Will definitely choose to have children again, if I can choose again.
CCTV host Kang Hui began to feel remorse after more than 20 years of celibacy, but now that he and his wife are elderly, it is impossible to have another child.
In an interview with the show, Kang Hui has always been calm on stage, but red and swollen eyes appeared, and he apologized in a low voice for his failure to honor his parents, and now that their parents have died, no matter what he does, it is irreparable.
Why did Kang Hui choose Dink back then?Why does he regret it now?
Kang Hui didn't make Dink's decision at the beginning, and when he and his wife Liu Yajie were united, both of their careers were in their infancy.
While busy at work, the income is not rich, Kang Hui and Liu Yajie believe that this is not a suitable stage for having children, so this matter has not been implemented.
Their relationship has always been very harmonious, and after marriage, they enjoy the comfort brought by the world of the two.
Over time, they begin to realize that maybe they don't need children to live well.
Kang Hui and Liu Yajie decided to become a couple who chose the Dink lifestyle.
Kang Hui only coped perfunctorily every time, saying "okay, good", but in fact never took any action, and this state lasted for more than ten years, despite the urging of his parents many times.
During this time, Liu Yajie was diagnosed with uterine fibroids and underwent surgery to remove them. She was already an older mother, and now she is even more unsuitable for raising children.
Kang Hui is a good husband who knows how to cherish his wife, so he is not willing to let Liu Yajie risk her life to have children.
Due to both subjective and objective reasons, they have consistently chosen not to have children.
Kang Hui and Liu Yajie met through a blind date, and their first dinner together was not particularly romantic, and even Kang Hui looked a little cute because he was too "straight".
Kang Hui felt that kelp egg custard was more suitable, and did not give in unconditionally because Liu Yajie was a lady, although Liu Yajie proposed tomato egg custard.
Of course, Liu Yajie did not back down, both of them are very firm personalities, and it is not easy for this blind date trip to end smoothly.
Kang Hui left near the end of the show, saying that he had other things to do and needed to give birthday presents to his classmates. Thankfully, he settled the bill early.
On reflection afterwards, Liu Yajie commented:
He was an uninteresting guy who took me around for a long day and ended up buying me only a popsicle. When we went apart, he left without even saying hello, and it was really boring when we were together.
Although Kang Hui seemed boring, he finally attracted Liu Yajie, just because the two were too similar.
Their CCTV colleagues often joked that the two of them seemed to have graduated from the same training class, and even the way they walked was identical.
At the end of the workday, they would walk downstairs together, as if they were living the life of old people.
The two are nicknamed "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" by their friends, and they always get along in harmony when they are together, and the tacit understanding is very high, and they can even understand each other's intentions with just a light hand.
And so they came together as a matter of course.
The life of the two after marriage is still peaceful and sweet, and there has never been a real quarrel over the years.
Liu Yajie loves cats and dogs, and Kang Hui is not interested, but he still complied with Liu Yajie's wishes and raised a cat at home.
It can be seen from their short ** that Kang Hui does not seem to oppose this approach, after all, the so-called "love house and Wu" probably means this.
Although the two of them are already happy, Kang Hui's parents are not satisfied.
The older generation believes that a person should still have a child in his life, and the greatest happiness is to watch his children and grandchildren full of children and grandchildren and enjoy the joy of family.
Kang Hui's parents obviously can't enjoy this kind of happiness, they are urging Kang Hui to have grandchildren every year, but they are always perfunctory by their son and daughter-in-law.
Gradually, they gave up, and over time, accepted the fact that they would not have grandchildren.
However, this is also an obsession. So, when the illness came, the thought of retaining love once again appeared in the hearts of the two elders.
Kang Hui learned that his father had advanced liver cancer, and the cancer had spread to other organs.
Watching the younger generations honor themselves at the bedside, many of them came with their children, which reminded Kang Hui's father that Kang Hui still has no offspring, and the prayers of the early years came to his heart again.
Kang Hui worked overtime in Taili until eleven o'clock that night, and missed the opportunity to see his father for the last time.
But his father has passed away quietly, and his last wish is to see Kang Hui's child, but it is obvious that this wish cannot be realized.
Kang Hui's heart has always been unforgettable, this incident happened at the same time as his father's death, and for the first time he realized how much regret his childlessness brought to his parents.
Kang Hui's mother was also diagnosed with uremia shortly after his father's death and eventually passed away in 2018.
Before her death, her mother confessed to others that she was sorry for Kang Hui's father and failed to let Kang Hui give birth to a grandson.
Kang Hui recalled that year, he felt that life was very gloomy, and his parents' expectations for him and the regret of the two elderly people when they passed away kept coming to mind.
Kang Hui felt deep remorse, and he thought in his heart that it would be good if he wasn't so persistent.
In 2019, Kang Hui published his autobiography "Average Score", in which his inner remorse was revealed for the first time.
He confessed that because of his willfulness, his parents had placed a lifetime of expectations on him, but he never received a response.
Through the family photos of the past, he deeply felt the parents' ardent expectations for one more grandson on this **.
He has now missed the ** period of childbirth, and even if he wants to make up for this regret, it is irreparable, so he can only write his guilt in his autobiography.
After more than 20 years of married life, Kang Hui revealed in an interview with the show that the couple has gone from "unwilling to have children" at the beginning to "unable to have children" today.
Kang Hui's eyes were red, and when the host asked him if he had any regrets, he confessed that he regretted that he had not been able to let his parents enjoy the same happiness as other old people when they were alive.
When he mentioned that his parents were critically ill, his grief was overflowing, and everyone present was moved.
Kang Hui's achievements today are inseparable from the credit of his parents.
Kang Hui was born in 1972, and his parents were not wealthy and illustrious. They are ordinary families.
Kang Hui was naughty like many boys when he was a child, often skipping class, not doing homework, and only thinking about being naughty.
Despite the average conditions of his parents, they did not give up on Kang Hui and decided to hire a tutor to redirect him on the right path. Such Kang Hui made them feel distressed.
Kang Hui has now changed his childhood naughtiness and has begun to become serious, which is precisely because of his parents' persistence.
Kang Hui successfully passed the college entrance examination and was successfully admitted to the Broadcasting Department of Radio and Television University. His voice is distinctive, but his basics are relatively average.
The surrounding students entered the campus radio one by one with their talents, and Kang Hui gradually felt anxious and realized that he couldn't be lazy anymore.
Instead of shying away from tedious pronunciation training, he listens to his recordings again and again, looking for inaccuracies in pronunciation and correcting them.
He not only actively participates in various competitions held by the school, such as dubbing, hosting, etc., as long as it is an activity that can exercise his ability, he is never tired of it, because this is how his ability is improved bit by bit.
The host's performance made Kang Hui full of confidence, and he frequently participated in various competitions, which also made his strength improve rapidly and won the love of his teachers.
The teacher suggested that he intern at a local TV station, and there, his talent was also recognized by the trainee teacher, and he was given many practical opportunities for live dubbing.
Kang Hui took this opportunity very seriously, it was the first time he was really involved and in action, and luckily he had laid a solid foundation, so he also received a lot of praise and made great strides on this path.
Kang Hui studied diligently when he was a student and accumulated rich experience, which also laid a solid foundation for him to successfully enter CCTV.
Because his voice is unique, steady and magnetic, and is very suitable for broadcasting solemn content, he was assigned to report current political news.
This is not a job that ordinary people can do, because there are many obscure technical terms in current affairs news, and when it comes to politics, mistakes can have very serious consequences.
Kang Hui's broadcast has always been very accurate and rarely makes mistakes, so he soon became the target of CCTV's key training, transforming from a newcomer.
Kang Hui has worked tirelessly in the field of journalism for many years, and in recent years has also tried to participate in the recording of some variety shows, but unfortunately due to his special status, his footage was deleted when the show was broadcast in the end.
As a CCTV news host, he didn't complain about anything, after all, he had to maintain a steady and formal image in front of the audience. In contrast, variety shows are more entertaining, which is really not decent enough.
This year, CCTV has carried out a large-scale adjustment of the host position, and Kang Hui has also retreated from the first-line position to the second-line, making more opportunities for young hosts who have just entered the industry.
Dink is a big decision that can have a profound impact on your entire life.
Therefore, when making this decision, you need to be extra cautious, after all, time does not turn back. If you regret it in the future, there is no way to make up for it.
Although Kang Hui did not give birth, as a CCTV host, his contribution to society is obvious, and a person's contribution to society is not only reflected in childbirth.
I hope you don't use "Dink" to morally kidnap him.
This is a personal decision, and we must respect the individual's wishes.
No matter what happens, Kang Hui must take responsibility for his decision, and I believe he is mentally prepared.