My name is Li Yongqiang, I am 64 years old, and I was a secondary school teacher before I retired. I have four properties, two that my ex-wife and I bought when we got married, and two that I bought myself after I retired. After my ex-wife died, I lived alone for a few years and was very lonely. Until one day, I met a widow Zhang Man, who was 10 years younger than me.
*, Uncle Li is in such good health and full of energy, he can live for at least 20 years!Zhang Man said with a smile. I really like her lively and cheerful personality. After a few dates, I fell in love with her. Eventually, we decided to get married.
After getting married, Zhang Man and her daughter Xiaofang lived together in a 130-square-meter house under my name. I have a pension of 5,000 yuan a month, plus my rent income, and my life is very comfortable. At first, Zhang Man was very good to me, often cooked food for me and took care of my daily life. I also did my best to take care of her and Xiaofang.
After a year of marriage, Zhang Man's attitude suddenly changed. She started to be vexatious and often quarreled with me. For example, when I forgot to classify garbage, she was furious: "Li Yongqiang, why are you so confused, I have taught you all over the time, and I won't change it!."I explained that it was an occasional mistake, and she didn't accept it and just threw the door away.
Once, we had an argument over the house. "Zhang Man, I plan to leave these houses to Xiaofang in the future, do you think this is good?I suggested. Zhang Man immediately exploded: "What do you mean to leave it to Xiaofang?."Isn't this our house?What's my business then?”
I explained that this was my plan all along, I had no children, and I wanted to leave my property to Xiaofang.
I can understand that you don't have children, but that doesn't mean you don't have to take me seriously!Zhang Man was very angry, "I am your wife now, and it stands to reason that these properties are now the two of us, how can you only think about Xiaofang and not consider my feelings?."”
Only then did I realize that I might have hurt Zhang Man, so I immediately apologized: "I'm sorry, my decision was wrong, we should discuss." ”
Zhang Man snorted and stopped talking.
Since that quarrel, Zhang Man's attitude towards me has become worse and worse, and sometimes even vexatious. For example, one time, I forgot to bring in her underwear after I had washed it, and she just threw all the clothes I had washed and hung on the balcony to the floor.
What are you doing!"I was stunned.
Teach you a lesson!Let you know to respect me!Zhang Man was right.
Just because I didn't bring your clothes in, you just scolded me for throwing my clothes?I couldn't believe it, "That's too much, isn't it?"”
Am I just going too far?Divorce!I'm going to divorce you!Zhang Man shouted.
I saw that she was really unreasonable, and she also lost her temper: "Okay!".Divorce is divorce!Please come back!”
Do you really want me to go?Zhang Man asked with red eyes.
I'll think about it again. "Looking at her like this, I still can't bear to divorce her like this.
So we reconciled again. But a few days later, Zhang Man went crazy again because of a trivial matter and said that he wanted a divorce. This kind of divorce quarrel is becoming more and more frequent, and I am also annoyed.
One day, I couldn't bear it anymore and decided to have a showdown with her: "Zhang Man, what do you want?".We've been married for a year, why do you keep saying divorce?”
Zhang Man said confidently: "Because you treat me badly, I don't have a husband, why should I be tricked by you every day?"”
I was helpless: "I'm not good to you?".I don't let you do the work at home, I let you drive the car, and I give you thousands of dollars a month to spend, which is not good enough?”
That's how it should be!I'm your wife now, of course you should support me!Zhang Man said squeamishly.
It dawned on me that she was making my money!She doesn't love me at all!
Zhang Man, look clearly, as far as the conditions of the two of us are concerned, I marry you to promote you, you are a widow who is not employed and in poor health, I can not marry you!I was a little annoyed.
You!Zhang Man's eyes widened, "Why do you say that about me!."My feelings are all real!”
Then why do you always get divorced?What the hell do you want?I asked.
Zhang Man didn't speak, and lowered his head.
My heart softened, and most of the anger just now disappeared: "Forget it, it's my delusion anyway." Let's get along well in the future, don't always quarrel about divorce. ”
Zhang Man nodded sincerely. Since then, Zhang Man seems to have really changed. She no longer loses her temper over trivial things and is gentle and considerate to me. I feel much more at ease and feel that our marriage is finally on the right track.