Many people start to let themselves go when they get older.
thinks that "forbearance" is a young person's business, and he has been aggrieved all his life, and he doesn't need to endure it anymore.
Some elderly people even rely on the old to sell the old, unscrupulously venting their dissatisfaction, making people resentful.
For a while, there was a saying in society that "it's not people who get old and get bad, it's that bad people get old." Whether it is Su Daqiang at home, the Beijing Tongtianwen aunt on the bus, or the overlord old couple on the high-speed rail, they all make the world extremely disgusted.
In fact, whether it is about others or for one's own life, the older a person is, the more he should "endure".
The word forbearance keeps you safe, the word forbearance prevents casting into a big mistake, the word forbearance makes you healthy in your old age, the word forbearance can make you realize your experience, and the word forbearance can make your family extremely Tailai, and the blessings are repeated.
The word ninja can help you get through your retirement smoothly.
Once a person retires, their lives are turned upside down.
Before retirement, the door is full of hustle and bustle;The back door of retirement is full of people and inaccessible. Before retirement, there are many opportunities to sleep and forget to eat, and after retirement, there is nothing to do and bored. Before retirement, he hugged each other with a smile, and after retirement, he was alone, and his eyebrows were cold.
In the face of changes that seem to be a lifetime away, "forbearance" is a panacea that cures your retirement syndrome. Patience and adaptation are the right way. Whoever can endure the temperament will be able to adapt as soon as possible and get out of the psychological trap. Those who do not accept reality, are psychologically unbalanced. Either the atmosphere hurts the body, or everyone hates it, or enters a mental hospital, or enters the Yellow Spring early.
In addition to the psychological gap, retirees must also endure the decline in physical health. Movements that used to be simple to do may now be very difficult to do, and some of the sports that used to be easy to do are now afraid to even get involved for fear of injury. You need to wear glasses to see things, and some need to wear hearing aids to hear sounds.
The attitude of family members is also changing, from relying on the pillars to caring for the disadvantaged members. Family affection is still the same, but the way is different, and the angle of care is also different. As a retiree, be patient and gradually accept this fact. This is the law of nature and the trend of the times.
Our own financial situation is also very different from what it was before retirement, and there will be no surprises with a single pathway. The way of making a family leap by making a lot of money is basically not working. Retirement salary, you can't starve to death, but you can't hold on to it.
Time has become our richest thing, and it used to be exchanged for time, but now it is reversed. We can use time to make up for many regrets:
To do things that have not been done before, to see places that have not been before;
To experience life that you have not experienced before, to let go of all your dreams.
But no matter what you do, the word ninja must always be in mind:
You can't do things that are beyond your ability, you can't go beyond the moral laws to act recklessly, you can't ignore your family, you can't harm others and benefit yourself.