The meaning of reading is to read the words of your predecessors, feel your own heart, and cleanse your soul. Read with what you feel in life, and live with what you get from reading. Reading and life complement each other and are perfectly combined. Today, take a look at these 3 sentences of Caigen Tan, maybe there is another inspiration for your life.
Caigen Tan Youyan:"When you meet a person who is silent and silent, don't lose your heart;When you see a person who is self-conscious, you should guard against it. "Meaning: When you meet a person who is invisible, you must not rush to put your heart in your heart;When you see an irritable and self-righteous person, be extra careful about what you say. As the saying goes, the road knows the horsepower, and the people will see the hearts of the people over time.
Knowing people and knowing faces but not knowing their hearts, a person's heart, when you meet for the first time, don't easily deliver your sincerity. You should learn to recognize the person and spend enough time to confirm whether the person is worthy of your sincerity.
For people whose joy and anger have not changed in their faces, the city government must be very deep and hidden, and this kind of person cannot be in a hurry to show his sincerity.
People who are more short-tempered and have an unstable temperament, such people are not worth delivering. First of all, he is emotionally unstable, he doesn't treat things sincerely, and what you say may become an outlet for him to take advantage of.
"Caigen Tan" has a saying: "The article is done to the extreme, there is nothing strange, just right;."The character is extreme, there is no difference, just natural. ”Meaning: The article is the best it can be, there is no special method, just just the right one;The character cultivation is extremely high, and there is nothing special about it, just returning to his natural nature.
The road to simplicity, behind the beauty must be plain and simple, too dazzling things, after all, can not withstand the precipitation of the years, only elegant and concise, can stand the test of time.
There are too many flowery words, which are inevitably high-sounding and a bit contrived. A good article must come naturally, without too much rhetoric, too much rhetoric repair, everything is just right and just right.
Being a person is also, a person's practice, deliberately seems to be a good practice, according to the cat and the tiger, Dong Shi imitates, Handan toddler, so that he loses his most basic things, and finally learns nothing like nothing.
Good cultivation must be natural, from the heart, consistent with words and deeds, consistent with what is on the outside and what is inside, not pretentious, not false.
"Caigen Tan" has a saying: "I can't read my merits to others, and I can't read them when I pass;People are kind to me and cannot be forgotten, and grievances must not be forgotten. ”Meaning: Don't take it to heart when you help others, and remember when you have made mistakes to others;We can't forget that others are kind to us, and we must forget what others have done to be sorry for us.
Man is alive, half sober, half confused. Always remember the good of others, and your resentment will be reduced in your heart, and you will feel that the world is full of love. Since ancient times, the grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by springs.
In this world, you have to understand a truth, it is your duty to help you, and it is your duty not to help you. No one has to be good to you, to those who are good to you, to those who help you, we must be grateful, and we must not forget in our hearts.
Helping others ourselves, we should learn to forget, always remember, you will think about reciprocating, maybe the result will not be as you wish, and there will be another trouble in your heart.
If you have made mistakes to others, you must always remember that people must constantly improve themselves, and only by awakening from their mistakes can they grow. When others are wrong with us, we must learn to be confused, and to let others go is actually to let go of ourselves.
Written by Maple Leaf.