Each person has their own unique behavior, which reflects a person's personality and character.
However, some people's words can amplify their good impressions, while the words and actions of some may reveal their bad character traits.
For women, saying these words often not only exposes their low emotional intelligence, but also shows their low personality, which will appear to be very underestimated.
Maybe it is unintentional when speaking, but the listener is intentional, and it is recommended that when talking to outsiders, these three things that cannot be said should be resolutely not said.
Complaining about the unfairness of life.
Feel the most unlucky.
No one's life is always smooth sailing, some people just learn to hide their truest emotions, because after saying it, they can't change the status quo, and sometimes it will become a conversation record for others before and after meals, so they will be silent, be a mature person, and swallow all the hardships in life.
Of course, there are also those who choose to amplify their grief and tell everyone about the misfortunes of life.
At the beginning, I will be sympathetic to the unfortunate situation, but if I don't change, I know that I am not willing to resist the unfortunate situation, and I am willing to hold back my mouth but complain, and over time, continuing to complain will become a harsh voice, and I will no longer sympathize with others, after all, this has become the most negative attitude of a person towards his own life.
Erin Keller said
A person of character should learn to face life positively and not let negative emotions take over. Low-level people put all the blame on others, always complain and never solve problems.
Lie often. is dishonest.
The statesman Winston Churchill once said:
For a person, honesty is also a very important quality, honest people are more likely to win the respect of others and win a variety of life opportunities, in contrast, people who are full of lies not only consume others' distrust of themselves, show their unreliability, but also expose the confidence of character.
I have always felt that people who like to lie treat others as fools, not to mention, people who like to lie can't deceive others, and those who can deceive are people who believe in themselves, and liaring is tantamount to overdrawing their own reputation.
Women with a bad character often use lies to cover up their shortcomings and mistakes.
Such women lack the courage to self-reflect and change themselves. Instead, they trick others into getting what they want. This behavior is a disguise of irresponsibility to others and to oneself.
Too arrogant. Always criticize others.
Everyone's identity and status in real life are always equal, no one is too noble, and no one is too humble.
That is to say, in the process of interacting with others, the most appropriate attitude is to be yourself, respect others who have different values from your own, do not impose your own cognition on others, find yourself unsatisfied, and criticize regardless of occasion and identity.
I learned a lesson: when I worked in a beauty salon in my early years, because the boss paid special attention to me, I also thought of myself very highly, in fact, the boss did not give me the right to be the store manager, I felt that I was a level higher than other friends.
So, when I find something inappropriate at work, I get angry with my other partners until they can't bear to treat me with the same attitude, and I realize how wrong I am.
We should have a positive attitude towards ourselves and others, identify problems and work to solve them, instead of just blaming and trying to put all the blame on the other person in a bad tone.
In life, we should cherish our character and character, and constantly improve our inner cultivation and quality.
At the same time, we should also be wary of women with poor personalities and not be influenced by their negative emotions and behaviors.
Of course, the temporary low emotional intelligence perception does not mean that I can't be elegant, realize that I work hard to improve, or I can twist my reputation and make my personality more valuable.