In "Parents' Love", Jiang Defu's eldest daughter Yafei has been a fiery girl since she was a child. Don't be afraid of things and dare to stand up for your family.
For such a chili girl, those who like her say that she is straightforward and fast-talking, and those who dislike her say that she has a poisonous mouth and is unforgiving.
Throughout the play, I found that everyone's understanding of Yafei was too one-sided.
Whether she is a daughter, a daughter-in-law, or a friend, she is sincere and sincere, and she is really a person with the most affection and sex.
01 Yafei is a person who values feelings rather than power
Yafei is the daughter of the commander, and in the eyes of ordinary people, she must be looking at the sky with her eyes.
But in the play, judging from her two relationships, she values her feelings, not the status of the other party.
Jiang Defu and An Jie like Yafei the most, and they have always kept Yafei by their side, because she is not only intimate and filial, but also dares to say and do, and is willing to stand up for them when there is something, and Yafei does not live up to their expectations.
An Jie didn't expect that Yafei was good at everything, but she broke her heart in love.
An Jie felt that Meng Tianzhu, the director of the Political Department, was very similar to Jiang Defu when he was young, he was a high-performing stock with a promising future, and it was appropriate for her to introduce him to Yafei.
Helplessly, Yafei can't look down on the "hungry" director Meng Tianzhu who is full of rural accents, even if he is about to be promoted, he has a good future.
After the blind date banquet, she packed a box of dumplings and left. An Jie asked her who she brought it to, and Yafei half-truthfully told An Jie that she brought it to the subject. An Jie thought she was joking, but she didn't take it seriously.
On this day, Yafei's uncle Lao Ding went to the beach to fish, but he didn't expect him to find out that Yafei and Secretary Yu Daguang were in love, and Lao Ding hurriedly reported to Jiang Defu and An Jie.
An Jie was very dissatisfied when he learned that Yafei was just talking about a secretary. She felt that Yafei was the daughter of the commander, and she was already an instructor, and her rank was far higher than that of Daguang, so how could she find someone with worse conditions than her?
An Jie persuaded Yafei, but Yafei felt that there was no distinction between high and low people, and insisted on talking to the secretary.
So, An Jie asked Lao Ding to find Yu Daguang and asked him if he was in a relationship with Yafei, but Yu Daguang flatly denied it. After all, they just secretly like it and haven't confessed to each other yet.
What's more, Yafei's family clearly disagrees with Yafei being with him, and Yu Daguang is afraid that if he insists on insisting, it will make these leaders unhappy and affect his future in the future.
Yu Daguang weighed the pros and cons and chose the future, he was transferred, Yafei fell in love for the first time, and he valued feelings, but he looked away.
A few years later, Yafei met his neighbor Wang Haiyang, who came back from studying abroad, and Wang Haiyang was no longer a child when he was a child, he became a university teacher.
Yafei and Wang Haiyang started to hate each other, and slowly found out that the other party was the kind of person they liked, Yafei didn't mind that Wang Haiyang divorced and had a child, and they slowly came together naturally.
Although Yafei was born in a ** family, she never thought about finding an object with comparable conditions, she is a person who values feelings, and feels that feelings should be pure, and don't care about some external things.
After marrying Wang Haiyang, Yafei got the happy life she wanted.
02 Yafei is an empathetic person
In the play, Ge Meixia's 66th birthday is coming, and Yafei, as a daughter-in-law, heard that sixty-six wants to eat a knife of meat from her daughter. She went to the vegetable market to buy pork for her mother-in-law.
Ge Meixia was the daughter of a fisherman, in that era, she was educated and beautiful, and she didn't dare to marry her if she had good conditions;She can't look down on her even if the conditions are poor. After coming and going, he dragged people to middle age and married the widowed Wang political commissar - Wang Haiyang's father.
Ge Meixia got married late and had no children of her own, only one stepson, Wang Haiyang.
Fortunately, Wang Haiyang and Yafei are good to her, after all, as long as Commissar Wang and her are doing well, as juniors, what else do they have to worry about.
And Yafei also considered that her mother-in-law had no children of her own, and she would be very disappointed when she saw other old ladies enjoying her daughter's filial piety.
Yafei, who rarely cooks, didn't know how much meat to buy, so she asked her mother An Jie, and provoked An Jie to eat the boss's vinegar.
Yafei is good to her mother-in-law, and she is even more intimate to her aunt Dehua, who has brought her since she was a child.
When his uncle Lao Ding died, several of Dehua's stepsons only considered letting Lao Ding and his deceased mother Wang Xiu'e be buried together, and did not consider Dehua, who had been with Lao Ding for more than 30 years, to do housework for a few of them with their children, and they were busy all their lives, but they ignored them cleanly.
Dehua felt aggrieved, Jiang Defu and An Jie felt that it was inconvenient for them to meddle in the affairs of the Ding family. At this time, it was Yafei who took the initiative to reason with Lao Ding's sons.
Yafei, who was humiliated for her aunt, shed tears and laid out her aunt Dehua's dedication to them one by one, and in the end, she won a reasonable plan for her aunt to be buried together a hundred years later.
Yafei can empathize with her mother-in-law's loss and feel sorry for her aunt's grievances, all because she empathizes with other people's emotions and has an empathy to put herself in the shoes of others.
03 Yafei is a person who loves and hates clearly
Among the 5 children of the Jiang family, Yafei is the most sensible person, she loves and hates clearly, and protects her mother An Jie the most at home.
When Jiang Changyi came to the door and called Jiang Defu "Dad", An Jie was furious for a while and rushed into the room angrily, she felt that Jiang Defu was deliberately deceiving her when he said that he would divorce and have no children.
And Jiang Defu recognized Jiang Changyi for the sake of the Jiang family's face, the ex-wife cheated on his second brother and gave birth to a child.
An Jie, who didn't know the real situation, couldn't bear this breath in her heart, she almost broke up with Jiang Defu because of his divorce.
Later, Jiang Defu promised her that he would divorce but not have children, and he was already in love with Jiang Defu at that time, so he still married him.
Now that such an eldest son appeared out of thin air, An Jie was angry, and the next morning, she packed her clothes and went back to her mother's house in Qingdao.
As for the brothers and sisters of the An family, only Yafei understood her mother's feelings, she crossed her hands on her waist, stared at Jiang Changyi with horizontal eyebrows, and did not give him a good look.
During the meal, Yafei scolded his father Jiang Defu, saying that he was not qualified to take care of himself now. She was angry that her father had done something sorry for her mother.
And the other children, as if nothing had happened, some people called Brother Jiang Changyi, someone handed him a towel, and the dumplings that should be put under the dumplings, they didn't think about how painful their mother's heart was.
When Jiang Defu arranged for Jiang Changyi to serve as a soldier in Ningbo, Jiang Changyi asked to take a family photo with their family. Jiang Defu thought about the deceased second brother and agreed.
When Jiang Defu led the children and Jiang Changyi to take a group photo, Yafei didn't say anything, she felt that she couldn't be sorry for her mother.
Later, An Jie returned to the island and found a photo of Jiang Defu with the children and Jiang Changyi, and there was no Yafei on it.
An Jie asked Yafei, why is there no you?Yafei said naturally, you are not here, why should I go with them to shoot?
In Yafei's heart, family is very important, and Jiang Changyi hurt his mother's feelings, that is, his enemy. She loves her loved ones very much, and she also has a strong hatred for those who hurt them.
She is a person who loves and hates very clearly.
Conclusion
In the TV series, Yafei's personality also made some viewers dislike it, thinking that she was too strong.
At home, Yafei is not afraid of anyone, she scolds her two brothers at any time, and her younger brother says that she will beat her when she raises her hand, and she will scold her sister if she wants to. She seems unreasonable, but in fact, she loves deeply and hates it.
She is never ambiguous when it comes to big things.
Teach lazy younger brothers and sisters-in-law to protect their parents;criticize the sons of Lao Ding, who don't know how to be grateful, and protect the rights and interests of their aunts;Be kind to your mother-in-law and stepson, and maintain the happiness of your small family.
Yafei is really a person who values love and righteousness and true temperament.