In our lives, there are always some people who like to use their own standards to evaluate and demand from others. They believe that everyone should be in a state of energy and vitality, otherwise it is not normal. However, this thinking is incorrect because everyone has their own life experiences and emotional experiences, and their state and emotions will also vary as a result.
First of all, everyone has their own rhythm and way of life. Some people like to lead a busy life, pursuing career success and fame;Others prefer a quiet life and pursue inner peace and freedom. Either way, as long as it is in line with the individual's values and life needs, it is worthy of respect. We should not use our own standards to evaluate and interfere in the lives of others, let alone use the standards of brilliance to demand from others.
Secondly, everyone's mood and state fluctuate. Sometimes we may feel tired, lost, or depressed, but these are normal emotional experiences. We can't expect ourselves or others to be in a high emotional state at all times, because that's unrealistic. Sometimes, proper rest and adjustment are necessary, which helps us to face life's challenges better.
Finally, we must also learn to accept and understand the differences of others. Everyone has their own personality, interests, and habits, and these differences are part of who we are. We cannot use our own standards to demand that others change themselves, let alone discriminate against or reject them because of this. We should respect the differences of others and learn to appreciate and tolerate them, so that we can build a harmonious society.
In short, don't ask about other people's lives by the standard that everyone should be looking good. We should respect everyone's individuality and lifestyle, and not use our own standards to judge and demand from others. At the same time, we must also learn to understand and accept the differences of others to build a harmonious society.
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