Jiang Dehua finally married Lao Ding after many difficulties, and Ge Meixia also experienced many twists and turns, and finally became Wang Zhenbiao's wife.
Although both men had experienced a second marriage, it was a very good marriage for the woman at the time.
Lao Ding is the father of four boys.
Before marrying Jiang Dehua, Lao Ding and Wang Xiu'e already had four sons. Therefore, when it came to the import of Tian Ding, Lao Ding never felt anxious, nor was he worried about the interruption of the incense.
Wang Zhenbiao: Wang Haiyang is the only son who betrayed.
After getting married: Lao Ding and Jiang Dehua soon welcomed their fifth child, Ding Xiaoxiang.
This is a girl who makes Lao Ding deeply infatuated.
Wang Zhenbiao and Ge Meixia have been living in a world of two people and have not brought any new members to the Wang family, what is the reason behind this?
Jiang Dehua has a deep love for children.
Jiang Dehua carefully observed the five children of his brother's family with his own hands. The reason why she is willing to give is because of the pressure of life, but also because of her deep affection for her children.
When Jiang Weiguo was attacked, Jiang Dehua's heartache even exceeded An Jie's.
When Jiang Changyi received a slap from Jiang Defu, it was Jiang Dehua who took him back to his residence.
Therefore, Jiang Dehua's love for his children is deep in the bone marrow, whether it is his brother's family, or the children of Lao Ding and Wang Xiu'e, Jiang Dehua regards them as his own children.
As Zhang Guiying commented: "This aunt is even more attentive than her mother." ”
For a woman like Jiang Dehua who loves her children deeply, having her own children is undoubtedly the greatest joy.
Lao Ding is very clear about this. Therefore, even if Lao Ding has more sons, he must have another child with Jiang Dehua.
From Wang Haiyang's comments on Teacher Ge, we can clearly feel that Ge Meixia does not like her children.
When Ge Meixia was a teacher, she felt very helpless, always perfunctory and impatient with the children.
In the process of teaching**, Ge Meixia was confused about the teaching progress of each class, and often had to repeat a song several times in the same class.
In addition, not only Wang Haiyang, but other students were also not interested in this teacher, otherwise Ge Meixia would not have reminded her
Jiang Dehua did not have a stable economy in his later years**.
Jiang Dehua has always stayed at Anjie's home to take care of the children, and has no stable job.
In fact, even if Jiang Dehua is not educated, Jiang Defu still has the ability to arrange suitable positions for him. Because he has a good job in the supply and marketing cooperative - as a director, deputy manager and accountant. After all, those Yan Feng, who are not even familiar with big characters, are qualified to work in the supply and marketing cooperative.
However, since An Jie and Jiang Defu have been giving birth, Jiang Dehua always needs to be responsible for taking care of their children. Therefore, not only did Jiang Dehua not have enough time to learn Xi cultural knowledge, but even his work problems were never properly handled.
Therefore, Jiang Dehua did not have a stable economy in his later years**.
Jiang Defu and Lao Ding are very aware of this fact. This requires us to prepare his children. Therefore, after Jiang Dehua gets married, Lao Ding will definitely be eager to have a child. At least, it provides Jiang Dehua with a long-term support.
In fact, Jiang Dehua did experience some unfortunate moments in his later years. She was an honest farmer, the third oldest in the family, and a well-known landowner in the village before her father's death. Although Jiang Dehuasheng is known as Ding Xiaoyan, she does not have Jiang Yafei's impulsive personality and cannot protect her mother's rights and interests. In those days, her fate was tragic. Therefore, shortly after Lao Ding's death, Jiang Dehua had no choice but to return to his brother and sister-in-law's house.
In fact, Jiang Dehua has always chosen to stay in the home where she and Lao Ding live together, which is completely acceptable. However, if all the children of Lao Ding's family are to pay child support to Jiang Dehua, some people may be dissatisfied with this.
Jiang Defu and An Jie are more than capable of hiring a nanny to take care of their daily lives. Because he has a very good son, and he is a very good child, he has become the most ideal candidate for work in the eyes of nannies. They are eligible for this treatment, both in terms of economic status and rank.
Why do you want to choose Jiang Dehua, who is also old?
This should be the greatest kindness shown by Jiang Defu and An Jie. In addition, they also specially arranged the role of this lobbyist for Jiang Yafei, and the meaning behind this is obvious.
You are in charge of my children, and we are concerned about your old age.
Let's talk about Mr. Ge again. She is a very capable person and very gentle. Ge Meixia, a professional woman, worked as a primary school teacher on the island before following Wang Zhenbiao back to the city. Not only is she good-looking, but she also has a wealth of knowledge and cultural background.
When Wang Zhenbiao returned to the city, it was natural for her to find a job opportunity.
As long as there is a stable job, the economy can be secured.
As a result, she was able to enjoy her retirement without any stress.
In addition, considering that Wang Haiyang is a professor who has returned from studying abroad and is married to a filial daughter-in-law like Jiang Yafei, there is naturally no need for Mr. Ge to worry about his later life.
The child became the last comfort in Jiang Dehua's life.
For Jiang Dehua, a person who has dedicated his life, giving birth to Ding Xiaoxiang is not just to solve his daily life problems. In his opinion, having a child comes with a responsibility, because this child is not only his own child, but also his family. Ding Xiaoyan has such a thought in her heart: she is a family member who is closely related to Lao Ding, and she is also a daughter who can accompany her.
Jiang Dehua's world is so small that there are only Lao Ding and his children.
Over the years, Jiang Dehua has silently paid a lot for Lao Ding, not only taking care of the eldest children, but also taking care of his grandchildren. He said that he was a member of the Communist Party and an ordinary person. I never considered fighting for any kind of benefit for myself.
Although Jiang Dehua was Xi to giving for others, he never really learned to live alone.
However, Ge Meixia never lacks companionship, and she never feels lonely and lonely.
Having worked as a primary school teacher, she will definitely maintain a harmonious relationship with Wang Haiyang's children.
People like Ge Meixia, who can savor coffee in the yard, make her realize that there are many good things in life. It is entirely possible to pursue true happiness in your time alone.
Therefore, Ge Meixia is not afraid of being unaccompanied.
After all, most of the time spent with us is short-lived, and each of us will be lonely into old age.
In fact, Jiang Dehua has become a very outstanding woman. She always knew what kind of life she was pursuing, and she was more willing to sacrifice her dignity to pursue this lifestyle.
Many years ago, Jiang Dehua did not listen to the advice of his brother and sister-in-law, nor was he afraid of the gossip of neighbors, and firmly took care of Lao Ding and his son, which moved Lao Ding and made him become his wife as he wished.
However, due to the different environments and knowledge levels, people's thinking patterns will inevitably be different. In my opinion, happiness has little to do with pain, because pain is just a state, and happiness is the ultimate goal of life. Of course, happiness is judged by different criteria.
Therefore, in the later life of Jiang Dehua and Ge Meixia, who can live a happier life, and who can clearly express it?
Jiang Dehua's busyness and Ge Meixia's tranquility are undoubtedly symbols of happiness for them.