There are some people who treat their leaders, colleagues and friends as warm as spring, but treat their wives and children as ruthlessly as the autumn wind sweeping away the leaves. When he is sober, he is like a righteous gentleman, but when he is drunk, he is fierce and vicious, and he is often picky.
Fourth, beating his wife and scolding his son, making the family a mess!
This kind of phenomenon is often caused by bad emotions, some of which come from work pressure, some from investment failure, some from social barriers, some from poor career paths, some from poor capital turnover, and so on. In the face of these bad emotions, as a person who wants to get both promotion opportunities and financial status, he will definitely restrain his emotions and present his perfect image in front of others.
In the face of stress, wise people will find ways to release stress through normal means, while confused people will use their wives and children as tools to vent their anger. While feeling more intimate, comfortable, and comfortable with your family, you also mistakenly believe that everything that happened today is to blame on your family, your wife, and your children. So, vent all your anxiety, irritability and grievances on your family. There is a good saying: do not do to general friends, do not do to close relatives and friends. For some people we don't know, we can all get along with love, but to our loved ones yelling, punching and kicking, how cruel it is.
Therefore, for people in the workplace and shopping malls, we must learn to eliminate bad emotions, so as to build a happy family.
Clause. First, we must accept difficulties and setbacks, and fully realize that any success is accompanied by difficulties and failures, and success without failure does not exist at all, and it is impossible to gain without setbacks.
Clause. Second, to learn effective ways to relieve stress and improve mood, you can use exercise, yoga, meditation and other forms to divert attention and stabilize emotions.
Clause. 3. Learn to communicate, communication between husband and wife is essential for the construction of a happy family, destructive communication will ruin your happiness, and positive communication can increase the feelings between both parties. For example, if the husband fails to invest, as a wife always complains, abuses and slanders her husband, instead of understanding, tolerating and encouraging her husband from a positive perspective, then the contradictions will become bigger and bigger, and there will be more and more disputes.
Clause. Fourth, it is necessary to form a community of interests, turn "me" into "we", and turn my career into our cause and the cause of our family, so as to achieve both prosperity and loss. Do things together, not alone, without considering the feelings of the other person. Men should not be "machismo", and women should not be "female men".
Clause. Fifth, we must learn to appreciate, to understand each other's difficulties, to see each other's contributions, to find each other's shining points, if the husband and wife will not appreciate, the real gold will also be dull.