered the Kongzheng Drama Troupe. Here, he met his lover Zhou Dongqi.
Once, the art troupe held a skit performance for the army, and Lin Yongjian and Zhou Dongqi were arranged in the same program.
Seeing Lin Yongjian for the first time, Zhou Dongqi thought to himself, no wonder everyone said that he had small eyes, but he was really small enough. Lin Yongjian joked with her: "What are you looking at, I've never seen me so handsome!."These words made Zhou Dongqi laugh all of a sudden.
During the rehearsal, the two cooperated tacitly and admired each other's abilities.
Although people around him said that Lin Yongjian was ugly, Zhou Dongqi felt that he was very real, and the more he looked at it, the more pleasing it became.
Later, Lin Yongjian often asked Zhou Dongqi for supper, and the two secretly fell in love.
At the beginning, Lin Yongjian felt that he was not worthy of Zhou Dongqi, because there was a gap between the two people.
Zhou Dongqi has a good family background and looks good.
At that time, he was already very famous in the entertainment industry, and starred in film and television dramas such as "The Day I Left Lei Feng", "The Conscience of Heaven and Earth", and "Wulin Gaiden".
When Lin Yongjian was still hesitating how to confess, a call ** made him make up his mind.
At that time, Lin Yongjian's father was seriously ill and hoped to see his son start a family before leaving.
In order not to let his old father have regrets, and in order not to miss his fate, Lin Yongjian mustered up the courage to find Zhou Dongqi and expressed his love to her.
In fact, Zhou Dongqi has long fallen in love with this honest and straightforward man who does things very seriously.
In 2003, the two held a simple and special wedding in Lin Yongjian's father's ward.
After marriage, the two people have experienced a long run-in.
Zhou Dongqi especially likes to buy, buy, buy, and Lin Yongjian, who has been used to it since he was a child, is particularly picky.
Once, Zhou Dongqi wanted to go to a buffet, and when he arrived at the restaurant, he asked for 498 yuan per person. Lin Yongjian felt that it was too expensive, so he coaxed Zhou Dongqi and said that he would take her to another house to eat, which was cost-effective and delicious.
Later, Lin Yongjian took Zhou Dongqi to eat a meal of mutton, and the two spent a total of 130 yuan.
Although Lin Yongjian is usually reluctant to spend money, he is never ambiguous in major matters.
When Zhou Dongqi's younger brother bought a house, the down payment was not enough, so Lin Yongjian didn't say a word and transferred the money. Zhou Dongqi knew in his heart that although Lin Yongjian was a little picky in the small things in life, he would never drop the chain at the critical moment.
With the run-in between the two people, Lin Yongjian gradually changed his concept of consumption.
One year, Zhou Dongqi celebrated his birthday and took a fancy to a top, 5980 yuan. At that time, when he saw **, Lin Yongjian sighed in his heart, and he was about to top his monthly salary. But seeing that his wife really liked it, Lin Yongjian gritted his teeth and bought the clothes.
When they first got married, the couple didn't have much money. After Zhou Dongqi became pregnant, the two fell into a tangle.
At that time, Lin Yongjian's father had just died. At that time, there was only 30,000 yuan left in the family, and it took at least 10,000 yuan to give birth to a child.
Forced by the pressure of life and worried that they could not give their children a good environment for growth, the two made a difficult decision - miscarriage.
Afterwards, both of them were very bitter and blamed themselves. Since then, this matter has also become a shadow, and no one dares to mention it again.
A few years later, Lin Yongjian became famous, and the family's economic conditions improved, and both of them hoped to have a child.
Later, Zhou Dongqi became pregnant again. Unexpectedly, a new test was waiting for them.
At the end of 2008, when the two were rehearsing the Spring Festival Gala sketch "Collision", Zhou Dongqi accidentally miscarried. The two endured great pain and persevered until the end of the show.
After returning home, the couple hugged their heads and cried.
Lin Yongjian once said frankly that during that time, whenever he saw other people's children so cute, he would think of the children he had lost.
When middle-aged people have children, love is the best gift
When Lin Yongjian was 41 years old, his wife Zhou Dongqi became pregnant again.
Having had the painful experience of the previous two times, the couple was especially careful this time. Lin Yongjian turned off a lot of work, accompanied his wife to raise the baby at home, and gave her a variety of tricks to make food every day.
In 2010, Zhou Dongqi successfully gave birth to his son Lin Dajun, and gradually faded out of the showbiz and took care of his son wholeheartedly.
Lin Dajun not only looks like his father, but also has a similar personality.
Every time I take a photo, I feel very energetic when I see the camera.
Since then, Lin Yongjian has worked harder in filming, and he wants to create better living conditions for his wife and children.
As a first-time father, Lin Yongjian doesn't know how to communicate with his children, and even sometimes he is very "straight".
In 2015, Lin Yongjian took his son to participate in "Where Are You Going, Dad 3", and his clumsy and hectic appearance once caused the audience to complain.
In the show, Lin Dajun also contributed a lot of funny golden sentences.
For example, he said to his father, "Are you the devil?"Lin Yongjian replied with a stiff face: "I'm your father!."”
In the show, 5-year-old Lin Dajun walked into the room and saw many bottles of milk on the table. He didn't drink it, but took advantage of his father's time to go out, and stuffed all the milk into his school bag.
But this scene happened to be seen by Lin Yongjian. At that time, he was very angry, and he didn't ask his son what was going on, but subconsciously thought that his son was taking advantage of him.
He didn't give Lin Dajun a chance to explain, so he slammed the door angrily.
Later, Lin Yongjian called his son aside alone and gave him a meal: "Are you short of food or drink?"Why put it up yourself?Why take advantage of it?”
Unexpectedly, his son's words made Lin Yongjian particularly embarrassed: "I don't think other children seem to have it, I want to bring it to them to drink." ”
Lin Yongjian realized that he had misunderstood his son, and hurriedly apologized to his son: "Dad misunderstood you, Dad was wrong." ”
After hearing his father say "I'm sorry", Lin Dajun finally relaxed, with an innocent smile on his face.
Some netizens said:"Teacher Lin Yongjian is the only one who went to participate in "Where Are You Going, Dad", just like going to "Metamorphosis", from a rebellious dad to an introspective dad. ”
It is true that no one is born to be parents, and parents who are introspective can love their children better.
During the participation in the "Where Are You Going, Dad" program, the day and night get along with each other, and also shorten the distance between them and their children.
Lin Yongjian is more aware that children's growth is a one-way street, and if you miss it, you will miss it. As a parent, you must cherish every day with your children.
Since then, he has gradually focused on his family.
There are dramas, and there are people who love: men who love their wives and children will not have bad luck
Although Lin Yongjian is very arrogant, he never feels that he is a father, so he should be high.
He knows how to respect children and bow his head when it is time to bow his head. He gets along with his son in a friend-like way, which also makes his son more and more sunny and cheerful.
Under the relaxed parent-child relationship, Lin Dajun likes to joke with his father.
When he was 9 years old, Lin Yongjian took Lin Dajun to participate in the "Teacher, Please Answer" program. At the scene of the show, the host asked Lin Yongjian: "What kind of mood do you feel when you bring your son to the show?"”
The humorous and lovely Lin Dajun replied on the side: "Proud!."”
It made the audience laugh.
Lin Dajun also learned his father's lines at the Spring Festival party on the spot, and his father's cleverness in shaking the "burden" was very cute.
Seeing that his young son was so good, Lin Yongjian was relieved and proud.
So far, many of Lin Yongjian and his son Lin Dajun are still talked about by netizens.
Some netizens said: Lin Dajun likes to play the piano.
When asked by the host when he was a child why he wanted to learn piano, Lin Dajun innocently replied: "Because the teacher asked us to fill out a form, if I don't learn piano, the specialty column will be empty." ”
Although the child's goal is just not to let the "specialty column be empty", Lin Yongjian feels that if a person wants to live a relaxed and fun life in this life, he must have a hobby.
When children are stressed in the future, or when they feel that life is boring, they can absorb happy nourishment in their hobbies.
Therefore, Lin Yongjian has always encouraged his son that since he has learned piano, he must continue to learn and learn it well.
He often accompanies his son to practice. In order to increase his son's interest, he would let his son play while he was a backup singer. also specially filmed ** to record the moment of accompanying his son: "Playing is better than singing." ”
Every time Lin Dajun participates in a piano competition, Lin Yongjian and his wife will come to the scene to cheer for their son.
Every weekend and holiday, as long as Lin Yongjian is not filming, he will accompany his son to exercise and play crazy outdoors.
When the father and son are funny, even the eyes are exactly the same.
Lin Yongjian is very fond of cooking, and when he has free time, he will teach his son to cook together.
Whether it is sending his son to interest classes or going to and from school, Lin Yongjian is as hands-on as possible.
He knows that the child's growth is fleeting, and hopes that the child can always be there when he needs him.
Today's Lin Yongjian has become a "baby maniac". He often posts his son's participation in activities on social platforms and plays with his children.
Lin Yongjian wants to record every meaningful moment of children's growth as much as possible. Because time flies quickly, the child may grow up in the blink of an eye.
With the attentive company of Lin Yongjian and his wife, Lin Dajun has become more and more excellent, not only with excellent academic performance, but also very well at playing the piano, and now he is the only global image spokesperson for the 8th Huabiao International Piano Open Competition in 2024.
Lin Yongjian has always been full of gratitude for life.
When he was young, no matter what play he played, no matter how small the role was, he was very attentive.
What he often says to himself is: "People take care of your food, your accommodation, give you an honorarium, and make you famous, can you not act well?"”
Today, he is also full of gratitude for his life and career, and is always content.
"I have always felt that I am very lucky to have such a good career, a good wife and a sunny and lively son, isn't this the life that ordinary people want the most?”
Lin Yongjian and his wife Zhou Dongqi have been married for nearly 20 years and have never had a scandal. The two support and encourage each other in their careers, and have also starred in many film and television dramas together.
The couple acted in "Mom's In the Mood for Love" together.
also acted in "Bi Youcai" together.
In "Mother is Like a Flower", the couple also have wonderful rivalry.
Although Lin Yongjian is still a little picky about himself, he is very generous to his wife and children and his family.
When he is not filming, Lin Yongjian is at home with his wife and children.
He knows that he can't be an actor for a lifetime, but being a good husband and father is the most important thing in his life.
Lin Yongjian believes that cherishing the time with his family and running the family well is the most important career. He has also been working silently for this happy little goal.
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